When people reach middle age, what harm will it do if couples are used to sleeping in separate rooms?

Do couples who sleep in separate beds for a long time still have true feelings? Three middle-aged couples are telling the truth. I have come into contact with countless marriage cases and summed up a rule that once middle-aged couples choose to separate beds, it is difficult to return to the same bed. Perhaps the fundamental reason why you sleep in separate beds is not emotional discord, but I hope you can have a quiet and spacious sleeping environment. But if the separation time is too long, it will inevitably affect the relationship between husband and wife.

Husband and wife share the same room, but they are strangers. Husband and wife during the day, neighbors at night, unconsciously became strangers, but the stranger finally broke up completely. What embarrassing things will happen when couples are separated for a long time? How much truth do these couples who have been sleeping in separate beds for a long time have left? To solve this problem, I interviewed three middle-aged couples and listened to these truths. Does sleeping in separate beds for a long time affect feelings for middle-aged couples? Statements from three people who came over.

Ms Yao said: My husband and I spend no more than three hours together every day. My husband and I have been separated for a long time. He has moved out of the bedroom since I gave birth to my second child five years ago. At first, I thought he thought the child was noisy and disturbed his rest, but I don't want this situation to last for more than five years. Since we separated from the bed, my husband and I spent less and less time together every day. Every morning before I get up, he washes up and goes out to work. When he comes home from work at night, he only chats with me at dinner, and then goes back to his study to continue his work. Although we are called husband and wife, we don't spend more than three hours together every day. The longer we spend together, the more I think my husband is strange.

He seems to be a different person, hiding many ideas in his heart and refusing to communicate with me. As long as we quarrel now, it will soon become a cold war. No one will take the initiative to apologize and explain to each other. I think if there were no children involved, we would have separated. Now she treats me like an outsider, even the cups for drinking water have to be separated. Maybe it's because they've been apart for too long. I can't remember the last time I slept with my wife. I'm not afraid of your jokes. We live under the same roof, but my wife treats me as a stranger. She neither sleeps with me nor communicates with me.

Even the cups for drinking water should be separated. Long time no see. Our relationship. My wife can talk and laugh with people around me, but she is so cold to me that she doesn't even bother to say a word. The relationship between husband and wife has long existed in name only. When marriage comes to this, there is no difference between divorce and not divorce. Now we'll make do with it. Only when the children come home in winter and summer vacations will we pretend to love each other and maintain the superficial relationship between husband and wife. But how long can this marriage last?

As long as the husband and wife communicate in time and sleep in separate beds, it will not affect their feelings. The reason why I sleep in separate beds with my husband is because I can't stand his snoring at night and I can't sleep all night. When I first got married, I was young and energetic. It doesn't matter if I put up with these little snoring problems. But now I am 42 years old, and my energy and physical strength are not as good as before. I can't stand it any longer.

So during that time, I went to sleep on the sofa in the living room every night, and my husband didn't understand, because it was to be repaid. Several times, I even wondered if I had changed my mind and stopped loving him. In order to appease my husband's small emotions, I took time to chat with him several times. As long as the misunderstanding is solved, the couple will not be separated.