How to make yourself humorous?

Question 1: How to make yourself humorous and how to cultivate a sense of humor? To cultivate a sense of humor, it is best to start with jokes. Listen to other people's jokes first, and then collect them widely. Of course, the collected jokes must be those that once made you laugh. Wait until you have collected enough (at least more than 100 articles), then classify them, study them in detail, try to figure out the artistic conception, and be sure to find out the jokes and handling methods in each article (the so-called "sharp turn"). If possible, recite and try to repeat it to others in your own words, and then observe each other's reaction as a reference for self-correction.

There are four points to note about telling jokes:

First, you can't listen to a joke twice-no matter how good the joke is, it will be boring the second time.

Second, jokes cannot be explained-they can only be understood. Too much description will destroy it.

Don't expect too much from each other ―― The most taboo thing is the opening remarks: "Today I will tell you the best joke in the world …".

Fourth, don't laugh before others laugh-laugh after the whole world laughs.

If the paragraph is smooth, you can start "satire"; Compared with jokes, satire needs more refined language to express its characteristics of "fast", "accurate" and "ruthless". Of course, satire can also bring joy to everyone, except the satirized party. There are two sources of satire:

One is the experience of * * *-such as childhood memories, likes and dislikes of * * *, etc.

Second, challenge taboos-politics, sex, physical defects, personal image or characteristics, authoritarianism, etc.

As for the way of irony, it can be said that there are various ways. As long as we fully master the handling method of "sharp turn" and use the simplest language with the characteristics of quick response, accuracy and cruelty, we can "break the demon and get rid of it". The commonly used methods are: straight to the point, homophonic, continuous pursuit, openly praising and belittling, and changing the subject. The yogi must try to climb a flight of stairs to get there.

After mastering all the skills of irony, the mastery of language will certainly reach a very concise and accurate level. For practitioners themselves, with their reaction, induction and ability to grasp the key points, they will certainly reach a realm that is difficult for ordinary people to reach. At this time, we can enter the realm of "silent telling is more than talking".

In the realm of "silence is better than sound", shrugging your shoulders, blinking your eyes and pouting your lips can resonate with people and let them enjoy it; The yogi at this time, to paraphrase a martial arts novel, is already a "peerless master"!

Practicing a sense of humor has reached the highest level, that is, it has divorced from the technical level and sublimated into a life attitude (or outlook on life). At this time, he (she) can see interest in everything, and can always be in a happy state, making good friends and spreading laughter wherever he (she) is. In the Qing Dynasty, Jin Shengtan, who was humorous, was charged with a crime. Before the execution, he gave the executioner a red envelope. After the execution, the executioner opened the red envelope and found only a piece of paper with four big words written on it: "What a fast knife! 」

A person is humorous enough to see through life and death, which can be said to be a positive result.

Satisfied, please adopt.

Question 2: How to make yourself have a sense of humor? In fact, humor can also be accumulated.

Besides reading more miscellaneous books, communicate with humorous people.

The most important thing is to dare.

Dare to imagine something interesting or make up some interesting words in your mind.

Dare to say all this out loud in a crowded place.

Actually, humor is very simple.

It may be difficult to do it for the first time, but it will gradually become a habit if you have more.

It doesn't matter if it's not funny. You can continue to work hard next time.

Remember, you have to call mom to be successful.

What are you afraid of? This is a very popular quip on the internet, and now I'll copy it to you. You have searched Baidu for this thing a lot, and you all remember that you can use it freely at ordinary times, and it is very effective to say it on appropriate occasions. Even if I have heard of it, I will still be very happy. Language is an art, it depends on how you master it. ...

1. Bajie, don't think you are a night pig standing under a street lamp.

Every time I miss a girl, I put a brick on the mountain, and the world has the Great Wall.

When the college entrance examination results came out, the teacher breathed a sigh of relief and said to me: In fact, it is a kind of happiness for you and the university.

Please don't ask him to use his brain-his left brain is full of water and his right brain is full of flour, so he just moves easily and everything is paste.

5. I will help you solve the problem that Confucius can't solve.

6. There are no windtight walls and no hanging beams.

7. When you stumble and become a cripple, you turn around and flash your waist.

8. I don't like to tidy my room. They all call me a messy room hero.

Hope is like fire, disappointment is like smoke, and life is like fire and smoke. ...

You said you would wait for me, and you did. You found someone to wait with.

A celebrity is a person who nobody knows who he is before he becomes famous, but who he is after he becomes famous.

My world suddenly began to snow, my god! Please don't comb your hair next to me.

I like making friends, especially girlfriends.

Fools wait for death, wise men wait for money.

A fat man claimed that he was not a clown.

I envy you for knowing me so young.

