Girls are too active, boys are psychological.

Miss Huang, whose signature is "Stupid Big Girl", is a native of Hong Kong. She has a cheerful personality and a clear distinction between love and hate. In a letter to Yi Ming, she confided, "I love him. What's the matter? I tried to pursue him, so what? Why does everyone laugh at me and even he doesn't understand me? " Miss Huang fell in love with a new male colleague. It is understandable that young people in their early twenties fall in love. Male colleagues have also expressed their affection for the enthusiastic Miss Huang. Therefore, Miss Huang, as a local, brings meals to her male colleagues every day, and also buys clothes for each other to dress up. The greatest contribution is that boys come from mountainous areas and the family burden is too heavy. Mobile phones have been used for many years. Miss Huang looked distressed and didn't say that she bought the latest model for the other party. Asked why, the boy only said "unworthy", and later heard other colleagues say, "He thinks your efforts are a kind of pressure and can't bear it." You see, girls who are too active, you regard giving as love, while boys regard this love as a burden. So, what do girls who are too active think in the eyes of boys? First of all, like Miss Huang, when she meets a boy who is worthy of love, as long as he has a little self-esteem, she will refuse the girl who is over-active, because she will keep paying and pay a lot, and the boy will feel a burden in his heart. It's only a matter of time before she refuses. Of course, this is a normal idea for boys. There is also a perverted idea that girls who are too active will make boys think you are hungry. In an emotional program, a rich sister volunteered to show her love to a male driver and was willing to give him a house and money. Everyone thinks: "This person is worth it!" Unexpectedly, the boy said in public, "I don't want such a woman." Later, I learned that the male driver secretly checked Jeff's past, such as talking about several boyfriends, whether she was adopted by a man ... He wanted to know whether her money had a clear source. Say, what's this called? Do you think men will love you if you give everything? Wrong, he will think you are abnormal, not even serious. The more active you are, the more obscene his ideas become. Girls who are too active are often passionate about love. When a boy looks at her, she feels like she's melting. The boy said a word and she was willing to go through fire and water. Even if boys have a little affection for her, they will stay away from her. Why? Physiologically speaking, boys belong to male animals and like to take the initiative. Without this kind of pleasure, men will feel "not happy enough" and even lose the beauty they pursue. Men usually don't cherish women who are easy to get without pursuit. You are like a fire, you just want to illuminate him, but he is like a star, giving you only a short night. Whose fault do you think it is? Therefore, Yi Ming believes that girls who are too active will not be cherished by men, nor will they love with their heart. In the eyes of a boy, your initiative and love are only because he is too perfect. Where can there be love except pride? Girls are too active in boys' psychology. First of all, the average girl takes the initiative to chase a boy, which shows that you like this man very much, but you don't know whether this boy likes you or not. So, in the face of a particularly active girl, what is the boy's mind? 65438 +0 This girl is very casual and active. In the eyes of boys, she seems to have never seen a boy. In a boy's mind, she will think that you are casual and that you are the kind of person who can easily walk with your little brother. NO.2 this girl is very cheap. Generally, boys pursue girls, prepare gifts for girls and take care of girls, but you are the other way around. Anyway, he will think that your hair is upside down, so he won't care much. I won't prepare a gift for you with my heart. NO.3, I want to eat this girl. Looking for him 24 hours a day, caring like a nanny. Even cut off all contact with the opposite sex, just to prove how much you love him. But in his heart, he won't be moved, just think that you have been eaten by him. So, I don't care about your feelings, which is why there are more and more disappointments behind you. Number four, moved and guilty. People who feel this way are generally good people. Of course, love rat has a little conscience. They will keep your kindness in mind and refuse if they don't like it. If you like it, you will cherish it more, but there are fewer boys like this. No.5 is used to it. When your initiative and kindness to him run through your life, he is used to you in his heart. It's no use being moved and disgusted. At this time, he doesn't care at all. Your initiative and kindness can't make waves in his heart, because he doesn't care about your behavior at all. Well, it takes initiative to meet the right boy, but many times girls still need to be reserved. After all, boys don't necessarily like you when they take the initiative, but they don't like your girls' psychology if they take the initiative. During the military training of freshmen, there was a beautiful female classmate named Xiaoya in the class. During the training, Xiaoya turned right when he walked quickly, so the instructor asked Xiaoya to practice on the playground. This made Xiaoya feel very ashamed. At this time, a male student in the class mentioned to the instructor that he also had the phenomenon of turning straight and wanted to ask to practice with Xiaoya. After that day, Xiaoya told me that the boy didn't really turn right, but didn't want to see her shy in the middle of the playground, which made her feel less nervous. Gradually, two people have a good impression on each other. After the military training, the boy expressed his love to Xiaoya, and they naturally came together. It was supposed to be a beautiful love story, but just together, Xiaoya expressed too much love, paying attention to the boy's every move every day and wanting to stay with him all the time. In the eyes of others, these two people are a happy couple. After a long time, the boy said that he was busy. He has to take part in students and various activities every day and has no time to accompany her. Sometimes inadvertently, Xiaoya will say something impatient. Xiaoya told me their story, and I don't want to interfere too much. I just woke Xiaoya up a little bit and let her have her own independent life. Of course, the result can be imagined. In the end, the two ended up in discord, but Xiaoya, as an outstanding and beautiful girl in the class, did not have a smooth relationship. When Xiaoya meets people she likes, she can't treat them rationally. Being carried away in front of feelings, I just want to pursue beautiful love and completely abandon my bottom line. Take the initiative to pay blindly. After a long time, men won't care what you do for him. But he thinks that your behavior is "fall in price", and the value of a woman depends on herself. In fact, whether in TV series or in real life, women are often too emotional and always take the initiative regardless of the consequences when facing their beloved people and a new relationship. In a relationship, it should be the man who takes the initiative. Only when a man actively pursues a relationship will it last. Girls who take the initiative for a long time will lose their sense of psychological balance, so that women will feel very tired, which will lead a relationship to death. When girls pursue boys, the inner monologues of boys are also very complicated. At first, he will enjoy the feeling of being pursued, but this novelty will begin to be cold to girls in the past. At the same time, women feel scared and lost, but they will be better to men. Men continue to reduce points for this woman while enjoying such a good heart. All parts of the world are pursuing ecological balance. Once the balance is broken, the beautiful state will also be broken. It is very difficult to run a girl's active relationship, which will only make you miserable every day. If you don't get what you want, you will be rejected by men.