To my dearest girl

? On a late winter night, I am sitting in my small study room after taking a bath, making a cup of fragrant green tea, and typing on the keyboard with the seriousness of picking up a pen to practice calligraphy. In the one week left before your wedding, write down all my emotions and wishes for you.

? Time goes back to the summer 8 years ago. Before that, I never imagined that I would become good friends with a girl like you. It would be great to sit in the dormitory and recite CET-4 vocabulary on the first day of college. Students are the race of people that pseudo-"good students" like me keep the most distance from. At that time, you were quiet, serious, and cautious, strictly following the schedule of going to bed at 9 a.m. and getting up at 6 a.m., never skipping class and being late, and went to the library on time to review your books on weekends. Every time I see you leaving the dormitory with your schoolbag on your back, still hiding in bed, I will deepen my initial impression.

? But this does not prevent our 327 from being lively. Three loud voices can always sing a show. You listen silently to our chatter about the student union situation, and occasionally try your best to show up in it. Face. And during the midterm and finals, the seat next to you in the library becomes a place where we compete for it, and the homework you missed always requires your perseverance to make up for it. Although I can't match your near-perfect grade points and national scholarships, I never expected that I could keep up with you and win a handful of academic excellence scholarships. After working in the busy student union, I could reach 90 by just cramming. I'll give you a big medal of merit. At that time, our personalities and interests were almost completely different, but we could always find a lot of similarities because of your good temper and my enthusiasm.

? I thought that after I changed my major and changed dormitories, my contact with you would gradually decrease, but I didn’t expect that I would upgrade to countless levels. Until now, I feel that the two most correct choices I made in the past 20 years are related to you. The first one is to prepare for the CPA with you. Originally I just wanted to challenge myself, but I didn't expect that I would be on the "point of no return". Fortunately, you were always there along the way. In the second half of college, from sunrise to sunset, we watched the scenery of the four seasons outside the library window, turned over the books over and over again with headphones plugged in, and how many times we were confused, confused, and wanted to give up. They both patted each other on the shoulders, gritted their teeth and pulled each other to stand up again. Among the many students who applied for the Business School, we were the only two who got the certificate first. We were both very calm when we passed the comprehensive stage. After experiencing so many ups and downs, the vast sea and sky we finally saw were just as we imagined, quiet and peaceful. And grand. This period of youth fighting for dreams shines brightly in my life. Thank you for never giving up and taking me forward.

After graduation, the original group of people all dispersed, leaving only you searching for traces of the past in the rivers and seas of Nuo University. Every time the provincial government issues a notice to go to Nanjing for training, I am extremely happy. I will tell you immediately and count the days with my hands. Just like the little fox in "The Little Prince" said, if you say you will come at four o'clock in the afternoon, I will start to feel very happy from three o'clock in the afternoon. The closer the time is, the happier I will be. At that time, there was no high-speed rail connection from Nantong to Nanjing, so the three-and-a-half-hour bus ride was quite enjoyable. Squeezing into Fangpo and eating a bowl of hot red bean yuanxiao with you is what I look forward to most every time I come to Nanjing. It seems that if you leave Nanjing, no one will talk to me from now on. What I miss most about this city are the people.

? Fortunately, you stayed in Nanjing, where our stories and memories began, making me always feel that Nanjing still has a strong sense of belonging. In these years, we have left our footprints in many places such as the blue sea and silver sand of Jeju Island, the prosperous and simple Xi'an, the holy island of the blue and white town, the solemn and vibrant Italy, etc., and countless of them have been frozen in Xiaobai Canon. Our concave shape and raised mouth corners. The world is so big. It is really a pleasant memory to take a camera with you to touch the beautiful scenery along the way. While there are still expectations and emotions, I hope we can continue the travel story.

? I still remember when we were in college, we were talking about who among the four of us would be the first to get married. We all guessed it was you, but you turned out to be the last one. The other two who laughed at your unique maternal nature were already mothers. . Maybe it’s because you have a younger brother who is very different in age, but your maternal aura has always shone brightly. Two things left a particularly deep impression on me. In the spring of my senior year, I went out for an internship. Every night when I returned to the dormitory, you would cook a pot of porridge or noodles, which was hot and warm. You also liked to cook a whole big potato and bring it to me. Another time I had a fever and was bedridden, and I had to move to the dormitory the next day. My things hadn’t been packed yet. You helped me fold the clothes, put them in my suitcase, and I instantly felt like my mother was driving to the dormitory while I was in the hospital. I was thinking at that time, how happy it would be for anyone to marry you in the future.

? Then I want to say that the other most correct choice I made in the past 20 years was to marry you as Qidong’s wife, hahaha. Thinking of this, both of us would probably snicker, apart from me, and of course your Xiao Zhang. Being a matchmaker for the first time in my life was so successful that I had to ignite a small flame to develop a second career. We went to Europe together this time. The food was not very delicious, but I was quite full after eating the dog food you gave me. Although I am not single, I actually had my mouth stuffed with dog food. This is even scarier, okay? Seeing you bullying Xiao Zhang justifiably, Fatty can't help but sigh and say, "I've led you into trouble," and I'm really happy. It's not just bullying that has led you into trouble, haha. Sometimes people ask me why Xiao Zhang is nice, and I just say, because a kind and maternal girl like you can bully him, tell me whether he is nice to you.

? Although the wealth does not go to outsiders, you are already the wife of my fat best friend, but I am still a little jealous. After all, such a good girl still feels that I am getting an advantage over Xiao Zhang. When you first started working and rented a house, you kept your little nest neat and warm. After get off work, you carefully selected the food market in the community. You closed the door and cooked by yourself. You also planted a handful of celery in a flower pot. , happily told me in the video that when I came to Nanjing, they would fry shredded celery and pork for me, but it finally grew but was eaten by Xiao Zhang. I feel that no matter where you are, you can live a very humane life. Living with you, no matter whether I endure hardship or enjoy happiness, every day is like a day. To use what my mother always said, I am very lucky to marry you.

? I have always felt that our friendship is the best kind. It’s not about relationship, but that over the years, whether we go hand in hand or go separate ways, we are always there when the other person needs us most. Sometimes, he appears with full positive energy, claps and cheers on the roadside, and cheers for the other party's success. We have made progress and growth in this friendship, and this is the best.

? Just like the love between you and Xiao Zhang, there is love and family, there is the indifference of living together with daily necessities, mediocrity and tediousness, the courage to overcome obstacles together, life, old age, illness and death, there is growth, there is a future, there is expectation, maybe This is the most ordinary and beautiful love in the world. Very happy and relieved.

? Suddenly I realized that the sentence at the beginning was too big. How can I express all my emotions and wishes for you in just a few thousand words? But I still want to say something, my favorite Girl, I wish you a lifetime of hard work, a lifetime of being loved, and a lifetime of happiness!

? This article has been conceived and written for several days. Many fragments flashed through my mind, and I remembered the hilarious stories of the female soldiers in the art troupe in "Youth" that I just watched tonight. , full of youth and passion, a bit like us back then. It’s strange to say that although I felt that my student days were a bit monotonous day after day at the time, now I recall them as if they were dyed with colorful colors, just like the photo album you gave me, where ordinary photos were connected together. It turned out to be a very exciting youth past.

? You always said that I have never written an article for you. In fact, it’s not that I don’t want to write, but I always feel that there is something missing when describing the friendship of our group in words, just like the most beautiful scenery. It's the same thing that can't be captured with a camera. This time I finally took advantage of your marriage to write an article. I haven’t been pretentious for a long time. I hope you like it, okay~