What should I do if my unintentional joke offends others?

At this time, no matter you are a handsome guy or a beautiful woman, no matter how proud you are, you have to put down your airs and go to comfort your friend. After all, it is you who made him angry. So if you apologize and say something nice, the matter will be over. After all, jokes cannot be made randomly. The speaker is unintentional but the listener is intentional. So it's appropriate to lower your head, admit your mistake, and apologize.

This is why I don’t like to joke, because unintentional jokes may hurt others, but the better thing about people who like to joke is that they are more popular. My best friend is a joker. He makes jokes based on his mood and the person he is with. If you are close to him, he will make jokes out of character. For ordinary classmates who have a normal relationship, his jokes are just to lighten the atmosphere. There are also times when I make people angry, like me.

I especially don’t like to drink pure milk, but my mother really likes to let me drink it. She will let me bring a bottle to class every day. My deskmate knows that I don’t like to drink it, so he takes it every time. I would go over and drink some, and then he would bring me a lot of snacks and yogurt to trade with. Our relationship has always been very good, maybe it is what people often call ambiguous. Later, after the liberal arts and sciences were divided into classes, we went to different classes, but he still came to me to get milk as always, and my best friend once stood in front of him He was making fun of both of us.

At that time, because we didn’t realize that we just liked each other, we always thought that we were just ordinary friends, so such a joke would inevitably be a bit abrupt between us. As soon as that joke came out, the relationship between us The atmosphere was very awkward, so I was a little angry at the time, so I went back to the class first. My best friend also noticed that my expression was a bit wrong, so she ran to my seat to coax me, and sat in front of me to make faces for me, but I I really wanted to laugh, but I thought I was angry, so I held it back.

When he saw that I didn’t smile, he thought he didn’t make me laugh. Then when the second period was over, he ran to buy me a lot of snacks, and then used my arms to act cute. Then I forgave him. In fact, it was a very small thing in the first place, but if he didn’t bow his head first and come over to coax me, I might not forgive him so quickly. Instead, I would feel more and more sad as time goes by. angry. So when we unintentionally make others angry because of some unintentional jokes, it’s not a big deal to lower our heads and say sorry.

One word can make a thing happen, and one word can also ruin it. The same is true for friendship. One word can save a friendship, and one word can destroy a friendship. So when your voice gets angry because of an unintentional joke, go and calm the person you made offended.