The child is ill and afraid of injections. How can we comfort them correctly?

In life, we often see parents or relatives and friends coaxing their children to play, making them laugh and cry.

In fact, it takes some methods and skills to coax children. When coaxing children, praise and praise will enhance their self-confidence, and moderate criticism will teach them to know their mistakes.

But if adults seem to be kind, sometimes it will do great harm to children.

Like children, you can't just tease them.

Jia Jia just turned two this year. She's smart, cute and very smart. She is full of longing and curiosity about the world we live in.

Especially at the beginning when I have my own ideas and establish contact with adults, every interaction with adults will bring great influence to Jiajia.

Jia Jia is so clever that all his neighbors especially like to tease Jia Jia. Every time Jia Jia holds a delicious meal, everyone will gather in Doby. ? Jia Jia, can you bite me? ? This is what everyone says the most.

At first, Jia Jia responded to everyone wisely and generously gave everyone something to eat. Later, she gradually did not respond to this behavior, so she only took care of herself and did not respond to everyone.

Things like Jia Jia should happen to children in many families, because for adults, this is a simple Doby child, but for children, it is not.

So, what problems should adults pay attention to when teasing children? What words will affect children?

What do adults often say? Hurt? For children?

1) Can you let me taste your delicious food?

Many adults like to say this sentence when teasing children. Can you let me have a taste of your delicious food? ? Although it is a simple joke, it is not the case for children.

When a child raises his little hand to give you food, it is a sign of sharing. Often at this time, adults will reply to the child's behavior. Baby who is joking with you, please help yourself. ?

This kind of reply will make children have the illusion of not knowing what you said is true, lose their ability to distinguish, and have a bad influence on children. Parents must pay attention.

2) Don't be afraid of the baby, the injection doesn't hurt at all.

In life, 9 out of 10 children are afraid of injections, not only because of the pain, but also because of their parents? Goodwill? Cheating.

Parents will take their children for injections in various ways. Cheating? Go to a clinic or hospital and tell your child that an injection doesn't hurt at all. I'm not afraid. ?

When the child is really stuck in the skin, you will really feel that you lied to him! This kind of cajoling behavior will make children reject injections and lose trust in their parents. This is the most terrible thing.

In the long run, children will develop a suspicious temper, which is not conducive to their growth.

3) This is unacceptable.

What do many parents say most about their children's behaviors? No, you can't? .

Talking too much like this will make children feel insecure about their abilities and behaviors, which is not conducive to the development of children's self-confidence. Long-term development, children will give up on themselves, dare not take responsibility for their own choices, and have no responsibility.

Therefore, when children do something wrong, they should guide them in the right way and don't blame them blindly.

Do these things right and make your language have positive power.

Accept the child? Generous? Don't refuse his sharing.

When children share things with you, don't refuse. Accept it, encourage and praise children who know how to share, praise children more, and let children have the ability to identify correct behaviors.

Tell the truth and guide children correctly.

Take an injection as an example. If you know that an injection will hurt, don't lie to the child. You should guide your children correctly.

Tell your child that an injection may hurt a little, but when it comes to testing your baby's courage, a courageous child won't cry. It is much better to guide you with the words of God than with white lies.

Give children more affirmation and cultivate self-confidence.

Encourage and praise children's correct behavior and cultivate their self-confidence. Self-confidence accounts for a large proportion in a person's development. Cultivating children's self-confidence from an early age is conducive to their development.

Coax children with skills, and don't have unnecessary influence on children because of unnecessary jokes. While accompanying their children, parents must master methods to create the best growth environment for their children.