Drink a bowl of mengpo soup

? A husband divorced his rural wife soon after his success in middle age and married a beautiful young wife. Friends around him advised him not to abandon his first wife, but he would rather clean up the house than abandon his ex-wife. He said that when he saw a spoiled wife, he thought of his poor past. He ran away from home with his new wife and even stopped contacting his friends in his hometown.

? Every time this person is mentioned, everyone sighs and says that they want to make a clean break with their past.

? This phenomenon often happens in our daily life. After the emperor made his fortune, he killed the hero first. In the company, the elders of several dynasties were the first to be dismissed. After his success, relatives in his hometown were the last people to contact. Former classmates, after taking up different jobs, are not as good as strangers who meet for the first time. Everyone wants to be comfortable in the present role, but people in the past have become thorns in their hearts because they know their humble or glorious history too well.

? Whether a person's life can be divided into several sections, changing the environment and changing friends is equivalent to changing a brand-new self. Everyone can choose to start over and move towards the next stage of life.

? Many people have done it, such as dying yesterday and being born today. With a new affirmation of themselves, some people have failed, like those who can't quit and relapse into drug addiction, falling into the abyss of the past. Just like families separated in ancient wars, some people married a new wife in a new environment, but the old wife's children were brought back from the ends of the earth and dragged back to his first half of life to make up for it.

? I often think that people have made a decision to bid farewell to the past, just like drinking Meng Po Tang, which has nothing to do with the past. A person has a brand-new name, a brand-new look and a brand-new future. Even your enemies will put down their hatred when they know that you have crossed the Forgotten River.

? In this way, isn't a person equivalent to dying once?

I once read a report that a girl was born in a slum. When she was a child, she suffered all kinds of misfortunes, such as her parents divorced, her mother remarried and her stepfather abused her. Until one day, she was mistaken for her. She lived in a brand-new identity and finally applied to a famous Harvard University. Until the police found her, she lived a comfortable life under a new identity. In fact, in her heart, has she always wanted to have such a bright life?

It is often seen that in romantic dramas, the protagonist will lose his memory after encountering great misfortune. The doctor explained that this is a self-protection mechanism for people, which can actively filter out unfortunate memories and free people from pain. That forgotten paragraph is not the same as people's past lives.

? If everyone can forget all the resentments and misfortunes in life and live with hope, it is not to smash meaningless things in life, but to keep valuable things, just like drinking a bowl of Meng Po Tang to make life glow with new brilliance.