Hong Baolian is joking.

There is a kind of love that is further unqualified and reluctant to take a step back. Even if we can't be inseparable, we should miss each other every day. Such love is collectively called "extramarital love".

I really met an extramarital affair. I think many people are "hard to say". If they say it, they will be laughed at and suppressed by others, so that they dare not look up. Although people's views on love have changed, they will never accept that extramarital affairs happen to them.

A few days ago, a reader confided in me and told me an unforgettable past. The reader's name is Min Min, 36 years old. My husband works in a state-owned enterprise and my child is seven years old. She is well treated in all aspects, and the treatment is also good. She met Mr. Chen at a good friend's classmate's party. Because the location of the class reunion was far away, my best friend took her and said that we would keep each other company. At that time, she didn't think much and went.

When the students get together, it is very lively. Almost more than 50 people came. During the day, they are outdoor activities. In the evening, they arrange dinner and sing songs. Because Min Min is not a classmate in their class, she is "left out" and seems a little lonely. At this time, Mr. Chen approached her and talked with her about his own affairs. He took care of Min Min everywhere in outdoor activities, especially in rock climbing. When Min Min stepped on the air, Mr. Chen quickly saved the scene and grabbed Min Min's sleeve. The two men smiled at each other and suddenly felt a sense of deja vu.

Mr. Chen is an extrovert. He once studied abroad and spoke fluent English. When speaking, is there an English sentence that makes people feel "very humorous", which also reflects his knowledge. He also has a wife, but he works in a city far away. Both husband and wife are unwilling to work, so they have never had children and live a life of gathering less and leaving more. Mr. Chen is very upset, but he is not going to give up his job because he is the director of a big company. If he leaves, it means starting from the beginning.

Chatting with Mr. Chen, my best friend saw in her eyes and joked that they were a pair of enemies. The speaker was unintentional and the listener was interested, so they left their contact information and sent some nice messages on WeChat.

After the party, Min Min and Mr. Chen talked more. Min Min often chats behind her husband's back. Although Mr. Chen was married, no one took care of him, so he took the initiative to invite Min Min out for dinner and tea. Everything came too suddenly, and the extramarital affair made Min Min feel back to the era of love.

"It really can't continue to develop," Min Min thought every day. Looking at her children and her husband, her heart is not a taste. But the love outside marriage is like this-the more you cut it off, the more you can't leave it, and let yourself fall into miss again.

"Let's break up." On a sunny summer day, Min Min broke up. Reluctantly, Mr. Chen agreed. After all, each family has its own, so we can't walk into the marriage hall like we did when we were single.

After breaking up, Min Min quickly blacked out Mr. Chen. I thought everything was fine. However, Min Min's husband didn't know where Min Min and Mr. Chen had an extramarital affair, so he humiliated Min Min and severely scolded him. But Min Min was indefensible and bowed his head to admit his mistake.

Although it is not to the point of divorce, marriage is like this-once a third party appears, even the best love can't return to the beginning. There is an invisible high wall between Min Min and her husband. I can't tell what it looks like, but they all have uncomfortable shadows in their hearts.

Once again, I added Teacher Chen as my friend. It was Mr. Chen who changed a micro signal and took the initiative to find Min Min. "Let's continue to love each other. I really miss you, "Mr. Chen sent a message.

"I never miss you, but what can I do?" Min Min didn't give up her extramarital affair. Can everything go on? When will it end? Extramarital love, where to go, makes Min Min very embarrassed and yearning, but what does he yearn for? She doesn't know.

"Your husband didn't quarrel with you? Still divorced? " The news from Mr. Chen made Min Min nervous. It turned out that when Mr. Chen's husband knew everything about Min Min, he deliberately made trouble. For the sake of extramarital affairs, Mr. Chen really wants Min Min to get a divorce. How many extramarital affairs, all hope to be "positive", but it is really difficult.

"How despicable." Min Min finally saw Mr. Chen's real intention and wanted to cry. "Well, it's all over!" Min Min finally plucked up his courage and cut off all contact with Mr. Chen.

Min Min had an in-depth conversation with her husband, and they also got his sincere understanding. It's all over. Although the shadow of extramarital affair still exists in their hearts, Min Min believes that it will fade and become very weak as time goes on.

"In fact, when two people with families fall in love, there is only one best ending, that is, breaking up decisively and never meeting each other!" This is the truth of Min Min after many twists and turns.

When two people with families fall in love, it is better to have a long pain than a short pain. It's best to put it down and go home separately. This should be the best destination.

Don't think that extramarital affairs can last forever. Most extramarital affairs are not blessed, and they will gradually lose happiness because of family conflicts, other people's opinions, inner guilt, children's concern and other factors. People who can't let go don't really understand.

It takes a lot of trouble to build a home, but it only takes a moment to destroy it. When you don't know where to go because of an extramarital affair, try to be "don't look, don't be mean", I believe time will calm your mood.