When writing an argumentative essay, please give some examples of letting go of hatred.

Well, during the Three Kingdoms period, Liu Bei's attack on Wu was typical.

At that time, the general of Wu did not listen to dissuasion, forced the injured Guan Yu to the wall and beheaded him. His third brother, Zhang Fei, was heartbroken and wanted to attack Wu immediately, so he beat and scolded his men every day and urged them to make weapons. The subordinates couldn't bear it, so they cut off his head while he was sleeping and sent it to Wu Dong. This is Liu Bei's complete anger. He single-handedly attacked Wu with 700,000 troops (no strategist). At first, it was like a bamboo pole, but it was finally broken by Lu Xun, and 700,000 troops were destroyed. Liu Bei died of grief in Baidi City.

The philosopher Kant said, "Being angry is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others." The elegant Kant probably won't have a storm, and his mood will always be clear. If others make mistakes, we will be furious, so it is our own fault.

Modern Dale Carnegie does not advocate tit-for-tat. He said, "There is only one simple way to really hate others, and that is to give full play to their strengths." Hating each other and being cruel will only make you exhausted Carnegie's "hate" is another form of "tolerance". Hating others is not gnashing your teeth.

No matter how the wolf plays the role of "kind grandmother" and vows to be a vegetarian from now on, it is difficult to change the nature of eating sheep, but if it is completely killed, sheep are prone to plague; Fighting between two tigers is inevitable, but once the hero is lonely, he doesn't need to be locked in the fence, and even the fierce tiger will degenerate into a sick cat. Treating your opponent as a friend is a higher level of tolerance.

President Lincoln has always been known for tolerating political opponents, which finally caused dissatisfaction among a member of Congress. The congressman said, "You shouldn't try to make friends with those people, but destroy them." Lincoln smiled and replied, "When they become my friends, am I not destroying my enemies?" Yes, a more tolerant and open opponent may be our potential friend.

Who has made the greatest contribution to the Three Gorges Project? Pan, a famous water conservancy engineer, said in response to a question from a foreign reporter: "Those who oppose the Three Gorges Project have made the greatest contribution to the Three Gorges Project." The existence of opponents can keep a clear head and do things more comprehensively. It can inspire your courage to accept challenges and generate the potential to show your life. This is not simple tolerance, but sharpening your will and sharpening your life edge.

Although I don't agree with you, I have an obligation to defend your right to speak. As many people know, this sentence contains the tolerant democratic core. Bad words in June hurt people. If you have a tolerant heart, use it as an air conditioner to cool down in hot summer.

Tolerance is a kind of beauty. Only when the deep sky tolerates the temporary ravages of lightning storms can it be clear. The vast sea is boundless only when the stormy waves are raging for a while; The vast forest temporarily endured the law of the jungle and was lush. A river can be great only if it doesn't choose small streams. Tolerance is the towering Mount Tai, and it is the rivers and lakes that accommodate all rivers and lakes.

When dealing with friends, tolerance is the gold for Guan Zhong. He doesn't care about Guan Zhong's selfishness and understands Guan Zhong's fear of death. He also recommended Guan Zhong to Qi Huangong as his boss.

Treating people with tolerance is the torch of Emperor Guangwu burning books to defect to the enemy. When Liu Xiu defeated Wang Lang and invaded Handan, he found many letters that flattered Wang Lang, insulted Liu Xiu and even planned to kill Liu Xiu. But Liu Xiu turned a blind eye to this and ignored the opposition of all ministers. He let bygones be bygones, turned enemies into friends, strengthened his own strength and finally became emperor. The fire was put out.

You should tolerate other people's different opinions, exclude or even frame them, because you know that what scares your opponent is your strength. You should also know that grass growing in crevices can withstand wind and rain best. Cynicism can just "cold compress" your fiery mind; The little shoes given to you may make you jump out of the wonderful "ballet" on the stage; A blow to you, like a barbell in an athlete's hand, will only increase your explosive power. Well-meaning words are a double-edged sword, and eventually they cut themselves; Answer blows with blows can only show that your "teeth" are falling off; Blood boiling is the most likely cause of "hypertension". "One foot crushed the violet, but it left a fragrance on the heel, and that is forgiveness." andrew matheus said such an inspiring sentence in The Heart of Tolerance.

Zi Gong, a student of Confucius, once asked Confucius, "Teacher, is there a sentence that can be used as a principle of being a man?" Confucius said, "This is probably forgiveness." "Forgiveness", in today's words, is tolerance.

A prime minister is big-minded-broad-minded/broad-minded/magnanimous.

