What on earth is love?

Love means doing your best for her (him).

The love between men and women that people usually talk about is actually a feeling, which is a mixture of sex and emotion. It is half sex, half love; half lust, half love; half devil, half angel. It takes sexual needs (desire) and sexual pleasure as its core, mixed with psychological activities such as liking, caring, admiration, attachment, longing, and yearning. It also encourages people in love to develop psychological characteristics that are similar to love but not love, such as: responsibility, obligation, understanding, tolerance, care, care, respect, giving, etc. (If these psychological characteristics can be used to treat the world equally and unconditionally, All living beings are sublimated into true love). At the same time, it is accompanied by a series of irrational things such as desire, control, playing, pickiness, dissatisfaction, resentment and suspicion based on self-satisfaction. Friends who are in love, don't be blinded by your lover's "I like you", and don't be dazzled by your lover's "I love you". When "I love you" is spoken from a man's mouth, it mostly means lust and possession. When "I love you" is spoken from a woman's mouth, it mostly means liking and possessing. When a person says "I love you" to you, you should think about it calmly, and you should examine it carefully and carefully. What does he love you, how does he love you, and what are his qualifications? Is he virtuous? Don't just look at how he treats you, but also how he treats others, especially the weak. Is he being nice to you? Is it because he has intentions for you? What he wants from you does not mean that he is a good person. You should find a good person who is kind, not someone who has designs on you. So, what is true love?

Love is not love, love is not love.

Love is selfish, but love is selfless.

Only by sublimating love into love, your love will be more secure, your marriage will last longer, and your family will be more harmonious and happier.

Love is the eternal theme of human society and even the entire life world.

Love is sacred, love is sublime, love is beautiful.

Giving love is great, being loved is happiness.

I observed, I thought, and I found:

Love is a lofty and stable spiritual state,

Love is a selfless mentality. Status,

Love is given unconditionally and voluntarily.

Love means wholeheartedly doing good for "you" and wholeheartedly wanting "you" to be good.

The mentality of love is peaceful and peaceful, with no regrets.

Love and wisdom are mutually responsible.

Love is the crystallization of wisdom. Without real wisdom, there can be no true thoughts and behaviors of love.

Love is the source of wisdom. Without true love, there cannot be true wisdom.

Love uses reason as the steering wheel and will as the driving force, spreading the rain of compassion throughout the world of life and nourishing the heart of every life.

Like is not a condition for love, love is unconditional.

Love is based on respect and treats every life equally.

Love is understanding and tolerance, love is conscious and voluntary;

Love is encouragement and support, love is comfort and persuasion;

Love is responsibility and obligation , love is giving and expectation;

Love is care and care, love is the goal and means;

Love is commitment and trustworthiness, love is strength and source.

The heart is full of love, but not attached to love, not attached to love, not not to love;

To love without loving, to love without loving, as the saying goes, "Sneak in with the wind" Night moistens things silently."

Fang is true love, Fang is great love.

Love does not reject liking, but liking alone is not love.

Love does not reject sex, but sex alone is not love.

Love does not reject two emotions. Love, but love between two people is not love.

Love does not reject play between the sexes, but play between the sexes is not love.

Love is a good medicine for life.

It can heal the wounds of the soul.

It can correct the defects of mentality.

It can cure physical ailments.

Get out of the misunderstanding of love,

Happiness will accompany you throughout your life.

The taste of love

The taste of love is not all sweetness in front of flowers and under the moon.

Love also has bitterness and bitterness,

< p>Love is more day-to-day, monotonous and dull.

Love includes the joy of reunion and attachment when parting;

It has the tenderness of cuddling and relying on each other, and the uninhibitedness of whispering;

There is concern after parting, and there is joy when we meet again;

There is smile when there is a tacit understanding, and there is grievance when there is misunderstanding;

There is happiness when we are satisfied, and there is also sadness when we are disappointed. ;

There is anger when it is unbearable, and there is relief after tolerance;

There is uneasiness after a mistake, and there is also purity after repentance;

There is helplessness when in trouble, but also relief after getting out of trouble;

There is pride when being affirmed and appreciated, and there is also sadness when being denied and criticized;

There is passionate care The warmth of the times, but also the chill of indifference;

There is the yearning for an ideal life, but also dissatisfaction with the current situation;

There is the longing for a better future, and there is also the unforgettable years.

There is the romance of loving each other under the moonlight, and there is also the embarrassment of trekking in the mud in the wind and rain;

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Love is more, day after day A day is monotonous and insipid;

In love, you must be able to endure loneliness, monotony, and insipidity;

Peace is a blessing, and insipidity is also a blessing.

Attachment:

Keeping Love Fresh Love means doing your best for her (him).

Ten (perfect) principles of love (marriage, family) happiness:

1. The principle of respecting sex. Both parties in love must respect each other's personal dignity and will, and cannot impose their will on the other party.