1, your name will appear in my household registration book one day!

2, think about the salary, forget it, don't want to live.

I have lived for more than 20 years and have done nothing for my country and people. Every time I think about it, my heart aches.

I struggled with fat and almost didn't sacrifice.

5, life, is life, is living ~ ~

6. No matter how ugly you are, you should fall in love and talk about a world full of love.

7. The ship naturally sinks when it hits the bridge ~ ~

8. When you put on the wedding dress, I also put on the cassock ~ ~

9. I prayed to Jesus to give me a stable life. He thought for a moment and said, let's talk about world peace first. ...

10, say it out loud if you love me! Hate me and hide it in your heart all your life!

1 1. Do all the bad things you can while you are young. It's only been a few years.

12, I planted a bunch of girlfriends in spring, and now it's autumn. Gee, nothing ~ ~

13, you once told me that you would love me forever. I understand love, but what is it forever?

14. A seven-year-old boy is the most terrible creature on earth. They are curious, active, destructive and have the law on the protection of minors.

15, a man keeps his word-I won't pay back the money if I say no!

16, summer is hard. I didn't even drink the northwest wind when I was poor. Fortunately, it's autumn.

17, although I believe in vows of eternal love, I don't necessarily believe in you ~ ~

18, whatever I can't let go must be because I can't have it ~ ~

19, special people never say that they are special, such as me.

There are only two things in my life, 1. This will not happen, and that will not happen.

2 1, adult uncomfortable, comfortable adult ~ ~

22. I know that all banquets must come to an end, but at least, I want to eat well at the banquet! Joke house provides

23, explanation is a cover-up, cover-up is a story ~ ~

24. People can't get along with each other!

25. Whenever I am in trouble, I will read Tibetan scriptures: "Oh, moo, coax", which translates into English: all the money goes to my house!

26. Kindness means bia ji doesn't eat meat when others are hungry ~ ~

I wanted to be a problem of juvenile, but I have been following the rules for so many years.

1, I had a dream last night that the white Venus told me many secrets! It turns out that we were all immortals 500 years ago. I cried ... >>

Question 3: How to be humorous and how to make yourself humorous.

As we all know, when a girl is chatting with you, laughing nonstop is the best sign of a good relationship. On the basis of such a pleasant atmosphere, it should not be difficult to go further emotionally.

However, in the end, how can we make girls feel that you are humorous and attractive, instead of just treating you as a funny character in the group and completely unable to pick up further interest in you? Let's talk about how to be a humorous person first! This is actually a question that many readers keep asking on my blog. They always feel that they can't talk and laugh heartily when they go out with their favorite object because they are too concerned about each other's reaction and their own performance; To make matters worse, they feel that they are simply a poor person, so the topic of chatting with girls is also very dull. There is really no way to create wonderful jokes and superb jokes like some boys do when chatting with girls. There are indeed many good ways to make yourself more humorous. But before I say anything, I have to get rid of the evil factors in your mind that limit you and make you not want to be humorous. Many people say that they want to be more humorous, but in fact, in their subconscious, they simply think that this is a kind of "little behavior" that "doesn't say what you mean, is kind and insignificant". They look down on those who are eloquent and can make people laugh at any time from the bottom of their hearts. They think those guys are ordinary people who can only attract others' attention with one mouth, and there is no real talent at all. However, in today's society, without eloquence and humor, they are always left and right, unable to show their inherent advantages, so they reluctantly tell themselves to be more humorous, clamoring to improve their dull and taciturn habits, but they don't want to make any changes at all! Another reason why they can't be humorous may come from the influence of family education and childhood shadow. If your parents are not cheerful enough and easy to think negatively, it is easy to instill such an atmosphere into your mind imperceptibly through family education. Maybe you wanted to share a joke or funny thing you heard at school with your parents when you were young, but after sharing it with your parents, you didn't expect them to turn a blind eye to you, or beat you up in a rage, telling you that it was a bad low-level joke and asking you not to say similar jokes in the future except to think behind closed doors. This punishment will make you silently start making nerve connections in your mind. From then on, you think it is impolite or frivolous to tell funny things. From then on, you will never dare to share your funny jokes or experiences with your family and friends at will, for fear of being accused easily. In this shadow, of course, you will express your thoughts less and less, and you will be more and more afraid to say something you think is interesting, and gradually lose your humorous expression ability and generous and cheerful smile. Therefore, as we all know, the restriction of our flesh and blood pain when we are young really plays a great role! Although the above two elements seem to be obstacles to making you a master of humor, I must tell you here that it is never too late as long as you make up your mind to change from now on. In my opinion, cultivating another habit, that is, cultivating a humorous habit, is just like learning a new language. As long as we work hard, we will certainly see results. The so-called talent can make us get started easily in a short time, but daily efforts and exercises are the basic equipment for truly developing specific abilities. Every time I learn a new language, I always ask myself, can I really learn and speak fluently in such a completely strange language? However, it turns out that as long as you keep working hard and practicing every day, after a month or two, you will naturally see the results, especially when you have the opportunity to talk to others in that language, and they praise you for speaking well, which in turn will encourage you to study that language harder. Humor is the same!