Shu in the Three Kingdoms period appointed Jiang Wan to preside over the state affairs after Zhuge Liang's death. One of his subordinates is Yang, who is withdrawn and speaks slowly. When Jiang Wan talked to him, he only answered. Someone couldn't get used to it and muttered in front of Jiang Wan: "It's outrageous that Yang is so rude to you!" Jiang Wan smiled indifferently and said, "Everyone has his own temperament. It's not in Yang's nature to praise me to my face. Let him criticize me in front of everyone, and he will feel ashamed of me. So, he had to keep silent. In fact, this is his valuable place. " Later, some people praised Jiang Wan that "the prime minister can punt in his stomach".

Offer a birch and ask for whipping ―― Humble and sincere apology.

Lin Xiangru was named Shangqing for his feat of "returning to Zhao safely", ranking above Lian Po. Lian Po defy spirit, threatened to humiliate Lin Xiangru face to face. Lin Xiangru learned that, as far as possible to avoid, tolerance, not conflict with Lian Po. Lin Xiangru's minions thought he was afraid of Lian Po, but Lin Xiangru said, "The State of Qin did not dare to invade our State of Zhao because of me and General Lian. When I tolerate and succumb to General Lian, I will put the national crisis ahead and personal grievances behind! " When Lian Po heard this, there was the story of Lian Po's "offer a humble apology".

Renyi Hu tong

Dong was a native of Jiyang, Shandong Province, and was an official in Beijing during the Ming Dynasty. One day, he received a letter from home saying that his house was built to lay a foundation, and he had a quarrel with his neighbor, hoping that he could use his power to solve the matter. Dong immediately wrote a book after reading it, saying, "A thousand miles to send books is just for the wall, and I can't help laughing and breaking my heart;" You are very kind to me and close to me. Why not give up both feet? "After the family saw it, they felt that Dong made sense. When building a house, they voluntarily gave up a few feet of land. Neighbors saw Dong Jia's behavior and felt something, so they followed suit. As a result, the two houses were eight feet wide, and after the houses were built, there was an alley called Renyi Hutong.

In the Tang Dynasty, Mr. Lou taught his younger brother to be tolerant of officials. His brother said, "Someone spit in my face and I wiped it off myself." Teacher Lou said, "This is not enough. Do you erase it, or do you insult you against the will of angry people? I think it is better to let Tucao kill naturally. "

In the Spring and Autumn Period, Chu Zhuangwang won the championship.

One night, I held a candlelight party with my beloved princess and held a grand banquet for the ministers. Halfway through the wine, suddenly a strong wind blew out the candle. A military commander wanted to flirt with Princess Ai in the dark, and Princess Ai tore off the red tassel on his helmet. Princess Ai suggested that the King of Chu light a lamp at once to see which guy lost the red tassel on his helmet and severely punish him. A friend's wife should not be bullied, let alone a leader's wife. Unexpectedly, King Zhuang was magnanimous and ordered all the generals to take off the red tassels on their helmets before lighting the lamps. Soon, the king of Chu made a personal expedition, engaged the enemy, and fell into a tight encirclement. His soldiers will flee everywhere, and the life of the king of Chu is at stake. Suddenly, a desperate battle appeared to protect deus ex, the king of Chu, and get back a life. The king of Chu said excitedly, "Everyone else is running for their lives. Only Ai Qing is willing to lay down his life to save the driver. What's your name? Which unit is it? " The general should answer: "I was the one who molested your wife at the candlelight party that day!" " "

Forget it, these two seemingly opposite words are actually unified in essence-both for the sake of finding happiness in life. It's just that one does addition and the other does subtraction, which finally makes life full of joy and emotion, and makes the mind more quiet and less impetuous. It is between remembering and forgetting that life can be sublimated!

Flowers bloom in our eyes, and we engrave them deeply in our hearts; When the flowers fade, we will inevitably have more sadness and melancholy. Life is alive, things are different, just like flowers bloom and fall. Why not think of it as an inevitable season? The past has faded, leaving only memories. It is better to remember its beauty and forget its loneliness when it is dying. In the taste of joy and sweetness, life is moving forward, looking for it, and inadvertently looking back, only to find that flowers are full of branches. ...

Xi Murong once said: "Memory is a rose without flowers, which will never wither." There are too many things in this world that deserve our nostalgia. Maybe we can't keep the fleeting time, nor can we let all the good things disappear, but we can freeze it in the eternal memory. The books you have read, the music you have listened to, the people you like and the stories you have been exposed to may be buried deep in your mind, but as long as you remember them, you will never forget them completely. Holding a normal heart in the impermanent life, watching the clouds roll and relax, let these ordinary and sincere feelings flow through our minds like years.