2. The principle of trust. Both parties in love must trust each other and not have unreasonable suspicion.

3. The principle of loyalty. Both parties in love must be loyal to each other, be responsible for their lover, their children, and their family, and must not like the new and dislike the old, which may destroy family harmony.

4. The principle of inclusiveness. Both parties in love must accept each other and tolerate each other's shortcomings and shortcomings. You cannot dwell on each other's shortcomings and deficiencies.

5. The principle of mutual love. Choose to love (not like) you, love what you choose.

6. Principle of communication. Both parties in love should communicate their thoughts and feelings in a timely manner and not alienate each other.

7. The principle of consultation. Both parties in love should communicate their thoughts and feelings in a timely manner, and should negotiate and resolve any issues or problems they encounter, and should not act arbitrarily.

8. The principle of distance. Both parties in love should keep an appropriate distance and leave a certain amount of personal space for themselves. They should not completely present or hand over everything to him, but should leave a vague sense of mystery to the other person.

9. The principle of independence. Don't rely on others, don't pin your hopes and happiness on others, and always keep yourself in a state of self-reliance.

10. The principle of advancement and retreat. Both parties in love should know how to advance and retreat, and should adjust themselves in time. Don't blindly show off your strength or show weakness, and don't be blindly enthusiastic or cold. Don't be rude and unforgiving, don't push things to the limit, stop things in moderation, give up when things are good, leave time for the other party to think, and leave room for the other party to turn around. When it is time to advance, it is forward, when it is retreat, it is retreat; when it is going, it is going, when it is stopping, it is stopping; when it is strong, it is strong, when it is weak, it is weak; when it is cold, it is cold, and when it is hot, it is hot. The relationship between the two parties should always be in the best neutral state.

Six causes of unhappy marriages:

1. Wishful thinking. Blindly pursue what you love, while ignoring the other person's attitude towards you (not loving you).

2. Misjudgment of feelings. Mistaking sexual attraction for love, mistaking liking for love, mistaking goodwill for love.

3. Brutal control. Treat the person you are in love with as your own private property and strictly control it to achieve the purpose of possessing the other person.

4. Chattering. Regardless of the opportunity or occasion, regardless of the other person's feelings, seize on the other person's shortcomings and shortcomings, nag and criticize the other person.

5. Groundless suspicion. Do not trust each other, be suspicious, and make random suspicions.

6. Love the new and hate the old. Taking self-centered lust as the center, taking liking as the standard, and using emotional discord as an excuse to indulge oneself and change one's thoughts.

The concept of family harmony:

The concept of integrity. A couple is a whole, parents and children are a whole, parents, children and the elderly are a whole, and a family is a whole. If one loses, both will lose, if one gains, both will prosper. When thinking about problems and handling things, you should have an overall concept and a holistic concept. Everything is for the existence of this whole - the family, for the sake of this whole - the harmony of the family.

Love is not love, love is not love. Love is selfish, but love is selfless.

Only by sublimating love into love, your love will be more secure, your marriage will last longer, and your family will be more harmonious and happier.

Love Proverbs

If you like him (her),

you must love him (her),

you must accept him ( She) - not only must accept his (her) strengths and weaknesses, but also accept his (her) shortcomings and shortcomings,

We must forgive him (her),

Understand him (her),

Trust him (her),

Respect him (her),

Care for her (her),

< p>Care about him (her),

Wait for him (her),

And be willing to change yourself for him (her),

Be willing to do it for him (her) ) give everything of yourself.

Love is mutual,

Since he (she) has chosen to love you,

You must work hard to cultivate yourself into a person worthy of him (her) The one you love,

change yourself for him (her),

correct your shortcomings for him (her),

for him (her) ) to make up for your own shortcomings,

If you love him (her), don’t be harsh on him (her),

If you love him (her), don’t hurt him (her), < /p>

If you love him (her), don’t doubt him (her),

If you love him (her), don’t make things difficult for him (her),

Love him (She), you must put yourself in his (her) shoes,

If you love him (her), you must make him (her) live happier and happier,

In the name of love,

demand him (her), restrict him (her), doubt him (her), make things difficult for him (her),

let him (her) Survive and live according to your own will,

This is not love,

Love is more about responsibility and obligation,

Love is more about commitment and trustworthiness ,

Love is more about respect and care,

Love is more about understanding and tolerance,

Love is more about care and support.

Love does not reject liking, but liking alone is not love.

Love does not reject sex, but sex alone is not love.

Love does not reject two emotions. Love, but love between two people is not love.

Love does not reject play between the sexes, but play between the sexes is not love.

Love is a good medicine for life.

It can heal the wounds of the soul.

It can correct the defects of mentality.

It can cure physical ailments.

Get out of the misunderstanding of love,

Happiness will accompany you throughout your life.