Too few red envelopes are embarrassing? Learn five Spring Festival etiquette and raise your children to be praised by everyone.

During the Spring Festival, when relatives get together and pay New Year greetings to each other, it is clear at a glance which child is modest and courteous and which child is domineering.

Have you encountered the following embarrassing scenes in Xiong Haizi?

I'm sure you can name more embarrassing scenes than these. Children usually don't teach manners, but taking them out during the Spring Festival is to "lose face" for their parents! Therefore, while there are still a few days before the Spring Festival, hurry up and make up this etiquette lesson for your child.

don't be too dogmatic when explaining etiquette to children, which will easily cause their rebellious mentality. Parents can start with stories, arouse children's interest, and let them take the initiative to act according to etiquette rules.

red envelope etiquette

Do you know why elders give red envelopes to children during the Spring Festival?

1. read it together

2. etiquette of receiving red envelopes

reading the story of "chong" can make children think: why do elders give young people lucky money during the Chinese new year?

This is the hope of the elders that the younger generation will not be harmed by evil spirits, and it is a good wish for the children. Therefore, lucky money is not just as simple as "money", but contains the love of our elders. Children who receive lucky money should be grateful.

parents can guide children: since it is a good wish, it doesn't matter whether there is more money or less, but the mind is the most important. At the same time, we have to accept this blessing with gratitude. Therefore, when collecting lucky money, we should abide by these lucky money etiquette:

Besides, if there are any red envelopes that can't be accepted, parents should make it clear to their children in advance so that they can be psychologically prepared. Don't be polite, parents don't answer, but children cry.

3. Blessing can also be two-way.

Inspired by this teacher, I asked my children to give red envelopes, a painting, a poem and a good wish to their elders. When the children gave them to their elders, the old people were delighted and moved beyond words.

Since childhood, we have taught our children to respect the old and love the young. Lucky money is the care of the old for their children, and children's respect for the old can also be expressed through the Spring Festival.

surely you can also create other ways to express your feelings to the elderly? Ask children to participate together and create their own "filial piety".

New Year greeting etiquette

1. Read it together

2. New Year greeting etiquette

Now, New Year greeting has evolved into a kind of etiquette. People greet each other and express their blessings during the Spring Festival, which is also a good luck.

So, tell the children that they can't keep etiquette and make jokes during the prosperous Spring Festival. Pay attention to these aspects when visiting New Year:

If your child is young, be sure to take him to practice at home. Don't take it for granted that the child will visit New Year. You can teach your children auspicious words first, and learning begins with imitation. Tell your children what to say in advance, so that they won't feel uneasy.

3. Don't neglect your children during the New Year

Have you ever had such an experience?

When parents take their children to New Year's greetings, it is best to arrange their children's time at relatives' homes. You can bring some books that children like, and you can also bring some board games so that children can play with their friends at relatives' homes. Only when children can find something they like to do can they show a more polite side.

table manners

1. Read

This short story is a true story of my family. I hope you like it.

Children's habit of eating out can be said to reflect parents' education level in one aspect. Parents should not neglect their children's education in this respect.

2. Table manners

3. Good manners make people sit up and take notice

Just because of this time, I have always had a particularly good impression on this young lady, and I want to take Co with me to play with her when I have nothing to do, which is near Zhu Zhechi.

It can be seen that good manners can make children stand out from the crowd and be liked and recognized by people. With this quality, children will have a wider road wherever they go in the future.

Guest Etiquette

1. Read it together

He would rather destroy his clothes than bother his host, which is worth learning.

2. Guest Etiquette

Parents should inform their children in advance that they will go to other people's homes to pay a New Year call, and popularize it for their children. What can they do to be a welcome little guest?

3. Don't be the "Xiong Haizi" in others' eyes

I can see several Xiong Haizi almost every Spring Festival, but to be honest, when I meet Xiong Haizi, I'm embarrassed to say anything. After all, we are all relatives.

China people are a country of etiquette, with a profound meaning.

first filial piety, second sincere letter. From an early age, we should educate our children to be filial to their parents and be careful what they say and do. The first is not to cause trouble to others, especially on such a festive day as Chinese New Year. We must take care of ourselves in order to have a happy family.

if there is no specific estimate of the destructive power of children, I suggest that your children should not take them to other people's homes to pay New Year's greetings. After all, children are curious by nature, and if they are too young to control themselves, they are still not suitable for taking them to pay New Year's greetings.

Hospitality Etiquette

1. Hospitality Etiquette

In addition to visiting other people's homes to pay New Year's greetings, we will also encounter visitors coming to our homes to pay New Year's greetings. At this time, parents should teach their children how to be a beloved little host.

2. Pay attention to the sensitive period of children's property rights

Babies aged 2-3 are still experiencing their sensitive period of property rights. If there are children of this age in your family, don't order them to share their toys with children who come home to pay New Year greetings. Doing so will destroy their awareness of property rights and will also be strongly resisted by children.

In this case, parents can buy one or two toys and put them in the living room, telling their children, "This is specially for entertaining guests." The child is trying to distinguish the ownership of items. If a toy is not his own, it is possible for him to let the guests play with this exclusive toy when they come.

When a guest comes home to pay a New Year call, tell the visiting children in advance which toys are playable and which are not to be touched, or just close the door of the baby's room.

Don't think it's stingy to do so. At this time, parents should help their children determine what belongs to them. Only when he is particularly sure can he progress to the stage of sharing toys.

-Conclusion-

The Chinese nation is a country of etiquette, and the Spring Festival is also a training ground to show etiquette.

The way parents educate their children will determine whether their children become a modest gentleman or a Xiong Haizi. Remember, don't insist, let the children understand the significance of doing this and be willing to do it spontaneously, so as to achieve the educational goal.

If parents' education arouses a child's antipathy, he may be impolite now, and he will have some social fears when he grows up. Because when I was a child, it was a kind of exercise to receive people and treat things. When I was a child, I didn't finish this exercise. When I grew up, I didn't know how to be in the crowd.

Therefore, parents should not underestimate the etiquette rules, seize the special day of Spring Festival, read stories and do exercises with their children, and cultivate them slowly.