The biggest "lie" of the parents of the second child is: "I gave birth to a second child to keep a companion for Dabao." what do you think?

Besides parents, brothers and sisters are the closest relatives in the world. In the future, once parents are gone, children can support each other and take care of each other, so that they don't have to face many things alone, just thinking about it makes parents feel very gratified.

Therefore, many parents give birth to a second child under the banner of wanting to be with Dabao, but will the feelings between the second children really be so close?

The biggest lie of parents is that "having a second child is to keep a companion for Dabao", which is too selfish.

1: after Bauer was born, Dabao was not taken seriously.

How many parents of two-child families have been around since Bauer was born, not to mention taking care of Dabao, and may not even look at it. Are parents really doing this for Dabao? Is it really to accompany Dabao?

2. After the second child was born, Dabao was unhappy.

There are many second-born parents who don't deal with the relationship between their two children. They only emphasize that the two treasures are small and give them everything, and they have no scruples about the feelings of the two treasures. How can such a mode of getting along make Dabao like Erbao?

After the second child is born, Dabao will help to take care of it.

After Bauer was born, many parents always kidnapped Dabao morally and asked Dabao to help take care of Bauer. The child was born to parents, not Dabao. Why does Dabao take care of Bauer? Don't say Dabao is young, even if he is old, he can't let Dabao take charge of Bauer's life.

Parents want to have children, so don't put the blame on Dabao. Did you ask Dabao for advice when you gave birth to a second child? Does Dabao really want a companion? Parents' ideas and practices are a bit too selfish.

Parents of the second child should understand these truths and don't hurt their children in the name of love.

1: Bauer is his own child.

I am Bauer's parents, so I must be responsible for Bauer's life. Although there will be difficulties in the process, I have to overcome them myself. Parents cannot ask Dabao to give up everything and take care of Bauer's life. After all, Dabao doesn't owe Bauer.

Dabao is a child no matter how old he is.

No matter how big the age gap between Dabao and Bauer is, parents should remember that they are both children and need their parents' care and love, so those parents who neglect Dabao for Bauer are really irresponsible.

Bauer may be a burden to Dabao.

My parents gave birth to a second child with the idea of keeping Dabao company, but after giving birth to a second child, it was not the case at all. Bauer can't accompany Dabao, but he will become a burden to Dabao.

When he was a child, Dabao had to give up playing time to take care of Bauer. When I grow up, I may have to help Bauer financially. Who wants such a partner?

If the two children get along well, it is not impossible for Dabao to assume the responsibility of the boss, but if Bauer is a spoiled little devil, Dabao may collapse even more.

Dabao can't stop his parents from having a second child, but please don't give birth to a second child with the idea of keeping a companion for Dabao. Such moral kidnapping really made Dabao unbearable.

What do you think of the second-born parents giving birth to a second child under the banner of accompanying Dabao? Welcome to leave a message for discussion.