Why don't women like their husbands' incompetence?

Because women's vanity and desire to win or lose are too strong. They have too many unrealistic dreams about their unfulfilled future, so they ask their husbands to do it. If you can't do it, you will start to dislike your husband.

Many girls want to be Cinderella when they meet a prince, but there can be many Cinderella. Where can there be so many princes? For a girl who yearns for a beautiful marriage, is it true that only a prince can bring happiness?

Say such a case, the girl wants to find a husband with good conditions, but she has never met the right man. Until now, when her husband appeared, in addition to being ugly, the man was willing to spend money for her and treat her well. She thought, this is probably happiness, too. She is married.

However, after she married her husband, she found that she didn't like him just because he was kind to herself and willing to provide good conditions. So how will such feelings develop? Xiaoyun married her husband because he was really kind and willing to give up, which made her very moved. She is also very happy to meet people who know her. It's just that Xiaoyun doesn't love her husband, and she always dislikes that her husband is not tall enough and handsome enough.

Although her husband gave her a grand wedding, she was not very happy. Now Xiaoyun is sad to see her classmate's husband is very handsome. She thinks her husband is too ugly to go out together, and she feels ashamed.

Obviously, she has been disgusted to want a divorce, but in her heart, she is reluctant to give up her superior conditions and her husband's obedience, so she is so entangled. Xiaoyun's story reminds me of an allusion. A girl had two families to propose marriage. The man in the master is handsome but poor, and the man in the west is not poor but ugly. Both girls like it, so I asked the matchmaker, can I eat the west sleeping master?

We can all see that Xiaoyun is a little greedy. Her core problem is not that her husband is not Gao Fushuai enough, but that she hates this comparison when she sees her classmate's husband.

However, it is human nature that people are more popular than others. There may be deeper reasons for wanting to change husbands after being unhappy. These reasons may be that Xiaoyun has a deep sense of inferiority, or that she experienced an impressive sister competition in her early years, or that her parents always compare her with her cousins or neighbors.

That is to say, she may not get enough attention and love when she was a child. Xiaoyun may feel that he was not in a favorable position in the competition when he was a child, which may be more accurate. So now she has the idea of divorce. She wants to find another man in Gao Fushuai, not only to please herself, but also to have face in front of her classmates and sisters.

Of course, Xiaoyun has the same thing, that is, all the days are hard, that is, he always sees the good of others, but he can't see the good he gets. For example, is someone else's wedding that grand? Are other husbands so sweet? Is someone else's husband so willing to spend money for his wife? In reality, I don't know if Xiaoyun has a goal in life, but at this stage, I can see that she just wants her husband to achieve his goal.