30 Is there really no market for older leftover women?

As long as you want to get married, age 30 is not a big problem, so there is still a market. In reality, the older you get, the fewer potential partners you have. Fewer people don’t mean none. Maybe you will meet someone who is truly suitable for you at this age.

Let’s first analyze why some people think that girls over 30 have no market in marriage. Some people say that the essence of marriage is a transaction, so there is nothing wrong with comparing marriage to a market. Out of the instinct of racial continuation, the purpose of getting married is to have children, and a woman’s fertility will drop significantly after the age of 30. There is another popular joke in the past, which is that no matter whether a boy is 18 years old, 28 years old, 38 years old or 88 years old, he likes 18-year-old girls. This joke seemed funny at first, but upon closer inspection I found this concept to be a bit stinky. The joke comes from life. In fact, men do prefer young and beautiful girls.

After women reach the age of 30, there will be fewer men to choose from, so some people feel that there is no market after the age of 30. After you reach the age of 30, you may still be charming and have a more mature charm, but compared with the little girl in her early twenties, you are still a little less spiritual. Therefore, some men will pursue younger girls instead of pursuing older sisters. And under normal circumstances, women will look for men who are slightly older than themselves or of the same age as their partners. Of course, there are also a small number of people who like sibling relationships. Boys search downwards, while girls search upwards. As a result, 30-year-old sisters have too few people to choose from.

Some people say that the reason why they are left behind is because they are too picky, but I think this is not a pick, but an obsession for a better life. It's just that she didn't meet the right person when she was in her 20s. You may not encounter it when you are in your 30s. In the journey of life, some people decide to find a fixed partner at the age of 20 to move forward together, while some people choose to keep this position and continue to wait for the most suitable person, so they may miss many people. , there may be very good people among these people. Just like the ears of rice in the wheat field, the one we can grab with our hands may not necessarily be the best one.

After the age of 30, you can lower your requirements appropriately, but there is no need to let yourself go. There is no need for us to point fingers at those sisters. After all, marriage is a personal matter. The above is my personal opinion. To summarize, women over 30 can still find partners in the marriage market.