Will rural families be looked down upon by their neighbors if they don't buy a car?

As a post-80s generation, cars are not very developed. I remember seeing cars scattered on the road when I was a child, and I was envious. People who watch the drivers think it's handsome. With the development of society, especially in recent years, our country's economy has developed rapidly, and private cars have mushroomed, which is not only full of urban cars. Every holiday, rural vehicles also begin to line up, and the luxury of vehicles competes with each other, which is staggering. Besides, I went out to work and went home in recent years. Others drive, but they don't drive. I really want to feel humiliated, as if I were looked down upon by others. In fact, I think I can have this idea mainly because of my own psychology. So if you don't buy a car in the countryside, will your neighbors laugh at you when you go home? What kind of situation do I think may need to be divided?

1. As a product of an era, cars have really brought great convenience to our lives. Make our life more and more convenient. With the development of China's economy, the income of ordinary migrant workers is getting higher and higher. It is understandable that migrant workers go home with a lot of money to buy a car after working for a few years. In the final analysis, the development of the country is to let ordinary people and ordinary people enjoy the dividend of development, live a better life and live a happier life. In recent years, the automobile industry in our country has developed vigorously. Now, under the impact of domestic fares, a car can be driven by hundreds of thousands or tens of thousands, and it is relatively simple to buy a car. Of course, although rural people are buying more and more cars, some people still can't afford or don't want to buy them. Will all these people be laughed at? I don't think so. Now that rural areas generally don't buy cars, it doesn't mean that they can't afford to buy cars or never buy cars.

Second, as a rural person, I have worked for so many years. Who works well outside and earns a high salary? In fact, friends and relatives all know, including those who gossip at the entrance of the village every day. So buying a car or not proves nothing. Just like the best people in our village who mix outside, the cars they drive home are hundreds of thousands of ordinary cars, and sometimes they ride bicycles. But what can this prove? Everyone in the village knows that people do the biggest business abroad, and the big boss earns tens of millions of dollars a year. So having a car doesn't mean your strength, and it doesn't prove how successful you are. Similarly, your friends have worked outside for several years and have some savings on hand, but obviously the nature of savings and work can't support you to buy a luxury car at all, but you have to borrow money to buy a car of 300 thousand. As a wage earner, he can't drive for a few days every month, but he can't breathe because of the pressure of car loan, gas fee and maintenance fee. Only when we go home on holiday and pretend to be rich, in fact, everyone knows what's going on and is laughed at. What's the point? Just "the emperor's new clothes".

Third, as a rural person, if you feel that you don't have a car to go back, will you be laughed at? This is a kind of self-distrust and inferiority. As I said above, people who are really good are low-key. So when you think about whether others will laugh at you, you must first cultivate yourself. Just like we sometimes see Jack Ma, the boss of Alibaba, whom everyone knows, Jack Ma sometimes goes out wearing a pair of "Beijing old cloth shoes" on Taobao for hundreds of dollars to attend world-famous conferences. Does Ma Yun have no money? Can't boss Ma afford it? Does anyone else need to laugh at Ma Yun? I don't think it's possible. The most important thing is Ma Yun's self-confidence and recognition of value. Because Ma Yun doesn't need to wear tens of thousands of clothes to prove that he is rich, because people all over the world know that others are rich. Not bad money! So your self-confidence and real strength are the most important.

The times are developing and the country is making progress. It is also an inevitable stage of social development for rural people to buy cars. So I don't have to worry about others. People with real strength will be respected when they go, and those without strength will really make people laugh.

Hello, I'm Xiao Juan. I have the following views on whether rural families will be looked down upon if they don't buy a car.

One: No car in the countryside now won't make people look down on you, because it's not difficult for most families to buy a car. After all, there are still many choices for entry-level domestic cars of 30,000 to 40,000 yuan. You won't look down on you because you don't have a car, but some people may look down on you from the heart. People like them will think that they can't even afford a car with tens of thousands of dollars. This person must be a loser. I have had personal experience. I didn't buy a car myself at that time. My husband and I are going to the city to attend the ceremony. One of my cousins bought a car. My husband asked my cousin if he could take us with him because he wanted to accompany him. He said he couldn't, and finally we went by car. When we got to that place, my cousin followed us, but his car was empty, so he left his wife alone. I am really speechless. Then, two days later, I bought a car myself. So I think that if rural families don't buy cars now, they will still be looked down upon by some people.

Two: In the rural area of Qingyang, Gansu where I live, cars have become a necessity in rural areas. It is natural to talk about friends, blind date, engagement, marriage and buying a car from the post-95 s to the present 00 s. There is no reason or excuse. Unless there are few families, most married people will buy cars. Of course, the price of buying a car in rural areas is mostly around 500-65438+ 10,000, and all of them are people who grew up in rural areas. Their own families all know that they want to buy a car, because everyone else has bought it. Second, although they may not drive much after buying a car, they are sometimes really worried about not having a car. It will be convenient to have your own car.

In fact, you don't have to care too much about other people's opinions. If you need a car, you can buy a car. If you don't have this car demand, you have to keep a car after buying it. This cost is also quite a lot. I don't know what you think of the huge difference between having a car and not having a car in the countryside. People will look down on those who don't have a car.

I have seen a lot of this problem with my own eyes, because the countryside is completely different now, and the concept and standard of life have improved. It used to be good to have a motorcycle at home, but now it is not good without a car and a house.

This seems to look down on this problem. I think it's different. Some neighbors don't think so, others don't. If you don't have a car, he will look down on you. Now the countryside is the same as the city. If you have a car, you have face.

Moreover, the competition in the country is fierce now. If you don't say whether you have a car or not, your income will be low, and people will say behind your back that you have seen too many such things. I am also an out-and-out rural person, just like my friends around me. If he bought a car, you would look at him differently. The most important thing is that you are too competitive.

Indeed, there is such a person. He is jealous when others buy a car. If he buys a car, he looks down on people who don't buy a car and thinks how arrogant he is. This is exactly what "other mountains look short under the sky." It is the peak of the mountain. " Such snobs abound in our countryside.

This problem should exist. When cars become more and more popular, whether they are needed or not, cars will be regarded as a representative of face in rural areas, but they should not be all, only that they should be popularized. When neighbors have their own, they will be in certain circumstances.

Personally, I think buying a car depends on the needs and conditions, not on saving face. My family is in the countryside. I will certainly envy others buying a car, but I still have to look at my own conditions. If I am swollen and fat, I will end up embarrassed. If I have the conditions, it will be convenient to have my own car. If a person wants to know how to drink water, he must calm down and live a good life. There is no need to care what others think.

No, personally, I think buying a car is for convenience, and it is just a means of transportation. Everyone lives in the countryside, and so does transportation. Some people like driving, others like riding bicycles, and so on. Some people think that driving will pollute the environment, while others think that riding a bike will keep you fit. Cycling brings an elegant environment to the countryside for environmental protection!

This situation should be treated differently. Rural families don't buy cars, and neighbors don't look down on them, because they are old neighbors, and everyone basically knows what their conditions are. On the contrary, buying a car when family conditions do not allow it is laughed at by neighbors.

If you don't buy a car, you won't be looked down upon by others. Now most families will have a car, but the price is different. There are very few families without cars, and no one looks down on anyone. Buying a car with an average price gives you this purchasing power.

From the perspective of people's mentality, I don't think so, because it's not a big problem to buy a car with a price of180,000, but the big problem is the driving and consumption expenses after buying the car. ...