Talking to boys.

Talking with boys, I believe friends want to talk and laugh with boys they like, so do you know what to talk about with boys? Let's take a look at what to talk about with boys, hoping to help friends in need.

Talking with boys 1 1. Ask open-ended questions.

No matter who you talk to and what your ultimate goal is, this technology is crucial. Open-ended questions need more detailed answers, and a yes or no question can be answered in one sentence. If you want to keep a dialogue, open-ended questions are more effective than questions that can be answered in one sentence.

Try to rewrite the yes/no question into an open question. For example, don't ask him if he likes the movie you watched together, but ask him what he thinks of the movie or story.

You can coax him to answer by mentioning your thoughts on this topic, but you must leave him room to speak.

2. Create more questions according to his answers.

In other words, use the information he provided to expand the conversation. If you are careful, you can usually find out what he might elaborate on. You can use this method to expand the topic in the same direction, or you can change the topic to a new related direction.

If you can't think of a more specific question, you can say, "That sounds interesting. Tell me more. "

Don't interrupt him when he is talking. Wait until he finishes an idea before asking other questions.

If a person thinks it will bring you trouble, he may stop talking about a topic. The advantage of asking him to elaborate on his questions is that it can keep the dialogue going and enhance his confidence in his ability to keep interested.

3. Praise him and let him relax.

Most people appreciate seemingly true compliments. If the person in front of you seems to be bound in front of you, he may benefit from the improvement of self-confidence, which can be provided by sincere flattery.

Avoid overly seductive or suggestive compliments. For example, telling a man "you have big eyes" is more popular than telling him "you are bedroom eyes".

The best compliment will make him feel better about the whole environment. For example, try saying, "I'm really glad you've been with me." I feel that if it is not suitable for you now, I will feel bored. "

4. Tell me about the location.

If you need to raise a topic, you need to be quick, please check it. You can probably find information about your place or the event you are talking about; If you attend a party or social activity, please talk about music, decorations, food or anything related to the activity itself; If you are in a restaurant, talk about the atmosphere, food and whether you have eaten there.

5. Be optimistic.

Complaining may catch fire, and most people will be interested in continuing to talk with positive people. If you work or go to school together, you may have a lot of motivation to complain. However, please try to avoid complaining. Some growling can create an atmosphere of friendship between you two, because everyone has pressure from work or school, but if you keep complaining and don't let him enter the conversation, he has no reason to stay in the conversation.

Don't complain, point out that things are going well. Talk about how your company recovered after a bad incident, or how the new teacher's job is much better than the old one.

6. Ask him about his hobbies.

Most people like to talk about things that interest them. Once you know what he is passionate about, you can continue to ask questions and establish a dialogue. If this is a boy you don't know very well, then you may need to study his interests carefully first. If you don't know him, ask him. Try to find what you have in common. If you can talk about your common interests, you will have a better time to continue talking.

7. Tell a humorous story.

People like stories, especially those with a sense of humor. If you can tell a story that happened a few minutes ago, then you should have no problem breaking the deadlock with the person in front of you.

An older story can also be solved, but you need to find a way to introduce it into the dialogue. If your current situation is related to your story, you can point out this situation and introduce your story to you. "This reminds me of this time ..."

8. Open yourself up.

Talking about yourself can let this person know that you trust him. This will inspire him to trust you a little. As mutual trust grows, the wall that hinders dialogue will begin to collapse. It's a good idea to be too personal right away. When you get to know someone, talking about your first time may be a bit too personal. Talking about yourself incompletely will make others think you are approachable. If you are just talking about yourself, he may feel scared.

9. Avoid talking about past relationships or appointments.

No one wants to think about your history with others. You'd better not talk about your past unless he specifically asks you for information. Even if you are not satisfied with your past relationship, he may think that you are still attached to your ex-boyfriend. If you have just ended a relationship, the person you are talking to may think that you are "rebounding". If your predecessor is a friend, you may have some loyalty to his friends, which will make the newcomer not want to continue talking with you.

10, it looks comfortable.

Your body language can convey that you are interested in talking to him-or that you would rather leave. Keep your body turned in his direction and don't cross your arms. Tilting him slightly will also let him know that you are interested in what he says.

Avoid irritability. If you feel you need to be careful, change your body posture once and make a commitment. Don't be afraid that there is no more content in the conversation, but shift your thoughts to new topics. Don't worry about being upset or feeling uncomfortable. If you start thinking about this problem, you are likely to be more anxious.

