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These six kinds of mothers are the most annoying to children.

These six kinds of mothers are the most annoying to children.

These six kinds of mothers are the most annoying to children. In many families, children are put first. We should actively solve the problems in the process of children's growth. When children grow up, they have their own preferences. Don't let them hate them. Let's share these six kinds of mothers with everyone.

These six kinds of mothers make children hate 1 1 mothers who always speak ill of their other half.

Parents quarreling is the last thing children want to see. Some mothers like to involve their children after quarreling with the other half, and often complain and speak ill of the other half, forcing the children to stand on the same front with themselves.

2. A mother who often cries for poverty

"Mom, our class is organizing an outing this week, and everyone has to pay 100 yuan!"

"How to make money again? Didn't you just organize an activity last time? No money, don't go! "

Some parents often tell their children how poor their families are, how difficult it is to make money by themselves and how hard it is to raise children. Even if children are going to participate in group activities or class reunions, mothers always refuse to let their children participate because they have no money. Mothers always cry for their children, which invisibly labels them as "poor", which easily leads to the formation of inferiority complex. Even if children are rich in the future, they will still be tortured by poverty consciousness and inferiority complex.

3. Negative and pessimistic mothers

"Mom, I didn't do well in this exam. I only got 78 points in Chinese. "

"How can you get into a good university with such a small score and find a good job in the future?"

In fact, when a child encounters setbacks, he needs an optimistic mother to support him and encourage him. On the road to growth, the mother's pessimism will hinder the child's development.

4. Mothers who don't pay attention to their personal image

Children want their mothers to be beautiful, elegant and enviable. Children will feel very proud when a well-dressed mother goes to the parent-teacher conference.

Mothers, try to dress up exquisitely, not only for the sake of children's face and dignity, but also for a life attitude.

5. A mother who lacks compassion

"Mom, my deskmate is very sad recently. Her father seems to be very ill ... "

"Just concentrate on your studies, why bother!"

It is beneficial for children to care about their classmates. Why does the mother kill the child's ability to care about others? Since you have prevented your children from caring about their classmates, what reason do you have to accuse your children of being selfish and not caring about their parents in the future?

6. Kidnapping the child's mother with filial piety

"Mom, how did you eat something on my desk? That was given to me by my friend! "

"I gave birth to you to raise you easily? How can I expect you to be filial to me later? "

Due to the influence of traditional ideas, many parents like to associate everything with filial piety, which has caused great pressure and burden to their children. It's no use always telling children to be filial. The key lies in what parents do. Parents should set an example, respect and be filial to the elderly, and set a good example for their children. Children will naturally be filial to their parents

These six kinds of mothers are children's most annoying mothers, and the second kind is children's most annoying mothers.

A mother who only cares about herself.

Five-year-old Tom said, "My mother often just goes out to play alone, regardless of her family and me. Many times she came home late-in fact, I often fell asleep when she came home. I don't know whether my mother loves me or not. "

Expert evaluation: In fact, such a mother can be called a "selfish mother" and lacks a sense of responsibility for her children. It is suggested that at least 70% of energy and 50% of spare time should be devoted to children as young as 5 years old.

Just thinking about dad's mom.

Linda, who is less than 3 years old, cried and said, "Mom only laughs when she sees her father. She always leaves the best food to her father, not me. She said I was nothing, but my father was everything. I am very angry. "

Expert evaluation: You know, most children in infancy are very sensitive. They often regard their mothers as "private property" and are not allowed to "share" with anyone other than themselves, even their fathers. For Linda who loves "jealousy" so much, her mother should consciously make various performances or hints to increase her confidence that "mother really loves her the most". At the same time, the father should also generously pull away from the focus of the mother's sight, so as to make the baby feel more secure.

A mother who likes corporal punishment

Buni, a 5-year-old urchin, revealed, "As long as I am naughty, such as fighting with children, soiling clothes and painting on the wall, my mother will punish me for standing for a long time. Once I broke a neighbor's window with a slingshot, and my mother was even more angry. Not only did she not give me food, but she also twisted my arm hard. I screamed and screamed. So I don't love my mother anymore, because I don't think she loves me. "

Expert evaluation: corporal punishment may successfully force children to obey their parents' will, but it must be temporary and partial, and the problems it brings far outweigh the problems it solves. Children's rebellious psychology and behavior caused by corporal punishment usually appear within a few weeks, including: lying frequently, stealing, bullying weak classmates, being difficult to get along with friends, lacking sympathy, disobeying teachers' instructions, and sometimes feeling extremely inferior. After two years, it may develop into more violent behaviors such as fighting, robbery, picking fights and even anti-social tendencies, increasing the risk of becoming hooligans and bullies.

