Female leaders send me ambiguous messages in the middle of the night. What should I do?

Not long ago, the American headquarters sent a new general manager to our company. I heard it was still a woman. "Strong woman" and "Wall Street elite" are my labels for her who has never been masked. But I never expected that her appearance brought great trouble to my life and work, and I didn't know what to do.

My family condition is average. You can live comfortably in a small county, but you can't even afford a bathroom in Shanghai. And I don't want to settle down, saying that I should do more pioneering work when I was young, so I came to Shanghai after graduation, eager to have my own career here.

Our company is a multinational enterprise. I am just a small employee, but my identity has changed a lot since she came, and I soon became the middle-level leader of the company. This is not because of my outstanding ability, but because she said, "Being so handsome, it's a waste to just do these things."

Since then, the company has spread our gossip. Although there is nothing between us, I care very much and avoid her to some extent. But later, she likes to ask me out when she has something to do. She went on a business trip without her secretary, but she took me with her. Every time my colleagues look at me differently, I know all this, but what can I do?

Sometimes she calls me in the middle of the night, sends WeChat, and sometimes sends me some very private pictures. You know, I haven't even talked about love since I graduated for so many years. How can I stand this temptation? She is like a poppy. Although your reason tells you to stay away from her, your body is honest.

I am a very traditional man. To tell the truth, if an ordinary man were in such a situation, he might have jumped on me, but I can't do this. I feel very sorry for myself and irresponsible to my other half, so I can only expect her to let me go.

She used to call me often, but later she became more and more courageous. She not only sent me some very private photos, but also videos of wearing underwear, and even asked me if my underwear looked good. I really don't know what to do.