Useful and interesting

I have been immersed in a boring and useless whirlpool for some time. Life is boring, work is useless, no interest, no interest, no hope, no direction. The more you struggle, the more painful it is. Learn from a painful experience, focus on the present and live the present well.

But my present moment is that I suddenly have no strength for my past study and sports. Irresistibly addicted to fragmented vibrato, or chasing dramas day and night. There was a sober moment when reason overcame instinct. I took notes in class and the paragraphs were clear, but when I wanted to write, my hand involuntarily pointed to the fragmented information of Tik Tok. I want to sleep when I am tired, which makes me sleepy every weekend. I make up my mind every Monday, and I will do what I want on weekends …

I have been listening to the teacher's rhythm for five or six times, listening to sleep, listening to the surge of emotion, listening to love, and thanking my parents for the knowledge about family and the wonderful experience they have created for me. Compared with my own understanding of my family as a parent, I recalled that on the eve of the typhoon, my child came to my bedroom in the middle of the night and shared a bed with me. My cat also quietly came to bed and slept well that night. At that moment, I suddenly understood the concepts of mother and home. For my son, where I am is his home, and I feel the responsibility and value of my body in an instant!

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I didn't want to go to the group building activities organized by the company last weekend, but my colleagues kept inviting me. I can go if I want. It is rare for someone to miss me, which shows that we are still valuable. Simply close your eyes on the road and accidentally see the audio of teacher Mao Yiman in the group. How to be a useful and interesting person? Not only aroused my interest.

I like arranging flowers, which is a hobby since childhood. Even before, when flowers were out of fashion now, I would take some frost-resistant Chinese rose flowers or chrysanthemums home in late autumn and put them in cotton flowers or bottles. There are osmanthus flowers at home, wintersweet in winter, and even when there are no flowers, cabbage flowers and radish flowers will also attract interest. Even cutting a green plant outside and putting it in a bottle will make me happy for a long time. My mother laughed at me. Can flower arrangement be eaten as a meal? I don't do business every day.

Recently, a friend came to my house and invited me to dinner. Speaking of everyone's recent life, I can't help sighing. He said I could see your situation. There is no flower arrangement at home, and the house is not so exquisite. However, the cat is happy and its territory is everywhere. I was speechless, and a tear swirled in my eyes.

For me, when I have no interest in my useless love, I almost lose my motivation for useful things. This is my personal experience.

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What about being a useful person? Is it better to be an interesting person? Tell you a story.

In my hometown, there are two grandmothers and grandfathers whom I respect very much. They are my mother's uncle and aunt. Because my mother's aunt told her nephew about her nephew.

In our village, grandpa is humorous and good at farming. At home, he also likes to grow flowers and grass, eager to sell flowers at parties to earn money. Grandma (mother's aunt) has gray hair and is very tall. Her meticulous hair is behind her head, and her face is a little slender. When she smiles, her eyes will smile. As far as I can remember, grandma always smiles. My grandmother died young, and my mother took me back to my hometown to see my grandmother almost every time I took a vacation from work. At this time, grandma will copy peanuts, serve tea and pour water, hold my hand or my mother's hand and say some daily words with a smile. Really, after working for so many years, I often think of my grandmother. Grandma is especially good at praising people. She said I grew up with my younger brother. Girls are like girls and boys are like boys. I didn't understand.

I will always miss my hometown and my grandparents after we moved away from home for many years. Grandparents are not successful people, they have not created much wealth for their children, and even their sons have famine when they get married and start a family. In the countryside, he is the kind of poor and happy person who can't live. I remember that the year after my grandmother died, my grandfather was also seriously ill. Occasionally, grandpa strolls in the street, and some old people of the same age can't help but say some wisecracks. At this time, grandpa would say, I have to "quit my job" (live happily) and can't keep flying. An old man with a terminal illness can always bring joy to everyone, and soon his grandfather died.

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Some characteristics of interesting adults are mainly manifested in the following aspects:

People who are good at self-deprecating are generally humorous. Humor is the embodiment of spiritual freedom. The greater the spiritual freedom, the more relaxed you will be. A person who makes people relaxed and happy will definitely be an interesting person. Humor is a woman's greatest sexiness.

I was in a bad mood the other day, and a male colleague made me laugh when he was free. As usual, I will walk up or down their steps. I am not happy this time. I said, what do you want to hear from menopausal middle-aged women? Then I naturally teased him.

In life, there are always some people who can relax under any circumstances. The most obvious evaluation of them seems to be that they are somewhat incomprehensible, even silly and so open-minded. For everyone, living is a gift of life, and people who enjoy themselves must be helpful. I first heard these words from my father. Helping others and having fun is my father's motto, and he has always practiced himself by it.

Self-integration is a closed loop in logic, the mind is balanced, and people are peaceful and happy in the self-integration state.

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An interesting person will make the flow of love easier and smoother. An interesting person, full of curiosity and enthusiasm, a feeling of being on the road.

There is a saying that is particularly good, beautiful skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a million. So how is the interesting soul cultivated?

No one is born transparent. Only after experiencing the tempering of life, he is still optimistic. After understanding the hardships of life, he is still full of enthusiasm.

Relaxation and peace depend on your love for yourself, others and nature. In fact, love and self-love all end up in the same way. This is a topic of life, and I know very little about it.

Which is more important, useful or interesting?

Being useful is a necessity in material life, and only when you have the ability can you earn money to support your family.

Fun is a necessity in spiritual life, that is, many rich bosses often say that only money is left. Actually, the lack of spiritual life.

Modern people are a combination of matter and spirit, so being a useful and interesting person is the main body of our lifelong cultivation.

Zhou said that if a person can do what he likes, support himself with it, be with the person he likes and make the other person happy, then I call it happiness.

In other words, some things that you think are interesting become the theme of your work and bring you a sense of accomplishment in your career. A person you love loves you, and you can feel the happiness of the other person and know that it is because of yourself. This is the happiness on earth!

It's worth drinking only one spoonful of weak water for 3 thousand! This world is worth it