Why are more and more young people in China unwilling to get married?

Why do more and more young people not want to get married? Because I don't know why I got married.

Just like The Big Bang Theory, Schell said at a friend's wedding: "I can't understand the fact that people spend their whole lives pursuing another person. Maybe I am too meaningful and no one is with me. " A person's life is interesting enough: going to work during the day, exercising or reading or playing games at night, gathering with friends at weekends, drinking and chatting, and going to further places during holidays ... Of course, it would be better if we were talking about a happy relationship.

So what have married women with husbands and children experienced? Is trivial, is helpless, is desperate. There was a hot topic in Weibo the other day. Jane doe stars get 1 10000 pocket money every month, but they haven't seen their husbands for half a year. Grass widow, rich without love, thought this was a sad story, but I didn't expect the comment area to be full of envy.

Some netizens even said: "Don't say 1 1 10,000, give me 1 10,000 every month, as long as I don't let my husband go home! After all, a child can't take care of it, and adding another one is more tired! " Behind these spits, they are full of helplessness and disappointment in marriage. For women, if they get married, they will have children sooner or later. Widowed parenting is widespread now, which makes married women suffer too much.

Strive to maintain the dual independence of economy and spirit; Take care of children, families and in-laws; Also insist on self-study, in case my brain is out of sync and my husband is cheating ... it scares me to think about it! What did you get from your marriage? Eternal love now has a high derailment rate and divorce rate, and a marriage certificate can't guarantee anything. Input and output are not in direct proportion, and the cost performance of marriage is getting lower and lower. No wonder women nowadays are less and less willing to get married.

It is not only women who don't want to get married, but also men. After all, marriage requires buying a house and a car, and there may be a sky-high bride price. In first-and second-tier cities, housing prices are so expensive that they can't be bought for several years. Not to mention getting married, many boys don't want to spend their time chasing girls now-they can't catch up anyway, so save your energy. More and more young people are unwilling to get married, not because they think marriage is not important, but because they think marriage is important, so we should treat it with caution. Even if you are single, you don't want to find anyone to marry.

Because more and more people realize that getting married and having children is not the ultimate goal of life, or even the only foothold. It should be a natural thing, better or not. The important thing is to know what kind of life you want and live it well.

Yang li Ping, a China dance artist, is over 50 years old. The reporter asked her: Do you want to dance without children? She replied: "Some people live to carry on the family line, some people live to enjoy, some people live to experience, and some people live to watch. I am a bystander of life. I came to this world to see how a tree grows, how rivers flow, how white clouds float and how dew condenses. "