What should I do if I find my wife chatting with someone "I miss you, it's good to have you"?

My colleagues have also encountered this problem, and to make matters worse. (mentioned later)

0 1?

The first element of this question is to find out who the wife is chatting with. If the wife is chatting with her best friend, the problem will be solved and there is no threat at all.

If the wife is chatting with a man, it means that their relationship is extraordinary. The wife has probably moved on, and even two people have fallen in love. This is a thorny issue.

02

If the wife is really chatting with a man and saying such a thing, then you need to find out why the wife did it first.

Do you have too many shortcomings? Does your wife have any complaints about you? Or does your love for your wife fade away with the years, and your wife can't get warmth and happiness from you?

Is your wife in love with someone better than you? Or did the man give his wife more temptations, more surprises and more excitement?

Or is the wife tired of the siege life day after day and wants to find a new life?

03

I believe every man can't stand this situation. Love is selfish, so is marriage. There is no room for a third person to intervene in the world of two people. So what should a husband do when this happens?

If you love your wife very much and don't want to lose her at all, then you should start from yourself. First look for your own shortcomings and deficiencies, and then seriously turn over a new leaf. And be gentle with your wife, warm and influence her a little from your heart, and let your happy and sweet memories of the past be relived on you a little.

People are full of meat in their hearts, and if their wives move, they may have lost confidence in you. As long as you seriously turn over a new leaf and treat her sincerely, I believe your wife will pull back from the brink and return to her family.

If you find that your wife can't go back, and that man is very nice, they are more suitable together, I suggest you let go. Because you can't keep your wife's heart, even if you keep her, she is still in Cao Cao and her heart is in Han, and your life will still be difficult.

If you love someone, you don't have to leave her with you. Sometimes letting go is a higher level of love.

04?

One of my colleagues loves his wife very much, and the degree of love is simply outrageous. The wife has a good face and a graceful figure, but her fingers don't touch the spring water.

Colleagues do laundry, cook and clean every day, and their wives are not allowed to do all the housework. The most incomprehensible thing is that although he was very kind to his wife, she ran away with an affair.

Maybe it's too spoiled. Tell your colleagues before your wife elopes. Colleagues really loathe to give up, so they locked their wives in the house and called their eldest brother.

After the big brother came over, he slapped his sister, and his colleague stopped him and said, Brother, don't hit her. If you want to hit me, hit me. ?

In the end, everyone may not guess: the colleague not only released his wife, but also gave her all the cash at home to let her take the flowers on the road. Don't be wronged. The wife was a little surprised at the moment she took the money, but she hardened her heart and left.

I can't comment on whether my colleague is particularly great, but I know that he is absolutely sincere to his wife. Half a year later, his wife returned to him because there was no one who loved her more than her colleagues.

It used to be a joke in our local area, but now they both enjoy it. Colleagues still love their wives deeply, but their wives have quietly changed. Not only did I start washing and cooking, but I was getting better and better for my colleagues.

It can be seen that if you love deeply, sometimes you can't help but choose to let go. Colleagues' letting go ushered in a resurgence, but most of them should be separated.

Conclusion: As a husband, we should treat his wife's ambiguous chat rationally. It's time to insist on starting from yourself, and it's time to let go. Please analyze the reasons, and then follow your heart to make a choice.