A joke about not being able to drive an electric car

This is the problem that your emotional intelligence is too low. You should learn the ability to deal with all kinds of relationships, so that you can adapt to all kinds of relationships in your family. On the surface, you can promise your mother-in-law to learn to ride an electric car. Needless to say, refusing to learn from you directly is a challenge to her mother-in-law, which will make your husband and the whole family unhappy. You can ostensibly promise that whether you learn or not is your own business.