Your sense of humor reveals your emotional intelligence.

I met a couple on the bus yesterday. The girl likes playing very much. In front of the whole car, she said loudly to her boyfriend, "sunflower acupuncturist!" " "At that time, everyone was waiting for the boy's response, only to see him vividly perform:" Wife, stop that now, so many people are watching, untie me. "Make the whole car laugh.

I wonder if there is such a person around you? When you talk, you always like to play one or two nonsense jokes. When you are angry, his words can calm you down immediately. There is absolutely no silence with him. Without him, I feel less fun around me.

There are many good-looking people, but people full of wisdom and humor are hard to find.

It is a blessing to have such a person around.

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I remember reading such a story:

Although a math teacher is only in his forties, his hair is almost gone, and his classmates call him "Bald Chen".

Once, a classmate called his nickname behind his back, which happened to be heard when he entered the classroom.

Who knows that instead of being angry, he simply explained in class that he was bald because of illness.

Finally, he smiled and said, "it's good for me to lose all my hair." At least when I was in class, the lights in the classroom lit up a lot. "

The students burst into laughter, and no one called him "Bald Chen" anymore.

Shakespeare said that humor and wit are flashes of wisdom.

A person who knows humor is more likely to win the goodwill and trust of others. Many people like to be with people who have a sense of humor, precisely because humor has great attraction.

The famous writer Qian Zhongshu is also a veritable master of humor. He once declined an English lady who asked for an audience and said, "If you think eating eggs is good, why do you need to know about them?"? What about the hen that laid the eggs? "

He was also humorous when he taught in The National SouthWest Associated University, and his quotations were widely circulated on campus. One of the most famous is: "Beauty is manifested in loving face rather than not loving face."

Humor can not only bring joy and pleasure to the people around, but also add icing on the cake to the conversation, making people relaxed and unforgettable.

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Earlier, Sun publicly criticized Lin Chi-ling as a vase among actors, saying that he would not cooperate with the vase. Later, at the media meeting of the film "The Battle of Martha's Town", they were asked if there was such a thing. Sun was embarrassed and stammered, "What is this? I have to calm down and clear my emotions first. I am too flustered about this issue. " Sun thought for two or three seconds and confidently denied it. Then Lin Chi-ling said:

"I've heard of it." Sun directly leng.

"But I know that these words are not said by Brother Hong Lei. The fact that we are sitting together now is the best answer to this question. "

Lin Chi-ling didn't stand by and help those who spoke ill of her with wisdom. I believe Sun will treat Lin Chi-ling with special respect from now on.

At the press conference of Red Cliff, the reporter asked Lin Chi-ling if he cared about Tony Leung Chiu Wai's height. She said: "A man's tolerance is far better than his height." In short, everyone at the scene was amazed.

In the play, Lin Chi-ling and Tony Leung Chiu Wai have a hug. When asked if he could hug Tony Leung Chiu Wai again outside the play, Lin Chi-ling said, "You have to get permission from another Ling to hug."

Many people don't like Lin Chi-ling, saying that she is pretending, but from her manners, we can clearly see a woman with excellent family background, knowledge and upbringing. She just uses the most elegant and intelligent way not to embarrass the people around her.

Whether in daily life or in social occasions, properly expressing a sense of humor can bring happiness to people around and make the relationship between people friendly, natural and harmonious.

It can make the serious and tense atmosphere relaxed and lively at once. It can make people feel the gentleness and goodwill of the speaker and make his views easily accepted.

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How comfortable you are talking to others determines your height. However, your speaking skills are average and boring. What you are most afraid of is that you don't pay attention to discretion. When you open your mouth, your emotional intelligence is low.

Earlier, Degang Guo called himself Angie's father in front of Sha Yi Hook and his wife in a grand ceremony, which drew criticism.

At that time, I repeatedly said that Anji was his son and could not help but respond: "Teacher Guo, what a shame! I can't do that. People say my penis fish looks like Yun-peng Yue! You say that the boss is like you, I can't live! "

But Degang Guo went on to say, "Nothing, that means your family is very hospitable!"

Although the atmosphere is harmonious, many netizens think that Degang Guo's jokes have gone too far. However, Degang Guo repeatedly sent two Weibo who refused to apologize. He said that he was very familiar with Hu Kejia in Sha Yi and often joked. But netizens think that Degang Guo, as a master, is beneath his dignity to joke about this "connotation".

Later, Sha Yi Hook and his wife also responded to this matter for the first time in an interview.

Hook said: "Adults can play jokes on each other, but in front of children, they may think what you said is true."

Adults joke, hurt each other, and blacken each other because they know each other is joking, but children's world is very simple, and an inappropriate joke is likely to leave a shadow on children and even affect their growth.

Humor may be indispensable when awarding prizes, but there is no need to use such ethical stalks to make everyone laugh.

Mr. Qian Renkang said: Humor is the light of all wisdom, shining in the spirituality of ancient and modern philosophers. I hope everyone will show their wisdom with humor, not create embarrassment.

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A person with a sense of humor can always explore the interesting side of things, appreciate the relaxed side of life and establish his own unique style and humorous attitude towards life.

Such people are easy to approach;

Such a person allows people close to him to share a relaxed and happy atmosphere;

Such people can add luster to life.

Bernard Shaw said, "Humor is like a spring on a carriage. Without it, a pebble can make you very bumpy. " Nine times out of ten, life is unpleasant, but humorous people can laugh at it and make fun of it.

Humor is not a skill, but an attitude towards life.

Humorous people can not only ridicule the small depression of life, but also ridicule the ups and downs of life, and they can find the little taste of life in it regardless of prosperity and adversity.

In fact, you don't need to be funny or knowledgeable. As long as you really love life and look at life optimistically, your sense of humor will follow.