What are the four "bottom lines" between men and women, no matter how good the relationship is?

Man is a small animal of social development, and each individual has his unique concept, environment, mentality, personality, behavior pattern and values. However, interpersonal communication does great harm to everyone's mood, daily life and work, and even to the atmosphere, communication, operation, high efficiency and relationship with institutions.

Getting along with others is very important to each of us. In real life, there are many conclusions that we get along because we can't control ourselves and touch each other's moral bottom line, which leads to the final loss of fate. Men and women, no matter how much contact they have, should remember these four "moral bottom lines"

First of all, we can't hurt the dignity of others, so self-esteem is very important to each of us. A person can be poor, but he can't live without self-esteem. When men and women get along, no matter how many relationships they have, don't damage the dignity of others. No one wants their self-esteem to be hurt. Always hurting others' self-esteem may make both of them lose their fate.

Second, make some excessive jokes. Sometimes men and women may play some inappropriate jokes. This kind of joke may touch the red line of others, or it may hurt the other person's heart. It's okay to make a joke when you get along with the opposite sex. But remember, don't make some inappropriate jokes, even if there are more relationships between two people.

Between the opposite sex * * *, which jokes can be played and which jokes can't be played, there must be a degree in each other's hearts. Sometimes joking can increase the distance between the two sides, but habitually making some inappropriate jokes will make the two sides go further and further.

Never pay back the money you borrowed. As we all know, what you borrow from others must be returned. This is also an eternal truth and a kind of civility. When men and women get along, it may be because the other person loves themselves deeply that they will become more and more unscrupulous, and there will always be some situations in which they borrow money and don't pay it back.

Fourth, do things that are not conducive to the rights and interests of others. To put it bluntly, rights and interests refer to interests. "The rights and interests mentioned are caused by objective reality, and various objective requirements for certain goals in order to achieve survival and development." Men and women must not harm each other's rights and interests, and must not go beyond that line.

Everyone thinks it doesn't matter whether to do it or not, so they can do it with peace of mind. But if you think that after the completion of this matter, it is likely to affect everyone's mutual relationship (whether good or bad) and endanger each other's rights and interests, then I advise you to think twice.