High emotional intelligence routine chat

Chat with high emotional intelligence routines

Chat with high emotional intelligence routines, people who can chat are always liked by others, and if you can flirt with girls, chat with high emotional intelligence If you say flirty words to a girl, she will definitely like you more. Let’s take a look at high emotional intelligence routine chatting and related information. High EQ Routine Chat 1

1. If there is love in the sky, the sky will grow old. It is hard to find a man like me.

2. Have you eaten? If you haven’t eaten, I’ll take you to a five-star hotel... opposite to eat Malatang, right?

3. I have been single for a long time. Even when I see two dumplings stuck together while cooking, I have to use a shovel to separate them.

4. After meeting me, you will find out: It turns out that being handsome can be so specific!

5. I want to go out for a walk. After all, it is a great loss to society that such a beautiful face is always hidden at home.

6. Whether two people can stay together for a long time, three views are very important, but for foodies, three meals are more important.

7. After living for so many years, I still can’t figure out one thing: Why did Lagou hang himself?

8. When you feel lonely, turn on your computer and play a ghost movie. After a while, you will feel that there are people in the toilet, kitchen, and room.

9. Every time I take a selfie, I find that my appearance is up and down, sometimes handsome and sometimes more attractive.

10. Being single is not difficult. What is difficult is dealing with those people who try their best to make you end your singlehood.

11. Self-cultivation for girls to take selfies: take only one selfie out of three thousand.

12. Don’t worry about some things you can’t figure out now. After a while, you won’t be able to remember them!

13. My mother said, you can’t make bad friends, so all my friends are bad!

14. Spring is here, the grass is lovesick, the flowers are in love, the butterflies are married, and the rabbit mother’s babies are all good at making soy sauce. What are you waiting for? Come fall in love with me!

15. A woman who spends money without blinking an eye has only one ending - good-looking!

16. At least my brain will be short-circuited. I don’t even have a power source.

17. Every time someone is mean to me, I feel that there is something wrong with this person. He can lose his temper and be speechless in front of such a cute me. 18. I know I have a bad temper. If you can't bear it, you should reflect on yourself and why others can.

19. If you like a handsome guy, please don’t take immediate measures. You should get to know him slowly first. Soon, you will find that I am more handsome than him.

20. I admit that I was still a pure child before I went to kindergarten!

21. I just made a very risky investment. If it succeeds, I can earn hundreds of millions in one go. If it fails, my two dollars will be wasted.

22. My hobbies and interests can be divided into static and dynamic. Static is sleeping, and dynamic is turning over.

23. If the money is gone, you can make it again. If the product is taken off the shelves, it will be gone!

24. How important is interest: I bought a smart washing machine for my mother, but I couldn’t use it even after being taught it N times. Later, I bought her a mahjong machine, and she not only knew how to use it, but also repaired it.

25. There is no banquet that lasts forever, but if you treat me, I can eat more with you.

26. A very similar sentence: Every time after having an argument with others, I always feel that I did not perform well. Every time I feel that if I organize my language well and argue again, I will definitely win.

27. The greatest sorrow in life is that acne is still there when youth is gone.

28. I want to be your little sun, either to warm you or to burn you to death.

29. Why are you myopic? In order to see the world indifferently, you blur your eyes.

30. In fact, if you do the shameless thing well, you will have a strong psychological quality.

31. Only those who are good-looking can be called foodies, and those who are not good-looking can only be called losers. (One question and one answer)

32. "Do you like small animals?" Me: Of course. "How much do you like me?" Me: How do you say this? It's all there!

33. Even if a beautiful person makes a mistake, others can easily forgive him. Ugly people cannot be forgiven just because of their appearance, let alone whether they have made mistakes.

34. Getting express delivery feels like reuniting with a long-lost relative, but often after taking it apart, you find that the child looks like Lao Wang next door.

35. Jack Ma once said: A man's career and appearance are inversely proportional. I couldn't bear to look in the mirror and it seemed that I was destined to accomplish nothing in my life.

36. No one knows whether you are doing well or not, but when you gain weight, everyone will know.

37. When one or two people say you are fat, you don’t take it seriously. But when more and more people say you are fat, you know the seriousness of the matter. There are really more and more liars.

38. When children are sad, they can be happy just by coaxing them verbally. But we adults cannot do that, so we have to eat a good meal or buy something.

39. The wind outside is so strong today, I’m so scared. It would be so embarrassing if I couldn't do it even if everyone else was taken away.

40. I have a bad temper, bad grades, bad temperament, bad personality, and bad appearance. The only thing I am proud of is: good digestion! High EQ chat routine 2

1. "Is there anything you particularly like?" "I don't think so. How about you?" "I like you very much."

2. "You Do you know where the most beautiful scenery is here?" "I don't know." "It's you, you are the most beautiful scenery."

　3. "I had an accident recently. "What accident?" I accidentally fell in love with you. ."

4. "Why are you here?" "I came because I missed you." "Didn't I just finish the phone call?" "But I want to see you!"

5. "Are you running fast?" "Not too fast." "That's great, I will definitely catch you."

6. "I had a dream last night" "What are you dreaming about?" "I dreamed about you. When I woke up in the morning, my pants were all wet." "I had an erotic dream again." "I dreamed that you took off your makeup and scared me to the point of peeing."

7. "Actually, I He is a person who is not easy to get close to." "Really? How close is it?" "It's just that he warms up slowly and is not easy to get close to." "Then let me kiss you and you will know whether it is easy to get close to you."

8. "It's the day I fell in love with you" "Let's go eat a family bucket" "This way we are a family"

9. "Do you have a map?" "What's wrong?" "Am I lost in your eyes?"

