Fan Shengmei, men run away not because you are a heavy burden, but because

Fan Shengmei went to see Wang Baichuan's parents, but ran away as soon as she entered. Wang Baichuan's mother raised objections: The family has a heavy burden and rich experience. Fan Shengmei cried on the street: I have been in many relationships. At first I was reaching for the stars and the moon, but I gave up after learning about my family’s situation.

Can I not experience richness? If possible, which girl doesn't want to be successful in love and find someone to live a good life, don't I? If you can't persist, you shouldn't have messed with me in the first place.

Wang Baichuan carried Fan Shengmei on his back and said: No matter how they treat you, they and I are really different. I really hope you are happy. I won't leave you. I want you to live the happiest life.

The whole scene is sad and tender. I am moved by Wang Baichuan's infatuation and praise his courage to go to the tiger mountain knowing that there are tigers in the mountains.

But I am always not optimistic about them, and I think Wang Baichuan will eventually give up. It's not that Wang Baichuan doesn't have enough courage, it's that Fan Shengmei is too irritating. It's not the kind of irritation that Qu Yaoxing has, but the kind of irritation that makes people feel a dilemma between love and hate.

Fan Sheng is beautiful and must have many suitors, but there is definitely no rich man she is looking for who is willing to marry her. People like Lao Tan and Qi Dian really don’t think she gives her family every month. It's nothing to send thousands of dollars, but it's a pity that she doesn't have the corresponding resources to match the rich.

Only ordinary class men are left. Why are so many men running away? Is it really just because Fan Shengmei’s family has a heavy burden? It must be because of this, but not necessarily. I feel that what Fan Shengmei cannot afford to be with is not entirely her family, but that the suffering after being with her is more than the happiness.

Save money to buy a house for your family and provide living expenses for your parents. Before her father got sick, didn't her parents have any income when they were still young? You know that all the money you give to your parents will be given to your brother for gambling, so why don't you stop?

You are willing to give it, but you look very aggrieved. Is her boyfriend annoyed? Think about it when we ourselves are crying, you try to help us find a solution, but the other person doesn’t listen and continues to cry for a lot of reasons. Is it annoying to you?

When something happened to her brother and sister-in-law, "They are adults and should be able to take responsibility for themselves." This sentence gave Fan Shengmei a thumbs up, but then her mother took out the living expenses and asked her to find a solution. In an instant, Fan Shengmei burst into tears, and I knew that she might never be able to withdraw from her family.

She didn't seem to break the rules, but when the supermarket tried it and gave away so much, her mother would first think of her idea. For a person who has no position and no decision-making, the other person must love her more so that he can tolerate her unconditionally with energy and money.

During the May Day holiday, it was Wang Baichuan’s 80th birthday. He asked Wang Baichuan to call the supplier immediately to find a quote but was rejected. He said this.

Wang Baichuan is always urging him to work hard to make money and buy a house. Only after buying a house can he feel safe. Fan Shengmei seems to have made a mistake. The man's parents are dissatisfied because she is not good enough, not because their child is not good enough.

"Doing good business is much better than sitting at a banquet." Fei forced him to make a phone call immediately, stimulated Wang Baichuan with a knock on the door outside his home, and promised that as long as Wang Baichuan called to contact the business , she went to see Wang Baichuan's parents.

"The opportunity is in front of you, you decide." "I call you every quarter of an hour. If you are not calling, you are ignoring our future, and then we will have no future. "

The first time the phone line was busy, Fan Shengmei sent WeChat "First time, you are on the call, good". Like a boss who takes command. In this era, bosses are no longer so powerful. The girlfriend is actually more vicious than the capitalist.

Xiaomei in this scene is terrifying, so cold that she can’t even see a trace of affection. Although you need to be diligent in doing business, not doing this business will not affect your fortune, but the old man's birthday party is only this one. She doesn't seem to have much human touch since she hasn't received the warmth of family affection.

Wang Baichuan wanted to show his feelings by taking her to meet her parents, but she used the meeting as a bargaining chip or blackmail. "As long as you give the quotation to Xiaoqu, I will go with you to meet your parents." Whether you meet your parents or not does not depend on feelings, but on whether your work attitude satisfies me.

In this movie, the relationship between Fan Shengmei and Wang Baichuan does not show you and me, but a direct relationship through thick and thin. Oh, no, the wind that blows on Fan Shengmei turns into heavy rain and pours on Wang Baichuan. .

Something happened at home, forcing Wang Baichuan to think of a solution immediately regardless of what he was doing. Once she doesn't get what she wants, she says, "Why are you never by my side when I need you?" Not only do you hope that the other person will work around the clock to make money, but you also hope that you can show up at any time. To be honest, it's not easy to be her boyfriend.

"If you love me, you should work hard to earn money to buy a house for me" is different from her parents' view of "I am your parents, you can't ignore us".

All she cares about is herself, her home, and the house she hopes to buy in Shanghai. She only cares about whether Wang Baichuan can get the order and whether he is working, and she is only dissatisfied with his failure.

She eagerly hopes to change her situation through Wang Baichuan. Since he had no ability, he desperately urged Wang Baichuan to make money so that he could buy a house in Shanghai. With Fan Shengmei's income, consumption and family burden, she definitely has no savings. Wang Baichuan paid for the house and then wrote her name on it. Is this her so-called sense of security?

How is it different from her parents, brother and sister-in-law to tie her destiny to another person and constantly exploit people who are good to her?

Her native family did not teach her the ability to love, and years of working independently made her not believe in feelings. Therefore, Fan Shengmei had no sympathy or comfort for Wang Baichuan, only boss-like encouragement and condescending urging.

If you love someone, she will feel sorry for him and respect him, instead of forcing him to move forward like a boss who only cares about how much money you make today and when you can afford a house.

As a woman, if a man is willing to support you and you don’t want to work or don’t work hard, that’s fine. But you can only live a life within the scope of your man's ability. You have no position to think that he doesn't make enough money. As long as he is self-motivated and doesn't indulge in sex, prostitution or gambling, you can't disrespect the pace of his work.

On the other hand, Fan Shengmei did not want to work hard to make money, but she felt that Wang Baichuan was not making money fast enough and had to take care of her schedule.

An article once wrote that no man would marry a woman like Fan Shengmei. Now it seems that if Fan Shengmei still lives according to her current philosophy, how long can Wang Baichuan endure it?

A person’s adult life is within his control. You can decide how you want your life to be. It's understandable that the family burden is heavy, and there will definitely be people willing to share the burden with you, but you have to have an attitude.

That means I am willing to work with you to create our beautiful life, and we will work together.

Girl, you can’t pass all your burdens on to the person who loves you. Staying together through thick and thin means that we bear each other's ups and downs together, rather than letting me bear yours and my own alone.