Serial accompany reading that thing (6)

A list of links accompanying reading essays on small events.

The girl's name is Dong Yue! When the age of falling in love comes, she is always blessed, which is the most suitable season for falling in love in a year! Just received a carefully prepared birthday present, followed by a romantic Christmas. Sometimes this man will put her down at the end of everyone's carnival on snowy Christmas Eve, as if he had designed it on purpose. Walking under the street lamp, we all know that this is a good opportunity to express our love! After the sweet farewell, I have been looking forward to the New Year holiday in a few days. Two people appeared hand in hand at various New Year's Eve parties, counting down the end of the year together. Ten ... Nine ... Eight ... At the last second, I tried to shout "I love you" to the whole world, and then hugged and kissed each other deeply like all the couples around me, so that this symbol of eternal love would last from the end of the year to the beginning of the year.

In fact, she had a hunch that this day would come, but all this was doomed when she was born. It must have happened in this season of love, because she was born in the lunar calendar 1 1 (winter moon).

My wife's name is not Dany, but I also like to speak my mind in her ear. Especially in the coldest winter of the year, two people get together at night to warm each other, which is the most intimate season of the year. There are some things you really don't have to be afraid of. After all, life is too short. I'm so scared, I can't tell her a lot of things hidden in my heart.

The winter moon is a little warm this year. Sister Deng, the landlord, held a banquet in the house with her grandson's full moon yesterday. Today, she sent her son to school early in the morning and went back to her room. Sister Deng actually brought a bowl of brown sugar sweet eggs to my wife and me, saying that the in-laws specially sent them from the family property, which was particularly delicious. Looking at the four fat poached eggs in the bowl lazily soaked in steaming brown sugar water, I have an illusion that I can't bear to disturb them! Don't forget to congratulate Sister Deng on her accident. And this bowl of festive brown sugar eggs adds a lot of warmth to the cold morning!

Cold, winter and twelfth lunar month correspond to October, November and December of the lunar calendar respectively. After the twelfth lunar month, it is the Spring Festival. Generally speaking, people begin to prepare new year's goods in winter months.

At the beginning of the year, my wife's uncle said he would help us feed a pig. Domestic piglets are not fed artificial feed, and corn, wheat bran, vegetables and melons are their main foods. This kind of pig has a nice name in Taiwan Province called "Xiao Su pig", or simply called "vegetarian pig". The year before last, my mother and aunt came to visit me in mainland China from Taiwan Province Province, and told me that this kind of pork was delicious, which was the fragrance they remembered when they were children. Today is the highlight of preparing new year's goods, and we are going to kill pigs!

I just arrived in Hubei a few years ago and heard that there are pig killers. I went to see it out of curiosity. Later, I found that the picture was too bloody. In the following years, every time I met a pig that said I would kill Nian, I gave up and avoided it.

In rural areas, almost every household feeds Nian pigs, which are usually prepared by the elderly for their children who go out! Some families have few people, so they get together to feed one, some feed two, one stays, and the other can sell money. After all, it takes about the same amount of energy. "People are afraid of being famous and pigs are afraid of being strong", not to mention whether people are famous or not, but once pigs are fat, it is definitely not a good thing for them.

Killing pigs requires an appointment. When you are really busy, pig killers have to catch up several times a day and kill a few pigs. Today, my uncle's family arranged a second one, and it was just near noon, so we had to provide lunch for the old masters.

My uncle's house also has a big firewood stove. Because my aunt died early, my wife volunteered to take on the job of cooking. So, today I am particularly interested in the little girl in Zeguo Xixiang (mentioned in the fourth part) when she grows up for several years!

Since I want to write some novel stories about my wife meeting me in time and space when I was a child, I have more opportunities to listen to my wife's childhood memories. The title of "Zeguo Xixiang Girl" is also constantly conceived. Unfortunately, there are still many trivial things every day. Because of my poor writing skills, it is still difficult for me to connect the fragments into a book. Only in a scene similar to this moment, while avoiding the bloody picture of killing pigs and waiting for the opportunity, can we leave the world in front of us alone and re-enter the dream capital of Zeguo Xixiang formed by the intersection of memory and imagination!

The little boy knew that he had come to this strange place again. Although his ass still vaguely felt the pain of being beaten by his father with a belt, the scene in front of him attracted his attention even more, and even the sobs gradually subsided.

He walked slowly in this world of old photos, with dark gray tiles and gray brick walls forming one neat house after another. Outside the house is a spacious, obviously flattened by heavy objects, mixed with pale yellow soil and solid open space, where rice is raked into waves and groups of sparrows chase and play on the waves. One of them wriggled quickly, immediately sank into a small nest beside him, and opened little wings to squat in the nest, as if enjoying sunbathing on the golden beach. The two next to them are unwilling to be lonely. They fly or jump, challenging each other vigorously. Immediately, the third one joined the game between them, and then the fourth and fifth ones gradually became a big scuffle!

Suddenly, a bamboo basket next to it that had not attracted the little boy's attention shook slightly. After a while, all the sparrows flew away in panic, leaving only the bird in the cage flying around in the bamboo basket but nowhere to escape!

The little boy looked in the direction of the bamboo basket, and four or five children were running out of the wall happily. While walking, one of them wrapped the slender cotton thread around the palm of his left hand with his right hand, and the other end of the cotton thread was tied with branches. As the cotton thread gradually becomes shorter, the branches can only be at the mercy of setbacks like a hooked fish.

