People say you think too much. Do I really think too much? How should I reply?

First, make sure that what the other person said you wanted more happened.

If it has happened, there is a certain possibility of factual deviation. You may have seen part of the fact, which is not comprehensive, so give up exaggerating that part of the fact and increase your troubles. If it hasn't happened yet, keep some vigilance first and then observe the development of the situation. If something has happened and you see it, then you should stand firm and don't argue with the person who said it to you. This person advises you to doubt yourself, deny yourself, indirectly foil yourself and let you listen to him. At this time, all you have to do is say yes, I am such a person, yes, you are right, so don't stay with me, so as not to affect you, so that his trick will be solved by you. As long as you firmly believe that you are right in your heart, don't provoke such a person, because no matter whether you win or he wins, he will continue to frame you according to his own ideas and use others to discredit you.