When you really train your ability to talk and chat, you may be laughing and laughing on a certain occasion. After seeing the other person's smile, you will be more confident to ask yourself to take it to the next level ... >>

Question 4: How to make yourself humorous? 1, the first step of humor is to learn to laugh at yourself first. Know how to be silent, not to brag and flaunt yourself, but just to attract people with a blog. Self-mockery is to look at yourself from an ordinary, interesting and imperfect perspective, give others a chance to breathe, and let yourself fall from the unreachable throne and laugh with all beings.

2. Expand knowledge. Humor is a manifestation of wisdom, and it must be based on rich knowledge. Only when a person has the ability to assess the situation and extensive knowledge can he be rich in conversation and interested in Miao Yan, thus making an appropriate metaphor. Therefore, to cultivate a sense of humor, we should read widely, enrich ourselves, constantly collect humorous radio waves from voluminous books, and extract humorous gems from the essence of interesting stories of celebrities.

3, cultivate sentiment, optimistic reality, humor is the performance of tolerance. To be considerate of others and learn humor, we must learn to be generous, overcome haggle over every ounce, and be optimistic at the same time. Optimism and humor are close friends. If there were more fun and relaxation, more smiles and games, more optimism and humor in life, there would be no insurmountable difficulties, and there would be no people who would be sad all day.

4. It is an important aspect to improve humor to cultivate profound insight, improve the ability to observe things and cultivate the ability of wit and agility. Only by grasping the essence of things quickly and using appropriate metaphors and humorous language can people feel relaxed. Of course, at the same time of humor, we should also pay attention to the importance of not being careless, treat different problems differently, and be extremely flexible in dealing with them, so that humor can provide real nourishment for human spiritual life.

A person's interest can be divided into three types:

Funny-> humor-> funny

"Funny"-We describe a person as funny because he shows humorous words and actions, or looks funny, just funny. The more popular this behavior is, the easier it is to use, the more disregarding the image, and the more incisive it can be. However, considering that with the growth of age, it has to be disguised as an image, it usually becomes dismissive. This trait can be born, and the clever configuration of the five senses makes people laugh at the sight of you. I really don't know whether it is happy or sad to be called funny. Funny doesn't require practice or thinking. If you add dramatic and exaggerated body movements and replace "image" with "pictogram", it will definitely bring short-term happiness to people around you.

Humor-since it is subtle and witty, it is definitely not as simple as pretending to be a monkey or a dinosaur. You must start from your heart, your thoughts go faster than others, arrange incentives with clever thinking, let your audience gradually understand your dominant thoughts spontaneously, and give a knowing smile. Even if you can't tell jokes, you should know that a joke is just a good fish, but it doesn't mean you are a good fisherman. Humor is not innate, but can be cultivated. Flexibility of thinking, diversity of thinking and accumulation of jokes will help you cultivate a sense of humor more effectively.

"Humor"-Humor is elegant and thought-provoking, and exquisiteness is a temperament that emanates from the bones and is the highest realm of humor. You don't need exaggerated body language or practical jokes to convey witty words and deeds. This is the perfect crystallization of wisdom and experience. There are two aspects to what people say. If humor is not stable enough, it can be regarded as frivolous, but "humor" has no negative side. It takes years of experience and a happy and healthy attitude to achieve humorous but far-reaching results with the most witty words or skills at the most appropriate time.

Humor is an essential life skill for modern people and an important key to the survival of 2 1 century. Strangely, there is no academic institution to teach or guide such a profound course. A person without a sense of humor is like a disabled person with rigid limbs and rigid brain. The air around him has solidified. Being with him will really make you want to throw yourself into the well and get rid of this boring little life early. On the contrary, a person with a sense of humor in the upper class is absolutely wise and experienced, bringing you surprises and joy everywhere, solving the embarrassment in an interesting and ingenious way, and getting out of the predicament beautifully in a reverse way.

The popularity and degree of sense of humor in China is not as good as that in western countries. Perhaps it is because we are bound by too many rules that we dare not make big mistakes when we are young. >>

Question 5: How to make yourself humorous? Then you have to learn more. Only in this way can you do it, understand?

