"Don't always complain to others, because this will make you more and more miserable." What do you think?

People have to go through many hardships and pains in their life. Life is like this. There are bitterness and sweetness, laughter and tears, hardships and frustrations. This is life, this is life. It's life. Who hasn’t experienced this?

Right? Don’t always complain to others, because you will become more and more miserable. This sentence, everyone’s life experience is different, of course everyone’s views and opinions are definitely different. Here I will talk about my views and opinions on this sentence, and I hope to discuss this topic with everyone.

Each of us will encounter suffering of one kind or another in life, including inner suffering and physical suffering.

Sometimes you need to tell others about the suffering you suffer in your heart, but the premise is that this person must be the person you trust the most and the person who understands you best. Tell him your difficulties appropriately. , can get his understanding and comfort. In this way, the hardships in your heart will be vented, and your heart will be much calmer. At the same time, the pressure you feel due to the pain in your heart will also be released, and you can feel a sense of relief deep in your heart. This is how you tell him about yourself. The cause of suffering. Dust yourself off and welcome a new life with your head held high. This is the original intention of telling others about your suffering. Don't use your own suffering to win the sympathy and pity of others. Such a person, such a life, such a life is so pitiful and deplorable. The physical suffering you experience can be said to be a kind of experience that life has given you! It can be said that everyone is not willing to suffer such suffering, but sometimes we have to use our own bodies to bear this suffering. Life is difficult and ups and downs. It can be said that letting your body endure this kind of suffering is also a kind of helplessness and tolerance for life! I personally think that this kind of suffering needs to be told to others appropriately, but it must also be told to someone who can trust you and understand you. His understanding and comfort can make you no longer feel the pain in your body, and can heal the pain in your heart and body. It can make you work harder and be more diligent. This is the reason why you tell him. I personally think that physical suffering is nothing. A person should and must be able to bear physical suffering, so that he can work harder and fight harder.

Except for those who believe and understand you the most, others should not talk about their suffering.

If you tell others about your suffering, I personally think that this approach has a very bad starting point. Do you think it is better to tell someone about your suffering to someone who you don’t believe and who can’t understand you? Can you really get understanding and heartfelt comfort from others? It's just perfunctory, but you know what? The more you tell others about your suffering, the more it becomes more and more painful when it wasn't suffering in the first place. Gradually, you feel in your heart that you are really suffering. Do these sufferings really mean anything to you? In fact, you know in your heart that it is meaningless at all. Instead, it will have a negative impact on your own life and your own life.

So give up this sad and pitiful practice! Let the past go. People cannot always live in bitterness. There is still sweetness, laughter and sunshine in life. Cheer up, throw away all the suffering, and welcome a bright and brilliant tomorrow!