How to communicate and avoid embarrassment

How to communicate and avoid embarrassment

As the saying goes: "wine is less intimate, but half a sentence is more." What I fear most when I communicate with others is embarrassment and silence. Here's how to avoid embarrassment when communicating with others. Welcome to read!

First, the topic is in tune, so that the conversation will not be awkward.

In fact, in life, we don't mean to communicate clearly. This is effective communication. Communication must be in tune with each other and find the same topic, so that feelings will be promoted faster and more harmonious.

Talk more about the things that the other person is interested in, instead of just talking about yourself in the first person, you should know how to respect the topics that the other person says, and don't perfunctory each other with a sentence of "hmm", "so" and "oh". This will make the other party very disgusted, which will make the chat impossible.

When talking to each other, pay attention to your expression and body. If you always look sad and gloomy, the other person may think that you have no patience to speak, and the other person will change with your mood. If you confide in the opposite direction and you laugh, you will feel that you are "gloating".

Just as each of us will have our own style when writing articles, so will our speeches. Only when we speak in line with each other's beat can we make the atmosphere better, so that both sides will not be embarrassed.

If the other person likes to confess and express his feelings, then ta may be a person who is usually sensitive and has image thinking. When talking to people in this way, we should also use more emotional sentences to avoid boring language.

Second, we should consider each other's feelings when communicating.

There is a good saying: "The speaker has no intention, but the listener has a heart." Sometimes, we inadvertently exaggerate and put each other in an awkward position. In fact, the speaker didn't mean it, but the obedient people don't think so, so they will misunderstand your words.

Even the best girlfriends can't speak freely. Say different things on different occasions instead of saying what you think.

For example, you say to a fat female classmate or colleague, "What have you eaten recently? Why are you getting fat again? " Maybe you think it's a joke, but the other person is not very happy and wants to discourage you.

Don't always expose others' shortcomings and poke others' pain when you talk, which will lead to psychological imbalance and make them unwilling to make friends with you.

As the final exam approaches, I'm studying hard. My friend clearly knows that I am very busy recently, but he will come to me on WeChat and say, "Come out shopping?" Asking such questions will make me feel inconsiderate and give people a feeling of inconsiderate and incomprehensible.

College roommate asks you, "Does this skirt look good on me?" You said, "This one looks good, but it's not as good as the one you wore before." This sentence will not only make the client unhappy, but also make the observer feel that you are too outspoken and have a low EQ.

So we usually learn to take care of each other's feelings in the process of communication, so you will make many good friends.

Third, if there is embarrassment, lead to new topics flexibly.

In life, in fact, we communicate with strangers the most, but we don't know each other, so there is often no topic or the topic is suddenly interrupted, I don't know what to say, and the atmosphere is very embarrassing.

Then if you meet this time, you must find a way to solve it and lead to new topics.

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