I have a bad relationship with my roommate, how can I reconcile?

1 You seldom talk. As long as you live comfortably, find more things you like to do, such as listening to music, playing games, reading books, etc. There is nothing wrong with that. You should talk to them. Say it without deliberately saying it.

2 It’s true that she shouldn’t have a bad temper, but you don’t need to care too much about it. Caring too much will only make you more troubled.

3 About breaking things. She should indeed apologize, but you also understand that next time you lend something to someone else, if you want someone to say something to you after accidentally breaking it, then don't say anything like you don't like it and want to replace it. If so, this can prevent others from thinking that things are used too easily. If something like this is a small thing, don't pay too much attention to it in the past, so as not to hurt your feelings and make yourself feel even worse. If it is a big deal, you should calmly tell the other party to ask for compensation, and the tone should not be too bad or too good. When speaking to others, as long as you express your inner thoughts clearly, you will not encounter any grievances. Don't be afraid to express your true inner thoughts, but remember not to be extreme and calm when expressing your thoughts.

4 Based on your description, I think your character is very kind but a little weak. Her character is a bit powerful and a bit social. There are a lot of things she does that are really outrageous, and it's not all your fault. It's like this. As far as solutions are concerned, reconciling with them is indeed more suitable for you than changing dormitories. If you want to reconcile, you must first make sure that you are not affected or sad by what happened in the past. Because after you reconcile, you will inadvertently show some concern when you think about the past. Maybe you really don’t mind, but your heart will be uncontrollable and you will still remember the past discord, so If people with their personality see it, they will feel uncomfortable. If you see them feeling uncomfortable, you will continue to feel even more uncomfortable. If this continues, it will be a vicious cycle. So, first of all, you have to understand that the past is the past, and things in the past are a past point in time. Don't be sad about the past. If you want to reconcile, you must recreate new and beautiful memories. You go buy some snacks, what they like to eat, bring it to them, and don’t talk too much. Take care of them occasionally in life. Remember, the premise is that you no longer mind what happened in the past. You have to use new memories to let them Understand your concern. In addition, from now on, when you get along with them, don't wrong yourself. You must know how to protect yourself. You must first explain your own interests clearly. When you want to lend them something, you must use a good tone to clearly explain what and when. Just give it back to me, or give it to me whenever I need it. Because you don't clearly express the bottom line in advance, if something goes wrong later, you will be sad and angry, and your relationship will be at odds again.

In short, in a few years you will find that these are small things, nothing, and there is no need to care so much. After you have experienced more pain, these really don't mean anything. In school, remember to study hard and graduate.