A smile, a compliment and a farewell are enough to soothe our tired hearts. Remember the touch of life and the kindness of others, and we will find that life is really beautiful. I still remember the simple and honest old woman in A Dream of Red Mansions, the joke king who made everyone make a fuss, and the kind-hearted person who came forward to save Jia's family when it fell. Just to repay Xifeng's unintentional relief. She resolutely paid for the redemption of her daughter Qiaojie's "stove" and made her her her granddaughter, so that she could spend her life safely. Imagine that if Granny Liu forgot all the kindness and virtue of that year, and there was another unfortunate woman in the Dream of Red Mansions, the Dream of Red Mansions itself would be less grateful.

Hugo once said: "If mankind can't forget hatred, there will be endless wars." There are too many dark sides in life, and hatred, pain, suffering and failure are also engraved on the footprints of life like nails. Maybe you can't change the past facts, maybe you can't hide the hidden pain inside, but you can try to forget it and face it with a smile. Wu Zixu, the man who killed his father. In order to get revenge, he left Chu, traveled to other countries, and finally begged in Wucheng. Finally, it was discovered by the king of Wu and helped Taitai ascend to the throne. This is He Lv, the king of Wu. He is also a very important person. He encouraged the King of Wu to attack Chu many times, and eventually the war broke out in Wu Chu. When Du Ying watched Wu Jun flood into Chu, the war filled his former homeland. I don't think even he can tell how he feels. Digging graves and whipping corpses, Wu Zixu vented his anger in the most extreme way. When iron whip whipped the bones of ignorance, he also whipped his heart burned by the fire of revenge. The following story is about wuyue War, Gou Jian, the King of Yue, and the treachery of Yue later. Wu Zixu was given a sword by Fu Cha, the king of Wu, to commit suicide. Wu Zixu's life began with hatred and died of it, and his life was scorched by hatred. If Wu Zixu had chosen to forget the pain in his heart and Chou He's dream of revenge, perhaps his pain and hatred would not have been put in the struggle again and again, so that he could not extricate himself. Choose to forget, forget the unbearable pain in life, and reduce the burden on your mind. The burden of life is already too heavy, why do you have to carry it? Maybe we can't decide whether we are injured or not, we can't make the road ahead smoother, and there are too many disappointments in life to be changed, so we choose to forget. Forgetting is not escape, forgetting is not carelessness, forgetting is just a way to eliminate pain, a calm state of mind, and a kind of wisdom to be a man.

Remember and forget, these two seemingly opposite words are actually unified in essence-both for the sake of finding happiness in life. It's just that one does addition and the other does subtraction, which finally makes life full of joy and emotion, and makes the mind more quiet and less impetuous. It is between remembering and forgetting that life can be sublimated!

Tai Sen held holyfield's hand intimately, and his heart seemed to fluctuate: "This is the first time we have had the opportunity to meet after that incident, and this opportunity was created by you. I want to tell you that it is a great pleasure to know you. I also want the whole world to know that you are a very tolerant person. " And jokingly asked holyfield if he would miss the missing piece in his ear.

Holyfield still smiled and touched his ear and said to Qin Sen, "A little, not bad. This is also the best commemoration of our friendship. " He smiled again: "I have bitten people many times, too." That was when I was a kid. I once bit others to get rid of my brothers' locks, and all my brothers at home were bitten by me. "

Tai Sen laughed after hearing this, and then said frankly to holyfield, "Although I apologized to you at that time, I didn't mean to. Although it has been 12 years, I still want to say sorry to you sincerely today! Your tolerance is really commendable. "

When the host oprah winfrey asked holyfield, "Can you tell everyone? Why do you think of coming to the TV station to reconcile with Tai Sen? "

Holyfield said: "I hope that the appearance of the two of us in this program can tell young people who quarrel with each other that nothing is unforgivable. You see, the two of us are standing together again, and so can you. "

Holyfield voice down, Tai Sen took the lead in clapping, the applause immediately resounded through the hall. Looking at the enthusiasm of the two, the audience at the scene sighed with emotion: "This historic encounter made everyone almost forget that the two had an unpleasantness 12 years ago, which was unimaginable in the past."

At the end of the program, oprah winfrey concluded: "I want to end this interview by borrowing a famous saying from China: Laugh when you meet, and forget the enmity. Hatred is a strange friendship. A person who always tolerates others will be calm as water and win more respect. The historic meeting between the two champions is the best example. "