What do avoidant lovers think if they don't return messages?

Avoidant lovers don't return your messages. What is Ta thinking?

In the love period, avoidance means not returning information or returning information very slowly, which usually happens after the love period, or the "stress period" when some contradictions and conflicts break out between you.

1 No message back. He may be really busy with other things, such as working and reading, playing games, bragging to his brother, even telling jokes and watching funny videos in other WeChat groups, even catching up on sleep or simply emptying himself.

Many girls are already very angry when they see this. "What? Would rather play games than stay in a daze and not chat with me?

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Avoiding the acquisition of energy itself does not occur in close contact and interaction with others, which means that he is very comfortable and comfortable alone. Reading can improve yourself, playing games can relax your mood, and sleeping can rest. Small talk is really meaningless to him. He not only has to use his brain, but also bears emotional pressure that he can't bear at all.

Anxious people really can't understand why they fall in love with me when they are so comfortable. Why not stay alone?

Although it sounds hard to fight, in the typical avoidance concept, "I am with you because I like you." Being with you is the best proof that I like you.

That's why if the other person confirms to himself over and over again, "Do you love me or not? Do you like me or not? " After entering a love relationship, the escaping heart will actually feel annoyed or even disgusted.

"I am the most comfortable. If I don't like you, I really don't want to get myself into trouble. After all, falling in love and intimacy are very troublesome things. I have proved by my actions that I like you. Why do you have to ask me this question again and again? "

2] If he doesn't respond to you, he may be really cheating on you with others.

Many girls, from the moment when the other party doesn't reply to the news, have already made up the intimate drama of holding hands with others.

Indeed, your concern is reasonable, and there are many evasions that are not against love rat. There are also many escapes in love rat and love rat.

For cheating, or having an affair with other people in love, I have always insisted that "cheating is not terrible, but being caught cheating by the other party is a bit rubbish."

Neptune can chat on multiple lines, manage time limits, take care of love and even give you a very silky love experience.

About extramarital affairs

A restless person, his body and mind are always on the way to derailment.

Because you can't watch him 24 hours a day, and you can't keep him at home. Even if you confiscate his mobile phone and restrict his personal freedom, his brain can still fantasize.

However, if a person has no second thoughts on you and is eager to stare at others and inspect the post to collect evidence, it will only bring a lot of trouble to the feelings of two people and increase the gap between them.

For anxious people, they don't like chatting in essence, but are addicted to the feeling that there is always someone with me.

Interesting things about each other were basically talked about during your ignorant love period. Once in a stable relationship, avoidant people will shift their energy and time to other important things.

Even many avoidant people force themselves to nod when they find themselves interested in love.

"After all, intimate relationships are unreliable, but we still have to seriously engage in money, career and study." He has no doubt about your love, but he has great doubts about the intimate relationship itself.