Heartbreaking decency

I chatted with a friend more than ten minutes ago. She said, "If ... if I die one day, I will definitely choose a decent way." .

It's the same friend Once we passed a bridge, she suddenly said she didn't want to live. I replied directly, "Then jump from here."

No, I can't jump.

"Why?" I asked.

She said, "If you jump from here, you will die without money." .

"Ha ha ha ha ha ....."

A burst of unbridled laughter flooded the whole bridge, and everyone on the bridge looked decent, at least decent, and looked at the two fools in unison.

I guess they may be saying in their hearts, "What's wrong with these two people!"

Of course, some people will envy us and our laughter-the kind that ignores the image.

But this is somewhat ironic. Laughing at the content of our chat doesn't seem so strange in today's society. Why do good people say that they don't want to live?

Erci's last sentence, "You can't get money by jumping from here", is not a joke, but a phenomenon.

Whenever someone in the village dies unfortunately, a funeral will be held according to the funeral custom that has been passed down to this day.

Mortuary, funeral service, "Seven Days", condolence, burial, mourning, funeral date, mourning and burial ceremony.

At the funeral, the filial son and grandson and many distant relatives (relatives, in fact, really don't have much contact and feelings, but also come to the funeral because of the world) knelt in front of Peng Ling and cried when they said it, which is also exquisite. If you don't say don't cry, it's called "crying while singing". The louder the voice, the better. That's the rule, too.

At that time, I was still young When they cry, I will run over and ask, "Why did you cry at once? What are you talking about when you howl? I can't understand a word? " Just these stupid questions.

Later, I learned that someone else died and my family was crying.

At the end of the year before last, an elder in the village died of illness, less than 50 years old. He is the only son of my grandfather's sixth uncle. In our place, I call him "Grandpa Hou", which should be the word "Hou", which means very close.

He has two daughters and a son. When he died that year, the eldest daughter was married and the other two were underage.

His wife, whom we call Grandma Hou, is always loud, even louder when she howls.

This voice, like crying and laughing, sounds scary and sad, and many people have left tears for it. I don't know what word she is chewing, and I don't understand it. Maybe it's because I never cried or mourned.

Now, two years have passed. In the past two years, there has been another funeral in the village. She cried worse than her family, miserably.

She also opened a live broadcast herself. People who are familiar with her things, watching her talking and laughing in the live broadcast room, are inexplicably heartbroken, uncomfortable and want to cry.

As we can see, she cries like everyone else.

I can imagine and see her state. In front of people I don't know very well, in the live broadcast, I dressed up beautifully and smiled, singing when I should, and laughing when I should.

There always seems to be a smiling face in front of acquaintances, but many people can still see her cry from time to time.

There is a saying that tells the true portrayal of many people in modern society, "while saying that you don't want to live, you are desperately living."

For those who can live, living is a decent thing in itself, but it makes people sad, tired and heartbroken.

As the article said at the beginning, if you don't have money to jump from here, you can "earn" no money, whether you are dead or injured, but you can earn a little local heat.

This is indeed a phenomenon, a sad social phenomenon.

"There is no money to jump from here", which means that even if I want to jump, I will jump where I can get the money, and I will jump. When yin and yang are separated, I will leave the money I lost because of jumping off a building.

Once when I took a taxi, pedestrians ran a red light, and the driver scolded "I'm dying" and then chatted with me.

He said that many people are waiting for such an accident now. If you die unfortunately, the money can still be left to your family. In case of disability, someone will support you in the future.

I am speechless, which is irresponsible for my life! This kind of living method is the living method of hooligans. But when we think deeply about the causes of this situation, it is another taste, some are hard to swallow and there is nowhere to hide. This is helpless.

A high school principal had an acute cerebral infarction at a school opening ceremony and never woke up, becoming a vegetable.

His parents are old. Because of the high cost of treatment, the old couple ate in the school cafeteria on weekdays and made a living by picking up garbage.

Our classroom was on the third floor at that time. Every evening, we can see the most beautiful love in our later years: the husband helps his wife to walk slowly through the path under the teaching building and disappear into the sunset.

Later, the husband pushed his wife in a wheelchair around the school.

This is clearly a naked show of love, a wave of dog food. In the Seed Age of Love, the school explicitly forbids love, and only allows love to live in its own eyes, or it is furtive, which is a bit more exciting.

Later, I couldn't see my wife. Everyone thought I was seriously ill, but I didn't expect to be hit by a teacher's car at school. Since then, I can only see the old man wandering around the campus alone. In the sunset, he is only lonely and romantic.

After a while, the old man disappeared and was beaten again. When all of us were sad about it, the head teacher said, it may be a good thing for them. The son is still lying in the hospital, and the two old people can't live independently. Great, it's already been taken care of.

Things are not the same as the "no money to jump" mentioned before, but what the class teacher said is the same and the facts are the same.

Whether intentionally or unintentionally, this kind of after-the-fact decency is heartbreaking.

Nowadays, with the rapid development of society, people's life rhythm is also advancing at the speed of "5G". This rapid attachment is pressure, which makes people want to stop and can't breathe. This is a common phenomenon.

When several of them are generally infinitely magnified, it becomes the above two situations.

One is always saying that you don't want to live, and you are trying to live.

Second, the living method of "jumping without money" seems to be an unseemly and abnormal normal state.

I'd like to ask, if you encounter all kinds of helpless situations, that is, doing nothing every day and the place is not suitable, how would you choose?