Question 6: How to make yourself more humorous and communicate with others, especially humorous people, who can watch some cold jokes. But the most important thing is to expand your knowledge and exercise your thinking ability at the same time.

Classic short sentences improve your sense of humor ..

1. Relax, I'm not a good person. ...

2. Cut the wire with a kitchen knife, sparking all the way.

3. I have been suffering from insomnia recently, and I wake up every 16 hours.

Everyone says I am ugly, but in fact I am beautiful.

I never bully the weak ~ ~ ~ I didn't know he was weaker than me before bullying him …

6. A gentleman is just a patient wolf.

7. I am not RMB. How can I make everyone like me? !

8. Why not find a quiet place and count the brain cells by yourself?

9. I am relieved to know that you are not doing well.

10. Life is only three days, and people who live in yesterday are confused; Those who live in tomorrow wait; People who live in the present are the most practical.

1 1. The road to success is always under construction.

12. I really want to make money into my hobby.

13. The boy I once loved had the most handsome back in the world.

14. A woman without talent is a virtue. I must be too evil.

15. The sign of immature men is that they can make heroic sacrifices for their ideals, and the sign of mature men is that they can live humbly for their ideals.

16. There are always a few mistakes in the long road of life.

17. I want the whole world to know that I am low-key.

18. I accidentally want to grow old with you.

19. It's brave to face his face without makeup.

20. Wear cheap goods and Wenzhou shoes, and the whole body adds up to no more than 200 yuan. Only the bag in hand can be regarded as a high-grade leather bag, because its English name is "Gaojipibao".

2 1. There is love besides teeth.

22. Don't say love to others easily, don't stubbornly open other people's hearts, just make a joke and leave.

Most people want to change the world, but few people want to change themselves.

24. People always want ghosts and gods to know when they do good things, but they always feel that ghosts and gods don't know when they do bad things. We embarrassed ghosts and gods.

When I was a child, I thought I could save the world when I grew up. When I grow up, I find that the whole world can't save me.

I envy you for knowing me at such a young age.

27. Life is not Lin Daiyu, and there will be no various customs because of sadness.

28. Don't call me a house girl, please call me Madame Curie.

29. You said that you might marry someone you don't like in the future. It doesn't matter. I am willing to be the person you don't like.

Question 7: How to make yourself humorous? Why not let yourself become knowledgeable and deep? Wise people are more popular, and low-value humor is useless.

Question 8: How to make your speech humorous? Actually, talking about this thing has something to do with your experience.

When you read a lot of books, you can tell a lot of messy, fresh, strange things that others sound surprised, fascinated or attractive. This is a way to make use of people's curiosity.

The humor you say is also a kind, but you also need to constantly ponder some ways of speaking and how to express it more appropriately.

It doesn't matter if you are incoherent, but it is important to understand many things. When you know everything, you can discuss this problem from different angles, then you will take the initiative, and naturally others will follow your ideas. So I suggest:

1。 Read more books, whatever you want. As long as it is a book, there are always news and highlights, and instant boring current events are all topics to talk about. It is important to read magazines, books and newspapers, read online news and learn more.

2。 Speak tactfully. As long as you express a question tactfully, the effect will definitely be different. Of course, some need to be direct, just pull it directly.

3。 Try to discuss what you know, not what you don't know.

4。 In fact, it doesn't have to be humorous, but it can also be profound.

5。 All aspects should be involved, such as constellations that girls like, sports that boys like, and so on. ...

6。 Pay attention to details. Very detailed things are important.

Others! Almost! You can call me if you have nothing to do.

Now send a Baidu HI QQ! We can talk! ! !

This is what I summed up! What other girls really like is a person's personality, cultivation, accomplishment and that kind of temperament! Funny is just a form of expression!

Question 9: How to make yourself humorous? Say a few funny words when you are talking.

Question 10: How can I become humorous? Humor is a matter of mentality.

Frank and open-minded

For example, having dinner with friends, the beer that I ordered for a long time didn't come up. If you haggle over every ounce, you will lose your temper and blame the waiter for delaying. In fact, since you have waited, why get angry? We can laugh it off and say, "I just learned today that beer can't be served until it's fried, haha."

optimistic

Look on the bright side when you meet something. If you complain, you will never be humorous.

There are many more, I wanted to list them, but I thought it was too much trouble.

What I said above is my own humor. Feelings should be born, because the mentality is difficult to change.

If you want to show "humor" in communication to achieve better communication effect. It is necessary to watch more funny movies and jokes. It's good to use it intentionally or unintentionally when communicating with people. In a relaxed atmosphere, occasionally interspersed with a little "yellow" jokes, the effect is better.

Finally, what Gu Zuo said is that knowledge is very important. Communication comes from communication, and you can speak freely when you have goods in your stomach.