How to chat with girls-Four tips for chatting with girls

3 chatting skills to help you quickly express your emotions with girls!

Why do good girls always date bad men? It’s because bad men understand women!

Bad men survive in a difficult environment, so they are better at understanding a woman’s needs and talking about her feelings. Interested topics, and keep the topics flowing between you in the chat. Even if you finally catch her after all the hard work, girls will leave you because you are boring.

Most brothers will struggle with the topic of chatting because the topic is logical and has traces to follow for easy extension.

But there will be a very big drawback. If you talk about logic with a girl, even if the girl is interested in you, you will end up talking to her to death.

There is logic and traces to follow, which means there are no surprises. If there is no surprise, how can a girl be in the mood, and how can she be interested in chatting with you?

After we chatted here, some brothers became anxious, but I don’t know how to talk about the mood with a girl. Ah!

Here, I will share with you chat skills to help you improve quickly:

How many brothers will think that chasing girls is blindly pleasing and attentive to chase girls? child? In fact, I had the same idea before. I accidentally found a month's redemption statement on the \/ letter. Xuchao Xiaobang changed many of my misunderstandings about dating and flirting with girls, and I found a lot of replies after copying girls' words. This technique is used all the time when chatting with girls. Chasing girls is just a noun. Don’t use it as a verb. It will not end well. Girls rely on chatting to attract you. If you want to arouse her emotions, then she will naturally be obedient to you. Nowadays, the women around me are getting better and better. All single brothers should check it out. You can find it through Huixin Search and Chat Xiaobang. You will find that it is very easy to get out of singles.

1. How to attract girls through chatting

What is "drawing" girls into your world. That is, during the chat, take the initiative to talk about yourself, your life, and tease interesting stories in your life.

Otakus and straight men want to chat with girls. Girls don’t like men always asking questions to them, like checking their household registration.

Only by talking more about your own stories and interesting things that happened to you can you attract girls. Change the first person pronoun of you to me.

For example: Change "What are you doing" to "I just finished working out and my blood is boiling."

Boy: I haven’t been to the gym for a few days, and I feel like I’ve gained weight

Girl: Oh, I’ve gained weight recently. I must control it these days and try to lose weight. 90

Boy: I have also been controlling my diet recently

Girl: I want to cry for someone who likes to eat and gain weight

Boy: Same as the end of the world Fallen person

Girl: When I lose weight to 90 pounds, I must go out and eat a lot, and then continue to lose weight when I come back

Boy: Remember to take me with you, even if you want to gain weight Pull someone on your back

Girl: Haha, wow

Take the initiative to share with girls about us, "I have also been controlling my diet recently" and tell girls that we are a person who cares about ourselves. A standard man has requirements for himself, thereby increasing his attraction to girls.

Of course, a mature man. Everyone has their own experiences and stories. You should appropriately share your experiences, your stories, friends around you or stories you have heard with girls. Offer the girl something to talk about. And in the early stage of chatting, boys should be responsible for more than 90% of the topic, because this is the source of your attraction.

2. How to chat ambiguously

Example:

Male: Let’s walk hand in hand to the East Lake, blow in the wind and drink something (attitude test)

Female: Yes, yes

Male: Haha, give me a big hug (ambiguity test)

Female: Yes, I will give you a hug when the time comes

Male: How much do you weigh, baby (ambiguous test)

Female: 90 pounds

Male: So light, I can carry you like a princess and spin you around a few times (Ambiguous flirting)

Female: Haha, princess hug

Male: Others will be jealous to death

Female: I'm afraid if I faint you, Throw me into the lake

In the chat, first establish emotional attraction with the girl, and then use language to upgrade the relationship. "Give me a big hug" to upgrade the relationship, and meet the girl. Qualify it as a "date" and tell the girl on the side that this is a romantic encounter.

By asking the girl about her weight, she shifted the focus of the conversation to the "princess hug", started flirting ambiguously with the girl, and brought them closer together. There was no explicit relationship, confession, etc., but the relationship was already like a couple. Generally speaking, this kind of feeling is what girls really want!!!

When chatting and getting along with girls, I will only rely on my own enthusiasm and give girls what I think is good, but without considering whether It's what girls really want, without considering the girls' feelings, which ultimately leads to "lose-lose" situations.

We need to pass the chat test to uncover the root causes of existing problems, learn correct chat thinking, understand girls’ thoughts, give girls the feeling they want, and thus start a happy love life.

3. The sense of connection during chatting

Just chatting is not enough. When you can't confirm the relationship through chatting, the most conservative option is to establish contact with the girl. Establishing a sense of connection is necessary to sustain further development in the future.

Boy: Looking at your photos, you have become more beautiful again

Girl: Beauty effect

Boy: Haha, you have to have good foundation to do that

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Girl: Hahaha, you have such a sweet mouth

Boy: It’s your turn too, praise me

Girl: Little brother, you are so handsome

Boys: My little brother is too arrogant, please change your name

Girls: What is your name?

Boys: Call me husband

Girls: Husband

Boys must take the initiative to start the topic from girls. "Looking at your photos, you look beautiful again." It is easier for girls to focus on them.

Interact with girls through "It's your turn, praise me" and change the topic to yourself.

Remember, the best topic for chatting is between you and her. By switching the topic back and forth, you will naturally avoid awkward conversations, and you will naturally have a pleasant conversation about "calling me husband."

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