Are "gender equality" and "ladies first" opposed to each other?

No, "ladies first" is one of the few positive concepts in the male-dominated society's attitude towards women. Although this concept is based on discrimination, after all, it has the good idea of ??caring for others. One side exists. So now that we have equal rights, I think the first thing is not to obliterate this concept that has some merits, but to reinterpret this behavior, expand the positive aspects of this kind of mutual care between people, and remove men’s unilateral compassion and sympathy for women. Care, expanded to care for each other between men and women. I think this is the way equal rights should be thought of. Because what feminism likes to say is that women are not inferior to men. Since they are not inferior to men, and since women are also strong, then the strong have the ability and right to care for others.