Can people live better without worldly desires?

If I can, I really want to be a person without worldly desires.

I'm afraid I'm really a terrible person to deal with emotional events. I once promised the boy's confession without hesitation because I was moved again and again. But if I had asked myself whether it was because I liked it or because I was moved, maybe the result would be better. For a year, we didn't quarrel, even if there was a small problem, we solved it happily. In the end, it was just because of one thing, not a quarrel, and it ended like this. I really can't accept him anymore. I can't like him. Even if I know it's my fault, even if I know clearly that he really likes me and is really good to me, I can't like it. But when he gave me the choice, I was still very entangled, painful and contradictory. I seem to know what I think, but I dare not face my heart.

Later, I started a new relationship. This time, I asked my heart, I really like it. At first, I liked it very purely and fiercely. I knew that it should be the boy who took the initiative emotionally, but I still showed my love again and again. Now that I think about it, it's really ridiculous. To tell the truth, although he chased me, I still don't know his mind. He forgot to answer my message because of his own business; I don't remember what I like; Something happened at home, and I was very sad, so I went to bed because there was a class tomorrow. On April Fool's Day, I finally played a joke out of curiosity, "Let's break up", but it was delayed again and again. I was on pins and needles, because I thought breaking up was a very serious matter, and it was best not to say it without careful consideration, but what I didn't expect was a blank ... Although I was disappointed, it was the first time to think that he was straight. If I slowly, after all, I spent all my patience and love.

Once I let others down because I didn't know, and once I was disappointed because I knew. It doesn't matter at all. It's fake. Sometimes I really lose sleep, get distracted, can't learn, and can't do anything because of this kind of thing.

Will it be okay without these emotional troubles? I'm watching an anime recently-under one person. Feng Baobao is such a person. She is good at kung fu, but she has no distractions and wants nothing. She knew that Xu Xiang's family was very kind to her, so when she saw them sad in the face of Xu Xiang's father's death, she would cry with them. She knows the importance of family, so she will get angry when she tries to find out the truth in Chulan Zhang. But even she couldn't figure out what was going on. I think it's emotional, and I don't know. But it is precisely because of this that she can not be influenced by the spirit of others' confusion, can quickly detect a person's breath, can defeat countless people and become a strong person. As Chulan Zhang said, she is really a person who can only do one thing at a time. She is so, so is Forrest Gump. They are all people who can only do one thing at a time without greed, selfish desires and complicated feelings. So, they became strong.

Anime or movie, though illusory, is real. Would it be better to be a person without worldly desires instead of being troubled by these emotional things?

Maybe you will say that it's because you didn't handle it correctly that it's so miserable. Those smart people will handle it properly, but can they really handle it well without any influence?

Some people don't try because they tried, made mistakes or didn't realize it. Some people are afraid to try because they predicted the result from the beginning. Would it be better without these concerns?