The man who took a piece of cabbage from his neighbor and left 20 yuan was angry. What should be his attitude towards asking others for help?

Many of us like to eat cabbage because it is cheap and rich in nutrients. Northeastern people like to grow cabbage the most in winter. During the epidemic, the price of cabbage increased. Many people say that I can’t even afford cabbage.

A cabbage tree is trending

Many residents in Shijiazhuang, Hebei Province were quarantined. A man was hungry and didn’t know what to do because he didn’t have vegetables at home. He saw his neighbors on the roof stocking a lot of vegetables. Chinese cabbage. He wrote a note on a cabbage and put it there, saying that I took a cabbage and put 20 yuan in it. If 20 yuan is not enough, I will buy a cabbage and return it to you.

I took a video because it was a cabbage and it became popular on the Internet. When the neighbor saw it, he brought a lot of vegetables and gave them to the man.

We were all very moved when we saw this. It is true that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors and good neighbors.

Neighbors help each other

I particularly agree with this man’s behavior. There is no food at home, and the rivers and lakes are in need. We have no choice but to steal or take. We can only buy it with money. I believe everyone knows that 20 yuan can buy a lot of cabbage.

When we need help, we can ask our neighbors for help in the right way. For example, let’s say the water supply is cut off at home, but the neighbor’s home has water supply. We can take some fruits and vegetables to the neighbor's house and buy some water. Neighbors definitely don’t want to give money.

As long as we have a good attitude, our neighbors will help us. But I don’t recommend using favors. If you can solve the problem with money, don’t use favors.

Neighbors move around with each other. For example, if your neighbor gives you a watermelon, you should give your neighbor some apples. This mutual exchange allows us to eat different fruits, which is particularly good.

When conflicts arise between neighbors, we must resolve them.

The Story of Liuchi Alley

The children are graduate students, and their parents had conflicts with their neighbors. They were unwilling to sell the three-foot land for road construction, and they argued endlessly. Parents don't know what to do. Tell the child, it doesn’t matter if the child says let him be three feet tall. My parents gave in three feet. Unexpectedly, the neighbors also followed their example and gave up three feet, and six feet alley appeared.

Take a step back and the world is brighter. Neighbors should help each other. There shouldn't be endless arguments, it's actually a very simple matter. Just take a step back and we can still be good neighbors.

The man took the neighbor's cabbage, wrote a note, and put 20 yuan in it. He did it very correctly. Not being anxious resolves the conflict, if each neighbor takes a cabbage, doesn't put money, and doesn't write a note. Conflicts will arise because it’s not worth arguing over cabbage.

Through the story of a cabbage tree, the story of Liuchi Alley, and the story of us, when neighbors encounter problems, we must learn to solve them. If each of us takes a step back, the problem will be solved. Use actions to warm up each other and give our neighbors something to do. Warmth, this is how neighbors should be. We are all good neighbors.