Why is it difficult to be a stepmother?

Mom:

You were sleeping soundly when your mother suddenly opened your quilt, cursed at you and kicked you off the bed.

After breakfast, your mother was still nagging at the dinner table, saying that you were lazy, that you had no self-discipline, that you were going to be a loser, and you thought to yourself that you just slept for an extra hour. , as for what?

You have a few pimples on your face. Your mother saw it, so she sarcastically said: Look, stay up late again! If you stay up late any longer, your face will be ruined!

Your father was eating silently on the side without saying a word.

You were playing a game, and your mother called you to go downstairs to buy something. The fight was getting fierce. After calling you several times and still no response, your mother began to roar: If you don’t come over, she will kill you. Your phone/computer was smashed! You had to get up and help run errands, while she complained that you only knew how to play all day long, and didn’t even help you when the oil bottle fell over...

You bought the wrong thing, and your mother blamed you a little. It’s useless, you can buy the wrong thing, you just eat, sleep and play all day long, you are just a shit making machine! You smacked your mouth with a very impatient expression, thinking that you bought the wrong one, why don't you just buy another one? When she saw you acting like this, she became even more angry and scolded you even more vigorously.

Your father was smoking a cigarette and said nothing.

You won’t hate her, you will just find her nagging and think she is experiencing early menopause.

Same scene.

Stepmother:

You were sleeping soundly when your stepmother suddenly lifted your quilt, cursed at you and kicked you off the bed.

After breakfast, your stepmother was still nagging at the dinner table, saying that you were lazy, that you had no self-discipline, that you were about to become a loser, and you thought to yourself that you just slept for an extra hour. As for what?

You had a few pimples on your face, and your stepmother saw it, so she sarcastically said: Look, stay up late again! If you stay up late any longer, your face will be ruined!

Your father was eating silently on the side without saying a word.

You were playing a game, and your stepmother called you to go downstairs to buy something. The fight was getting fierce. After calling you several times and still no response, your stepmother started yelling: If you don’t come over, she will take your cell phone. /The computer was smashed! You had to get up and help run errands, while she complained that you only knew how to play all day long, and didn't even help you when the oil bottle fell over...

You bought the wrong thing, and your stepmother blamed you for nothing. None, you can buy anything wrong, you only know how to eat, sleep and play all day long, you are a shit making machine! You smacked your mouth with a very impatient expression, thinking that you bought it wrong and you could just buy another one. When she saw you acting like this, she became even more angry and scolded you even more vigorously.

Your father was smoking a cigarette and said nothing.

Happy people are always similar, but unfortunate people have their own misfortunes.

Reposted from the Internet to answer the original poster. May you all gain happiness.