On the wedding night, my wife didn't fall in love. I can't accept it, but she's pregnant. What should I do?

As a woman, I was very angry when I first saw this question. "On the wedding night, my wife didn't fall in love. I can't accept it. " Were you a virgin when you said this? If not, then you are not qualified to ask your wife to be a virgin.

If so, then if you mind, why not tell your wife your "hard requirements" before marriage? I believe that if you show concern before marriage, your wife will judge whether to marry you according to her own situation.

From acquaintance, intersection to establishing a relationship, you haven't said you can't accept it for such a long time. But now that the person who should get married is married, where is the reality of husband and wife, can't you accept it? What's more, the baby can't be pregnant at once. It can be seen that you did not show any unacceptable behavior in your actions. Now that the woman is pregnant, you quietly find it unacceptable on the Internet. What are you doing when you are full today?

In addition, it is not a case that women don't fall in love at the first night. Now that you ask, quote the doctor's words to popularize your common sense.

The first sexual intercourse does not necessarily lead to bleeding. The amount of bleeding is uncertain, but it is possible. As little as a few milliliters or drops, bleed as much as possible. It is even possible that the hymen will rupture without bleeding. It is not uncommon for a virgin to have sex for the first time without bleeding. There are many reasons, such as hymen hypertrophy, tenacity, larger hymen hole, less blood vessels, congenital absence and so on. Violent activities may have caused the hymen to rupture, and some may not necessarily bleed even if they rupture. And some don't necessarily break the first time.

So just because your wife is not popular on her wedding night doesn't mean she must not be a virgin. I once read a joke about a woman who had been married for three years and her husband left, but after remarriage, she still fell red. Deep meaning, your own boutique. Calm down and think about it. Is it your own problem?

As a man, since I haven't spoken my mind for such a long time, it's meaningless to mention it now. If the "virgin complex" is really that heavy, then say it as soon as possible and let other women live. Don't feel bad, feel that you have suffered a big loss, but you still feel wronged if you don't say it. It's boring to play a bitter drama for yourself.

My advice to you is that the past is not important, but the future is the appropriate harvest. Fortunately, happiness depends on your attitude and performance. If you are a real man, relax yourself and take responsibility as a husband and father. Take good care of your pregnant wife, adjust your mentality and welcome the arrival of your child.

Being a good person can still have a wife and children, otherwise you will live alone with a virgin dream in your life.