Boys who don't make friends very much

WeChat friends circle, everyone is using it, and it is no stranger. Send some messages through the circle of friends, everyone likes each other, leave a message and be happy. At the same time, it is also a happy thing to know and care about friends through the circle of friends.

However, some people gradually faded out of the circle of friends, while others set up "three-day visibility", and there was no excitement in the circle of friends. Through observation and analysis, I found that most men who never make friends are the following. See if there are such people around you.

1. An ambitious person has no time to care about his circle of friends.

Men should focus on their careers, and they should not spend time in the circle of friends with low heads every day. My classmate, Li Guo, was at my desk in primary school, and in high school, he was in the same class. This is considered as a friendship for many years. It turns out that we have always been in contact, but in the past two years, the country has "alienated" me, and he hardly makes friends. If you want to talk to him, just call. I thought, "Everyone has their own family. As long as they get along well, their families will be happy."

One weekend last month, I had nothing to do. I suddenly remembered that it was Li Guo's birthday, so I sent a WeChat to Li Guo. After a while, Li Guo sent back a message, thanking me sincerely for remembering his birthday. I took this opportunity to talk to him a lot. He runs his own shoe factory now, and his business is good. He said: "It's too late to make money now, and there is no time to chat online." I looked through his circle of friends, and there was really nothing.

Of course, some men are very enterprising, but occasionally send a circle of friends to prove that they are still using WeChat. But they make friends casually, and most of them have never made friends. Returning to life itself and trying to make money are the "serious things" for men.

Men with very low self-esteem have no confidence to make friends.

Men with inferiority always regard their life as "failure". For example, let him write a work plan, he has no confidence at all. Although he worked hard at writing, he always achieved nothing, and his writing was neither fish nor fowl. In the end, he was not recognized by his boss and fell into a trough, thinking that he was useless. Traveling is like being inseparable. If a stranger greets him, he will smile awkwardly and then bow his head quickly as if he were the one who made the mistake.

A man with a very low self-esteem will not send his friends away. He is worried that others will not care about his circle of friends. Even if someone praises him in a circle of friends, he feels that others are "laughing at him" instead of encouraging him. For example, when his parents gave him a birthday, he wanted to send a circle of friends, but after thinking for a long time, he felt that he was humble and not qualified to be happy.

For a long time, a man thinks he is humble and unhappy, and gradually becomes gloomy. He doesn't want to see things in his circle of friends and doesn't care about others. At the same time, he doesn't want to be known about himself. He prefers to live alone in a dark world.

A very rational person will not care too much about his circle of friends.

To tell the truth, the circle of friends is not as lively as before, and there are more people who are not sincere enough. Some people cheat others through the circle of friends and regard the circle of friends as a business circle. In the past, everyone sent some pictures of life and regarded the circle of friends as a window to meet friends.

A very sensible man slowly sees through the circle of friends and then slowly moves away from it. No matter what others say, "out of sight is clean" so as not to see other people's circle of friends affect his mood. I chatted with a male colleague of mine the other day. He hasn't sent a circle of friends for half a year. He said, "It doesn't matter whether you have a circle of friends or not. You should live your own life and care more about yourself." I agree with him. It is better to care about yourself and your family than to care about others every day. Online world, true or false, dazzling, see or not, as you like.

The more rational a man is, the less he cares about his circle of friends. Because in his mind, he thinks about how to realize his ideal, what his family needs and how to educate his children. At the same time, he will ignore the content in his circle of friends, which is really boring. Just look at other websites and be happy. Don't take it seriously, let alone pass it on.

4. A very sly man has been "diving" in his circle of friends.

Some men never send a circle of friends, but look at the circle of friends every day and get to know others from here. Of course, when he looks at the circle of friends, it is not so simple, but thinking about who can use it and who is honest and gullible. This type of man may be a liar.

A few days ago, my colleague Niu Jun received a short message saying that his son was injured while training at school. He is in the hospital near the school and continues to pay the hospitalization fee. After receiving the text message, Niu Jun was in a hurry, and quickly gave 1000 yuan according to the other party's request. Why do Niu Jun trust each other? Because the other party knows his son's name, where his son trains, who is the teacher who leads the team, and what scenery is around the school ... Then why does the other party know Niu Jun's son like the back of his hand? The reason is that Niu Jun sends a circle of friends every day to show off his son's training achievements. These pictures and words are used by swindlers, which makes Niu Jun believe them.

People are separated, and your WeChat friends are not necessarily good people. If you add a stranger, but never chat or make friends, why should this person know you? It is estimated that the motive is impure and needs to be blacked out in time. Otherwise, it is not good for him to "sneak" in your circle of friends for a long time.

5. Poor love rat, her mobile phone is very low-end, and she often owes money.

Some men are too poor to buy a mobile phone. It may seem strange to you, but there are such men in life. He is poor, not enterprising, and muddles along every day. Mobile phones may be second-hand, and they often owe money. In this case, he wants to make friends, but he has no ability. Of course, he is self-aware, so don't send a circle of friends to avoid being laughed at.

I met a man when I was at a party. His mobile phone is cracked and the screen can't be seen clearly. He told me that only the phone function was still working. This is the mobile phone. He has used it for two months. How do you think he will make friends these two months?

Men who never send friends are mostly the above. Perhaps there are other reasons why men don't make friends. Everyone has the freedom to live, can't make friends, have the final say, and don't show it to anyone.