My daughter-in-law came to meet me in the city with her second child. My daughter-in-law doesn't like my cooking. What should I do?

My wife and I have been farmers all our lives. The only thing that makes us proud is that there is a college student in our family. At that time, many people in the village said that reading was useless. After finishing high school, my son was admitted to the university. Many people are jealous that my son is so powerful. At that time, we had no money for his son to go to college, so we had to borrow money everywhere. Some people not only don't borrow money, but also say that the farmer's son will not be a farmer after studying, so why should he spend that money?

But although they didn't help, my wife and I sent our son to college. The old couple only had one son. Even if we work hard by ourselves, we will not delay our children's future. Later, my son graduated from college, and because of his excellent grades in college, he soon found a job in the city, which finally reassured my wife and me. After more than a year, my son came back to see us with his girlfriend. At that time, we were all very happy to know that our son had graduated for more than a year.

Because my daughter-in-law is a girl in the city, but my son can't afford much money, neither my wife nor I want to look at his embarrassment. We have saved money for many years, borrowed some from relatives and friends, and made a down payment for our son. At that time, our son also said that he would pay back the money owed to relatives and friends, so we don't have to worry about it anymore. But our daughter-in-law got pregnant soon after she got married, and we are all very happy. But when I heard my son say that he would have an abortion, my wife and I were anxious. How can we quarrel?

Finally, I persuaded them for a long time. The son and daughter-in-law finally let go and promised to give birth to the child. My wife and I can't help anything. We only went to see her when she was pregnant and sent her some special products from her hometown. My mother took care of her when she gave birth, and I am still very grateful to her. Later, the daughter-in-law gave birth to a granddaughter, and the son was afraid that the old couple would be unhappy, but in fact, we think the grandson is the same. We've lived most of our lives. Could it be those who prefer boys to girls?

In fact, I am ashamed of them in my heart, because after my daughter-in-law gave birth to her granddaughter, I didn't take care of her for a month a day, nor did I help them with their children, but fortunately my son's daughter-in-law didn't say anything. Until this year, my daughter-in-law was pregnant with a second child, and my son called me to report good news. When my wife and I received the phone call, we were both happy and worried, because they were all relying on our son alone, and there were many pressures in this family. I also feel bad about my son's hard work, but my son says it's all

I came home the next day and took it to the city. At first, it was good. I cook something they all like to eat every day, but sometimes my daughter-in-law doesn't like it, and I can't bear to throw it away. I freeze it in the refrigerator every day and take it out later. A few days later, my daughter-in-law told me that the food I didn't eat was dropped. He is not short of money and doesn't want me to eat leftovers. Although I promised him, I still don't want to fall.

Until that afternoon, when I came back from shopping, I heard something in the kitchen as soon as I entered the door. When I walked in, I saw my mother cooking. I don't know what the situation is, so I put down my food and prepared to help, but my mother asked me to rest and she came. I think she had to walk to the sofa when she said this. At this time, my granddaughter said to me, "Grandma, grandma is here to take care of my mother. She also said that she would pick me up after I went to school. When you didn't come back, my father and mother

Hearing her granddaughter's words, my heart thumped, but I didn't say anything more. It was not until after dinner that I heard my son and daughter-in-law quarreling again. I probably understand why my son asked me to take care of her daughter-in-law, but how did the old lady from the countryside know so much? Her daughter-in-law is right not to like me. I knocked on their door to persuade them to stop quarreling. Her daughter-in-law was pregnant and sat down to discuss something. As a result, her daughter-in-law said it was none of my business. After that, I didn't dare to be quiet, and my mother watched, but I thought for a long time and decided to go back the next day. I packed my things early in the morning and went to the station before they woke up. Tears came out unconsciously, thinking that as long as the sons are happy, everything at home is happy.