Several children were lying or squatting around the bamboo basket, looking intently at the sparrows trapped inside, but the little boy couldn't see their faces clearly. Only a little girl with waist-length hair, a round face and a smile in the middle of big eyes can be clearly printed in the eyes of the little boy. The little boy silently went to the little girl and squatted down, knowing that everyone reached out and surrounded the edge of the bamboo basket that was slightly raised and covered. Although I can't hear the voice of the world, I can clearly feel that everyone is shouting excitedly. Suddenly, the little sparrow ran around, and when the little girl covered it with her dexterous hands, the little sparrow could no longer move.

Some guys were disappointed, some reluctantly raised the bamboo basket again to set a trap, and the little girl happily ran into the room and grabbed her trophy. The little boy took a look at the "hunter" hiding in the hiding place and decided to follow him to the little girl's house.

The little boy usually doesn't go to other people's homes. Except for his wedding and celebration, there was no electricity at home. Grandma took him and his sister to someone else's house to watch the finale of the TV series "Stars Know My Heart". As far as I can remember, this is the first time to go to someone else's house alone.

Crossing a threshold that is a little high for him, the floor stepped on by his feet is obviously different from the red and blue floor tiles of the little boy's house. It's a bit like the material of rice fields outside the house, but it's more delicate, flat and clean. The floor plan of the hall and the paintings in the hall are a bit like the god table and the solemn portrait on the wall of grandma's living room, while there is a room on the left and right of the hall.

Although the little girl could not see the little boy, the little boy crept into the little girl's room.

The summer breeze blew in gently from the window, inadvertently messing up the little girl's bangs, and there were a few beads of sweat on her cheeks. When the wind blew, people felt cool. The little girl carefully covered her hands, revealing only a small crack, so that the sparrow just poked its head out. The little boy approached the little girl and looked curiously at the way the little girl talked to the sparrow. He still can't hear the voice of the world, and he doesn't know what the little girl is saying to the sparrow with a smile and a frown. But he just likes to look at her silently and stay with her forever. Although in a strange world, although in a strange summer, I fell asleep with a breeze.

"alas! I have slept like this. I forgot to put him in the toilet when I was busy! " .

Vaguely, the little boy heard this sentence, and as the body was picked up by a strong arm and put into his arms, his consciousness gradually became clear. But he was reluctant to open his eyes until his father carried him to bed! Helpless, my sore ass feels hot again. The father wiped the tears from the little boy's face, sighed and went downstairs to greet the guests. I don't know whether it is too moved or too painful, and tears follow the old tears.

"dad! Come and help! " The wife's cry came from the kitchen!

"Help me add a piece of wood!" When I walked into the kitchen, I saw my wife with a spatula, and she was busy at the moment. Seeing that the little girl and the little boy just described met when they grew up, they are still gathered in an ordinary room in Xixiang, Zeguo. The magical feeling of the intersection of time and space can not help but slightly affect the corners of the mouth, and an unspeakable sense of happiness keeps emerging in my heart.

After adding firewood, I stayed in the kitchen to help her pour water, pass condiments and serve. It's not easy to stir-fry in a big pot. In addition to properly controlling the heat, you should rinse the pot once every time you fry a dish. It's really not easy for people who are used to modern kitchens.

At this point, the pigs outside the house have been completely dismembered, classified into many pieces and placed neatly. After that, we have to refine lard, make bacon, fill sausages, clean up water (internal organs), and so on. Fortunately, there are old people, and many of these things have lost their inheritance to young people (especially those who go out to work). As the saying goes, "if there are old people in the family, there are treasures", we should all cherish them!

Old masters are full of praise for their wives' firewood and rice. She is a superb cook, and the unique smell of fragrant firewood in this country is even more appetizing. After eating two bowls of rice, I'm already planning to walk more miles on the treadmill at night! Every time I eat more than two mouthfuls of rice, I always think of my son's joke: "I accidentally ate more bowls of rice, scaring my baby to eat two mouthfuls!" "

When my son left school, all the work finally came to an end! Then I need to go home quickly, put on dirty clothes that smell like firewood and smoke, and pick him up at my son's school after taking a shower.

Accompanying students is a long and boring road. Children and adults will be tired, and occasional mood swings are more likely to cause unnecessary disputes and even conflicts, which is the last thing everyone wants to see. Before the goal of life is determined, a large part of children's pressure may come from their parents' high expectations or compensation for their regrets. "Paid care" inadvertently shows that children are forced to accept, and at the same time doubles the frustration caused by failure. At the same time, the accompanying readers began to doubt whether the pay was disproportionate to the return, and even realized that they were tragic heroes who sacrificed for their families. Gradually, this vicious circle continues endlessly every day, and the heavy family atmosphere is shrouded in disguise until one of them gives up!

Accompanying students is not a sacrifice, but a lifestyle adjustment! It must be based on a kind of spontaneous love for life and relatives, which does not ask for returns, is not kidnapped by morality, and can enjoy the happiness of participating in the life and growth of people around you. Rather than as a means to achieve a higher goal, this purposeful effort is too tiring for both sides. Twisted melon is not sweet, it may be more important to walk through all stages of life together in a happy atmosphere!

Accompany reading! In fact, it is to participate in the growth of children. Isn't that what they have been doing since they came to this world?

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