"Why do you want to buy three gold when the bride price is given? Are you greedy for my family's money?" What do you think?

In marriage, the older generation is still very particular about being suitable for each other, but now marriage has advocated free love, but the financial ability of the other half is still within the scope of key consideration.

Two people can choose to stay together all the time. At first, it is because they believe in love. Because they love each other, they can live happily and live long.

Wenwen and her boyfriend Zhang Hao have been together for more than three years. They first met on the software, and then they kept chatting on their mobile phones, which belongs to online dating. They talked for half a year before they made an appointment. When we met for the first time, both of them were embarrassed. Wenwen belongs to that kind of introverted person, and they didn't know what to say to Zhang Hao after meeting. Although the two people chatted well online, online chatting and real chatting are two concepts, so Wenwen feels very embarrassed.

Zhang Hao is even more handsome than in the film, and she is Wenwen's favorite type. Wenwen has never told her family that she has found a boyfriend, and they are in an underground relationship. Zhang Hao's education is not as high as Wenwen's, Wenwen graduated from university, while Zhang Hao chose to drop out of school when he was in high school, and worked hard in the society alone. Zhang Hao has not made any great achievements now, but he still has a stable job. I asked Zhang Hao if he was a very smart person, so I suggested that he go to an adult university, which would be higher than his current salary. I just heard the idea of Wenwen, and I have been joking that Wenwen is too naive. Now he is so busy at work, where is the time to study? And if you have free time, you might as well play games at home. Wenwen had to give up the idea, because he really liked Zhang Hao so much that everything was subject to his arrangement.

Now that they have been together for three years, Wenwen intends to discuss marriage with his family. At first, Wenwen's mother didn't like Zhang Hao, mainly because Zhang Hao's education was too low, and the economic conditions of the two families were different. The conditions of Zhang Hao's family were not as good as Wenwen's. But Wenwen has been persuading her parents. In the end, her parents couldn't resist Wenwen and had to agree to their marriage.

We agreed to get engaged before the Chinese New Year and get married after the Chinese New Year. Because Zhang Hao's family conditions are very general, so Wen Wen's family is not prepared to embarrass Zhang Hao.

There is a custom to get married in Wenwen's family. Before getting married, my mother-in-law has to buy three gold coins for the bride and some new clothes. Because this custom is very common among writers, people who get married will do it. But because of this custom, Zhang Hao quarreled with Wenwen many times.

Wenwen felt very wronged. When talking about getting married, she didn't make excessive demands. Wenwen's parents prepared a house for Wenwen. The house has been transferred to Wenwen's name, and now it is available. The bride price should be given or not. It is a decent thing. If there is no bride price, others will gossip. In order not to embarrass Chen Hao, Wenwen's family only wants 28, yuan.

The elders attach great importance to the bride price, and Wen Wen thinks that after they get married, they will definitely live in a new house. I bought a suite in my own house, so it is also appropriate for my boyfriend to give some bride price. But Zhang Hao's parents don't think so. They always feel that Wen Wen's family wants to cheat his family.

Wenwen and Zhang Hao went shopping in the mall together. Wenwen told them about buying three gold and clothes. Originally, they walked well hand in hand. When Zhang Hao heard this matter, he immediately shook off the hand of Wenwen and gave Wenwen a look. Wenwen had to find a way to please him, but Zhang Hao looked like he was indifferent. Zhang Hao said: "Our family has already given you the money for the bride price, and now suddenly we have to buy three gold and clothes. Is your family too greedy? Why didn't you say this at the beginning? " Zhang Hao said many ugly words again, and the tears of Wenwen came down in an instant. A person ran home crying and felt that her boyfriend really didn't respect her.

because of this matter, the two men had a cold war for several days, and neither of them spoke to the other. Wenwen also dare not tell my parents about it, for fear that they will have a problem with Zhang Hao. Until one day, Wenwen and his mother came home angrily and said to Wenwen, "Your boyfriend is really irritating, and his mother's character has a big problem. He has been speaking ill of you outside for the past two days. Now don't say anything to me, don't put in a good word for him. I don't agree to this marriage!" Wenwen's father also thinks that Haohappy is not the only man in the world, and he can't live without him.

Wenwen stayed at home for several days and sent a message to Zhang Hao: "Do you want to buy three gold and clothes?" "Don't buy it." Zhang Hao only answered two words, very simply. Wenwen gave up and discussed with his family to break off an engagement. Zhang Hao's family immediately came to you. "You big family are really making a mountain out of a molehill. Just because of a little thing, you are going to break off your marriage. Is it necessary for two people to be awkward?" Wenwen only wants Zhang Hao to have an attitude. She looks at each other like a bitch and decides not to marry.

"Come on, son, look at this woman. She obviously wants our family's money. If we agree to her request, who knows what she will do after marriage? Forget it! " This is the end of the matter, because the man is unwilling to buy three gold and clothes.

Actually, there is nothing wrong with Wenwen. She didn't make unreasonable demands. She should also have these customs that others have. Wenwen just wants to get the attention of Zhang Haojia. What's more, Wen Wen's family also spent money to buy a suite, which is much more expensive than the bride price, so the performance of the man is really disappointing. What Wenwen's family wants is the man's attitude, but what is Zhang Hao's family like? It's really disappointing to say all kinds of bad things about girls outside because you don't recognize this custom.

Recently, it is often seen that the love that has been talked about for many years has broken up because of the bride price, and the bride price that boys are unwilling to give is finally given to a blind date. Many people say that because you have been in love for a long time, boys will think that you are his, and the bride price can be negotiated. But the blind date is different, so you have to give as much as you want. Therefore, the love together because of love is always inferior to the blind date, which is really a heartfelt sentence.

I hope many young couples don't quarrel when it comes to getting married, just ask what they want and talk it over. Don't let a good thing turn into a bad thing.