10. "Do you secretly like me?" "No" "Then I secretly like me" "Hahaha"

11. "Girl, how about you let me make a divination for you?" "Okay" "Oh, girl, let me count on my fingers, you are missing me in your life."

12. " Can I kiss you?” “No.” “What did I just ask?” “Can I kiss you?”

13. “I want to go on a trip.” Where do you want to go?” “A day trip under your blanket.”

14. “A family of three, husband, wife, and son. What’s left after the husband and son go on a trip?” “Wife” “Oh, here it is. "

15. "I found that you are good at everything, but there is one shortcoming" "What shortcoming" "I am missing in life"

16. "I'm quite scared when I'm with you." "Ah?" Am I so mean? "Have I ever bullied you?" "No, it's just because I'm afraid of my wife."

17. "You know what I'm most afraid of is my wife." What kind of fruit do you like? "What fruit?" This is your pistachio.

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18. "I like a little brother. "Then he must be very handsome." "You are too narcissistic." ”

19. “In the number 1-9, I am 9, will you be?” “8” “Reason?” “I want to guard you”

20. “I think I’m too philandering. "Why?" "Because I like every look of you." ”

21. “Hold my hand” “Why?” “Didn’t the teacher say before that you should carry valuables with you?”

22. “Can you help me?” Do you want to wash something?" "What to wash?" "You just like me. "

23. "Do you know what is in the eye of the beholder?" "Bishi. "No, show up!"

24. "Hey, will you like me?" "No" "You won't, but I can teach you if you don't!"

25. “Can you swim? No. "Then you need to learn something?" "Because we are about to fall in love!"

26. "You picked butter shortbread. Do you know what oil it is made of?" "Butter" "Then do you know what oil I am made of?" "Lard?" "Love tiger fat." ”

27. “Still not asleep?” “Can’t sleep” “Because there is no embrace of me”

28. “Can you imitate a woodpecker?” “How to imitate” “Just Use my face as a tree"

29. "It's great that you're fat again" "Nani!" "Idiot, this way I can like you in one more way"

30. "Can I knock on your door?" "What door?" "The door of your heart"

31. "The fortune teller said that I am missing something in my five elements" "What is it?" "I'm missing you"

32. "Come out, I have something I want to talk to you about." "What to talk about?" "Love." ”

33. “I’ve been a little busy recently. "What are you busy with?" "Busy with liking you"

　34. "Who are you?" "I am a tiger." "Stop lying. You belong to me." "

35. "I think you make me very cold" "Why" "Because I have no resistance to you"

36. "Are you afraid of trouble?" "Not afraid Eh. "Can you please stay with me?" High EQ routine chat 3

1. 3 modes of daily communication

According to NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Neuro-Linguistic Programming), the three modes of daily communication are: upper stack, lower cut and parallel. What do they mean?

1. Upper stack

It means to put the communication topic. Leading in a larger and more abstract direction will often end the topic, such as the following conversation scene:

Boy: What are your usual hobbies?

Girl: Like reading.

Boys: It seems that you are a person who loves to learn (top pile)

Girls: Where.

2. Lower cut

Contrary to upper-cutting, lowering means to guide the communication topic in a smaller and more specific direction and continue to deepen the topic. For example:

Boy: What are your usual hobbies?

Girl: I like reading.

Boy: Which author’s book is your favorite (bottom cut)?

Girl: My favorite is a Japanese writer, Haruki Murakami. .

Boy: Oh, I also read his book. I like his "Norwegian Wood" better. What about you (cut below)?

Girl: I think "The World" "The End and Grim Wonderland" is better.

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3. Parallelism

Parallelism means shifting the communication topic to another topic. , that is, changing the topic.

Boy: What are your usual hobbies?

Girl: I like reading.

Boy: Awesome. Besides reading books, do you also like watching movies? (Parallel)

Girl: Of course, I like brain-burning videos.

So, how do we apply these three communication modes to our lives?

2. How to use it?

The conclusion is presented first, the upper stack is used to "end the topic", the lower cut is used to "continue the topic", and the parallel is used to "change the topic".

To tell you a true story, a friend of mine worked in an accounting company. Because of her young age, her clients questioned her ability to work, and she felt depressed and angry. So she complained about this customer to her boyfriend on WeChat, but her boyfriend told her: "You have to review yourself first and don't pick on the customer."

What do you think the girl's reaction will be? Instead she became more depressed and angrier.

Boys are more inclined to go to the top. For example, when you come to visit your aunt, he says to drink more hot water, or when you are not going well at work, he says that you should review yourself first... At this time, the message boys send to girls is: I have already given a solution to this problem. There is no need to continue talking. The topic is over.

When a girl encounters troubles, she often doesn’t really want a solution. What she needs is to be “attentioned”, “understood” and “emotional”. Boys should switch to Downward communication patterns: What unpleasant feelings do you have? What do you think your customers do that makes you angry? etc.

So, when you meet someone you don’t want to chat with, you don’t want to listen to a person’s nagging, and you don’t want to respond to other people’s pursuits, you can end the topic by using more upheaps and less use undercuts, such as:

Boy: Are you off work?

Girl: It’s time to get off work.

Boy: The weather has suddenly been very cold recently, so please keep warm. Several people around me have caught colds.

Girl: Yeah, thank you for your concern, you are a good person (top the pile, the topic is over).

When you meet someone you are willing to chat with, whether it is a couple, gay friends/best friends, or the person you are pursuing, remember to use less uppercuts and more lowercuts. If a topic is really After chatting, you might as well use parallelism and change the topic to continue chatting.

In short, the organic combination of the three modes of stacking, bottom cutting and parallel is healthy communication. Did you get it~