Disrespect for my friend's mother.

Baker, 4, pouted and said, "My mother never liked my friends. She said Tony stuttered, Penny was ugly, Shaw was hard, and Neil was too greedy. There's nothing good in her mouth anyway. What makes me even more unhappy is that she told me not to play with them. She was afraid that I would be "led astray" by them. In fact, they are all lovely and honest good children. I am ashamed of my mother. "

Expert evaluation: mother is the earliest guide for children to enter the society, so we should pay attention to everything we say and do in front of children! Respect for children's friends means respect for children. It is his precious life wealth to let children learn to respect others under the guidance of your example. Any child has shortcomings or deficiencies in one way or another. Let children choose their friends freely, and don't worry that children will be "bad".

Speaking of impossible, mom

Helen, 5, complained, "Mom always breaks her word. She promised to buy me a Barbie doll at once, but she hasn't bought it yet. She also promised to take me to my grandmother's house on my birthday. Later, she said no, and there were many things she could say and could not do. Finally, I don't believe what she said. Such a mother is really disappointing! "

Expert comment: What a mother who can say but can't do lacks is honesty. Honesty is not born, but acquired. In fact, "honesty education" often begins at the time of babbling and runs through the whole childhood. When children are just sensible, we should help them establish "honesty-oriented" in their hearts. Regrettably, mothers who repeatedly "say what they can't do" provide negative teaching materials for their children, and the negative impact can be imagined!

An overly strict mother

Five-year-old Danny said, "Mom always says I can't do this or that. She said my handwriting was incorrect and the dog I drew was nothing like it. She also criticized me for not cleaning the dishes. I really can't do anything? I am very discouraged when I think about this. "

Expert evaluation: The greatest harm of parents' perfectionism to children's psychology is to gradually deprive children of their self-confidence. You know, all children need self-affirmation, especially for children who have already felt inferior, self-affirmation is undoubtedly more important. The reason why some children feel more and more inferior is that their parents put forward excessive demands with a perfectionist attitude. In this way, children may always be surrounded by criticism and complaints, and in the long run, self-confidence may be regretfully lost. Finally, when he starts to do something, he often subconsciously denies himself, for example, I am inferior to others, my brain is stupid, or I just don't like others. You might as well change "you can't wash dishes" to "you are amazing, you can wash dishes at the age of five!" But if you spend more time washing, the dishes will be cleaner. "This change will give children completely different psychological hints.

In addition, we should realize that no child can be a "generalist" who is good at everything (in fact, adults are also). If your child is not as good as other children in painting, don't worry, because he may be better than other children in other aspects.

Too fat mother

Three-year-old Mary cried and said, "Mom is fat and dirty. Every time she goes to kindergarten for a parent-teacher conference, the children secretly laugh at me. I am very sad, but I don't know what to do. "

Expert evaluation: children value a person's appearance more than adults, especially the dearest mother. Part of the reason may be that their abstract theory that "the beauty of the soul is more important than the beauty of appearance" is still difficult to understand. Obese mothers should pay attention to diet, exercise to lose weight and pay attention to clothes for their own health and to "beautify" their image in children's minds.

Not funny, mom.

Ruan, a 4-year-old Asian child, complained: "I can sing and dance, and teachers and children like me very much." I can also draw, cut paper, play the piano and knead mud, but my mother not only can't, but also looks down on my hobbies. My mother goes out early and comes back late, and reads books in her spare time. She always tells me to study hard, because only by reading well can I achieve something. Actually, I really hope my mother can play with me. I am really disappointed. Why is my mother so boring? "

Expert evaluation: children want to imitate and understand many things from their closest mother to satisfy their natural curiosity and thirst for knowledge; They like to have the same interests and hobbies as their mother. If the mother knows nothing about her child's hobbies and always asks questions or even disagrees, the child will naturally feel disappointed and depressed. At the same time, it also has a negative impact on the cultivation and development of children's early language ability. For young children, there is absolutely no need to force him to read more books. In fact, at Ruan's age, you should play more and develop various interests, because playing is actually learning, which is an excellent learning to enhance your intelligence. In addition, we should consciously cultivate the same or similar hobbies as children, be familiar with children's unique psychology and language, take time out to play with children as much as possible, and communicate with children more. In this way, children will naturally think you are "fun".