What is the reason why you can't lend money to others?

1, wife and car can't be borrowed. The former is related to the fate of the family and its own dignity, while the latter is related to responsibility. Don't accidentally ruin your family and break up your wife. I'm afraid you won't cry then.

Say only three words to everyone, don't throw all your words in my heart, because heart-to-heart communication is a very retarded thing, especially those closest to you, you must keep a sense of proportion and distance. Because once there is a conflict of interest, it is often the other party who hurts you the most, because she knows where all your weaknesses and seven inches are, so that you can't hit it with one blow.

3, a friend's wife can not be bullied, even if a friend's wife is no matter how beautiful or how fond she is, she must never hook up and do something that people look down upon. You know, rabbits don't eat grass beside their nests, not to mention that you are brothers and friends.

4, even if the relationship is good, don't vouch for relatives and friends, otherwise if something happens to the other party, you will be a big loser, ranging from losing money to spreading a lot of trouble, to making your family restless and discredited.

No matter how good your relationship with the other party is, unless you are the owner of the money, or you don't intend to let the other party pay it back at all, you may not only lose money, but even turn against each other.

It is impossible to hurt people, but it is necessary to prevent them. Therefore, when we meet people with ulterior motives, we'd better stay away from them for our own safety. We can't afford to be provoked, but we can afford to hide.

7. Don't wash your dirty clothes in public. No matter how many grievances you have suffered at home, don't tell anyone, even your best friend, because few people really want you to live well, and even fewer people really care about you.

You know, there is no empathy in the world, so your dirty clothes are just a joke to others, just a conversation after dinner. Maybe you were in a good mood when you said it, but you didn't know that it would make your whole family lose face, be full of contradictions and even turn against each other.

No matter what extraordinary achievements you have made, please keep a low profile and don't show off and show off in an ostentatious manner everywhere, otherwise it is likely to cause envy and envy of others, thus putting yourself in danger unconsciously.

9, wealth can not be seen, as the saying goes: people die for wealth, birds die for food! The world is bustling for profit, so no matter how much money you earn or how happy you are, don't show off your wealth, because it will attract people who are not as good as you to be jealous, make the bad guys remember your money, and lead to disaster.