You can't help losing your temper when you encounter angry things outside! No matter how many people are watching, vent! What should I do?

There must be methods and skills to deal with problems. People's language expression should be improved in the future.

In doing things in society, we must be justified. At the same time, there must be tolerance to make people think. Please note that you are the China of life. The quality of life is not high. A highly self-disciplined western country. For example, Germany. Even Japan.

The old lady cut in line, which harmed your interests. This also violates the rules. You can't help it if the other person is thick-skinned Unless there is a security guard or a mall manager to maintain order at the scene. At best, they are trying to convince you. Do not accept any coercion. So sometimes you have to learn to solve this kind of thing by yourself. You don't have to yell at her. You can turn around and ask the people behind you. She said she was always in front of me. Did you all see it? You should unite the majority and isolate her. Bore her. Take a step back and you may feel embarrassed. You could have used other friends behind you who cut in line like you. It's a pity that you didn't think that fighting alone became a problem for you. Not everyone's problem. You have no power to mobilize the masses. In the struggle, you are as helpless as she is, giving people a joke. So don't lose your temper It is right to reason with her.

There are many times when I am angry outside. You needn't lose your temper. A cultured, rational, intelligent and tolerant person is seldom angry. Being angry shows that your cultivation quality is far from enough. It is rare to remain calm and rational in a conflict. Don't be controlled by the other party and fall into scolding and personal attacks. That's just about things, not people. You have something to deal with. Only people are right about things, not people. Just talk about things, not people themselves. You should seize the reason when the other person attacks you personally, and don't relax what she does. In anger, he began to fight back himself. You are in love with her. Because everyone wants to save face. If you want her to go, you should at least save face. If you lose face, the other party will ignore it. As you said, you have no face to take it, so you don't want to lose face at all. Don't corner each other. Learn to be good at fighting. Dare to express words and solve problems. Dare to win over the masses. Strive for the support of the masses. In this way, you can win the struggle when you are right. Don't give the masses a chance to watch the fun.