How do parents-in-law fight for their daughters?

When her daughter gets married, her parents worry that she is unhappy, that her work is not smooth, that she is wronged at her mother-in-law's house, and that she always thinks about how to better protect her and fight for her breath.

Aunt Wang Shuhe, a neighbor, is a typical crazy nurse. I heard that once my daughter and the young couple were in trouble and called back to cry with her mother. Hearing this, the 60-year-old uncle Wang couldn't help feeling angry. He took Aunt Wang and drove to his daughter's house hundreds of miles away in the middle of the night.

I slapped my son-in-law indiscriminately as soon as I entered the door, just like a warm-blooded young man. If I pull my daughter home in a few words, I will say that I am a very painful daughter and no one can bully me. Unhappy, go home with dad, and dad will support you. Later, my daughter said shyly that they had actually made up. Fighting is also because of misunderstanding. It's over. Don't worry about your parents, let the old couple rest assured.

On another occasion, the young couple went home for the New Year. Mother-in-law's family has prepared some New Year gifts for them to take back to express their intention to pay a New Year call to Uncle Wang and Aunt Wang in advance. Originally meant well, but when he saw the gift, Uncle Wang suddenly became a little unhappy. I feel that my mother-in-law is perfunctory and joked that I have never seen the world. Gifts are all low-end goods. Who are you kidding? This made my son-in-law feel a little humiliated and his food was not good.

The daughter who was distressed by her husband began to complain privately that her father was too much and completely ignored her uncle's face. Uncle Wang said earnestly, "silly boy, it's all to give you a long face and fight for breath." Your mother and I are both enterprise cadres, and we earn enough money. What's the difference between food and drink? I am not afraid that you will be looked down upon and bullied by your husband's family. " Later, when he went back, Wang Shu specially selected a set of high-end atmospheric gifts to bring back to the young couple.

I don't know if this will really give my daughter a long face and win a sigh of relief. But for example, if the young couple are awkward, is it really appropriate for the elders to participate in hitting people regardless of right or wrong? Fortunately, the child has quality, otherwise, if we really do it, will everyone lose face?

In addition, the same is true for gifts. After all, everyone has different consumption concepts and choices, so it is not appropriate to show their views on the man's family too clearly.

Therefore, I think if I want to fight for my daughter's breath, I still need rational analysis to see clearly what I can do to help her and what I don't have to participate in. After all, the dignity of the elders should also be maintained. Only when they really need to stand up can they have prestige and have more say.

As for the man's family, I think we should live in harmony, not interfere with each other, and not give the husband's family a chance to pass on their dissatisfaction to their daughter. After all, it is not a rational way to deal with it, and it is easy to cause the other party's disgust.

Friends, do you have any better ideas about this? Leave me a message and discuss it together!