1 1, interrupting eye contact from time to time.

Even if the guy in front of you is a real eye candy, staring at him will make him feel sought after. Keep an eye on him, but scan him regularly for a few seconds. Eye contact is important, but it is also important to know when and how to break it. Eye contact lets people know that he has your concentration. If you are scanning the room, he may think you are looking for a better opportunity. Don't look into his eyes when you speak, look into his eyes, then look forward and then look back.

12, with rich expressions.

Nod when he speaks and let him know that you agree with him or that you can understand what he says. Smiling is especially important because it can help him think that you enjoy what he says. This will give him the confidence to go on. Smiling will also make you look more approachable and less aggressive. Don't be afraid to express your feelings with your hands. Many people talk when they signal with their hands. If this is your normal behavior, don't worry about trying to refuse or stop it.

Make sure your facial expression reflects the tone of conversation. If the conversation becomes serious, smiling happily will make you look out of the conversation, and at worst, it will be painful. If you look stiff or uncomfortable, then this person may think that you think so because he is doing something wrong. This anxiety will only make him more entangled in the conversation.

13, showing interest and concern.

For example, don't distract your attention between the person you are talking to and others-for example, have a text conversation with friends. In order for this person to continue talking, you need to let him know that you are listening to everything he says.

Don't judge yourself.

If you accidentally say something stupid or embarrassing, admit your mistake and move on. Everyone will say something embarrassing from time to time. If this happens, try to laugh. People will soon appreciate a girl's sense of humor. If there is, seeing that you screwed up, laughing will ease the guy's nervousness and let him know that it doesn't matter if the same thing happens to him. If you feel it necessary to do this, you can apologize for your negligence, but after apologizing, let go.

15, to avoid being too eager.

You may want to see him again, but don't think this feeling is mutual. Start planning your next date. As the conversation continues, remind you how you want to spend more time with him. If you fall badly enough, most people will catch up and take corresponding actions before the conversation is over.

The best advice you can give up is simply to say, "I like chatting with you very much." I hope we can do it again soon. "If he didn't ask you out again, please give him your contact information. After all, he may change his mind.

Talking with boys 2 1. What are the best chat topics?

What do you do? Why do you like this job? What is the biggest challenge? What is the biggest setback? What are your hopes for your job and future? )

2. What great achievements have you made in your life so far? Any major setbacks? )

3. What do you like best? (Why are you interested)

4. What was the most memorable happy event last year?

5. What will you do at work?

6. How do you like to spend your holiday?

7. Do you want to be famous? (why)

8. If you had a million dollars, what would you do with it?

9. In your family, how did you grow up?

10, what was your character strengths when you were growing up? What are the disadvantages of fear? )

1 1. What kind of relationship do you want to develop?

12 Are you romantic? How romantic? )

13, what do you think is the difference between men and women?

14, what makes you happy?

What makes you sad?

16. When you were young, what did you want to be when you grew up?

17. What do you think is the difference between you and others?

18, do you believe in God? What do you think of God? )

19. to what extent do you think your personal behavior has an impact on changing society?

20. What do you think are the important events in society at present? If possible, what action would you take? )

2. What are the chat topics?

Talking about constellations

Talking to a new girl about her horoscope can give her a preliminary judgment.

M: What sign are you?

Woman: Gemini.

Man: You must be very happy every day with such a lively constellation, right?

Woman: That's not certain!

Man: With me, I make you happy every day.

Talking about movies

Talking about movies can add a sense of picture to dating.

M: I'm tired of meeting every day recently.

Woman: Me too.

Man: We should relax.

Woman: Haha, that's right.

M: I heard that the recently released XXX is very good. You can watch it together when you are free.

Woman: Good!

work

M: There are many tasks in the company recently, and the pressure is so great!

W: What do you do?

M: I opened my own studio.

W: Uh-huh, pay attention to rest.

life

M: I've had a busy day today, and I'm going to a social gathering later.

Woman: What are you doing? So busy.

M: Because I am self-motivated, haha.

Woman: You are too narcissistic.

M: Do you like narcissism or inferiority complex?

have a meal

Woman: I didn't eat in the morning. I'm very hungry.

Man: Go and eat. You are already very thin. If you don't eat, you will be hungry.

hairstyle

M: Your air bangs are really beautiful, just like an online celebrity.

Woman: Haha, you are really good at talking.

M: I really envy you having a boyfriend who can praise others.