The rest of your life is long, why panic?

The rest of your life is very long, so why panic; the past is gone, and the years are long.

Life is a long journey, there is no need to feel sad and happy about the current gains and losses.

Just as Sanmao told the world: "Everything in the world comes and goes in its own time."

Fear of losing, always thinking too much

Many times, we are always frightened by the phrase "what to do next".

I live in fear every day, and my days become boring. We are always afraid that the worst will happen, and that even if we are still in love, we will break up one day, so even if we meet someone we like, we will not show our affection; we are afraid of telling our lover that we like to be laughed at by others, and we will regret it after we break up. .

I am afraid of losing, so I always carefully protect the things I cherish. Slowly becoming worried about gains and losses, becoming more and more insecure.

They will be flustered by the other person's inadvertent indifference, wondering if they have done something bad, and they will be concerned about whether they are worthy of the other person, and they will feel very anxious and uneasy.

People are often like this. The more they try to catch something, the more they try to catch something, but in the end they catch nothing.

Even so, we still have to work hard, otherwise the past days will be like fallen leaves in autumn, clearly accusing us of our laziness and lack of strength.

And waiting for a relationship is like hibernating, like a little bear going into its own tree hole, storing only enough love, enough tenderness and cunning for oneself, in case it is waiting for you as soon as you wake up. He did. Of course, you must also store enough pride, enough loneliness and indifference for yourself, just in case you wait too long and find out that he will never come again.

Therefore, every wait is meaningful. Don’t worry, what is supposed to come will always come.

Experiencing setbacks is a required course in life

The reason why people are mature is because every sensible and calm present has a silly and naive past. Every warm and indifferent present has a sad and uneasy past.

Su Cen said: Even when he was in the worst mood, he would still eat on time, go to bed early and get up early, and be as disciplined as ever. Such people are the ones who can handle things. No matter how messy things are, it won't upset your heart. People don't need to have so many extraordinary qualities. They are talented if they can handle things.

We must go through all kinds of setbacks and tribulations we encounter in the process of growing up. Just like seeking scriptures from the West, we must go through ninety-nine and eighty-one hardships to obtain the true scriptures.

Everyone’s life cannot be smooth sailing. Sometimes life gives you hardships, which are actually paving the way for romance.

People will only grow after experiencing it. If there is a section of the road that can only be walked alone, you have to say to yourself who is working hard: Just walk through this road. There must be warmer people and people ahead of you. More beautiful scenery is waiting.

After experiencing suffering, you will not be intimidated by ordinary small disasters. Look down on the joys and sorrows, enjoy the peace and tranquility, and refine a heart to the brightest light. Others wish you happiness, but I hope that you will still feel that life is worth living despite all the hardships.

The rest of your life is very long, so why panic?

The best state of mind in life is nothing more than: three thousand things in the world, with a smile.

The rest of your life is long, so don’t panic. May you have peace of mind and calmly face the gossips of others. May you have a clear mind and smile past unfulfilled promises, cherish encounters and laugh at partings.