What should we pay attention to when getting along with colleagues in the workplace?

Work and life must be clearly separated. Don't bring your personal love life to work, or even share it with colleagues all the time.

In this world, there is no empathy. You think you can get some comfort from others and even help you solve your problems, but others often seem to stand and talk easily, even waiting to see your jokes.

We should be clear in our hearts that everyone can always tell a lot of big truths when giving advice to others, but when they encounter something, they forget all the big truths, even worse than you.

It can be observed that there are many so-called emotional masters on the Internet who teach people how to run a marriage. In fact, they have experienced many divorces themselves.

2. Don't help people make decisions.

Li Zhou used to be very stupid and always liked to give advice to others, because in my opinion, it was helping others.

But the final result was not satisfactory, and even Li Zhou was cheated several times.

Later, I also figured it out. In fact, many times, some colleagues spit on you, just want to vent their emotions, or can't find the right person to talk to.

Their real purpose is not to get anything from you.

But if you don't have proper limit, constantly giving him advice can only show that you are too simple.

Many young people may like to talk to others after quarreling with their partners. At this time, you keep cursing her partner, which seems to help her vent, but they will make up later.

Then she told her partner what you said. Guess what will happen?

3. Try not to pass the message.

It is said that rumors are fiercer than tigers. It is best not to help others deliver the news, and don't let others help you take the news out.

Just like going to school as a child, the teacher may say the same thing, but each student's understanding will have a great deviation, which can be seen at a glance from the exam results.

When you ask someone to help you deliver the message, you may express your meaning clearly, but the other person may still understand it wrong, or add his own understanding when delivering it, or even add fuel to the fire.

A very common thing, which may be passed around, will eventually become ridiculous.

4. Don't do everything.

Humanity is still very interesting. If you don't know how to refuse, let others get into the habit and leave the impression of being a nice guy, it will only make you miserable.

To be honest, most people are double-standard, but they just don't want to admit it.

A person who has done a good deed all his life will end up doing a bad thing in people's eyes, which will be dangerous, saying that he used to pretend.

And people who have done bad things all their lives and finally done a good thing will be promoted as positive models.