The old man lives with his son and daughter-in-law When the son dies, can the daughter-in-law ignore the old man?

Now according to the new civil code, the daughter-in-law has no obligation to support her in-laws, but only helps to support them. Therefore, if the son dies, the daughter-in-law really has no responsibility to support her in-laws, and the daughter-in-law can ignore the elderly. However, judging from the traditions, public order and good customs of our country for thousands of years, especially in rural areas, if the daughter-in-law really does this, I am afraid that her spine will be poked off.

Once worked in a company for several years, I heard an old man in the company talk about such a thing.

This company was founded by the boss and his sister. When the brother and sister were young, their father died in a car accident. At that time, my brother was 9 years old, my sister was 7 years old, and my mother was only in her thirties.

The boss's family is bigger, but in his father's generation, it is less, only one brother, but many cousins. The boss's father is smart and can bear hardships. In the late 1980s and early 1990s, he drove a truck, and his life was relatively comfortable, which was envied by his cousins.

After the death of the boss's father, the family was relatively rich and lost tens of thousands of dollars in the car accident. At that time, several big uncles all used their brains.

At that time, the boss's grandmother was still alive, so they teamed up to confuse the old lady and said, "Your daughter-in-law is only in her thirties, and she is still so young, so she will definitely lose her job and will not support the elderly. Then she will take your son's property and remarry. What if she leaves? Don't talk about you, even your grandson fell to the ground and nobody cared. Why don't you let her go back to her family now, and we will help you raise your grandson and let the children in front of us raise you? "

It is said that the old lady was shaken at that time and didn't know what her daughter-in-law was thinking. She was also afraid that her daughter-in-law would take away her son's hard-earned family business, leaving her and her two children unattended, and finally agreed to the suggestions of several nephews.

Several uncles and aunts of the boss took people to separate the boss. I heard that the boss was only 9 years old at that time, and his sister was alone with a stick and a kitchen knife, guarding the door and hitting anyone who dared to enter the door. Several uncles are also afraid of villagers' jokes, so they don't work hard, so aunts curse around the boss's house. In the past, rural women swore in the street. I believe everyone knows that there is nothing ugly to curse.

Later, an old man in their family stood up and called the boss and the old lady together. Village cadres also participated. The boss's mother said that without the old man and children, she would never leave this house, and she would definitely raise her children and her mother-in-law. If one day, she wants to remarry, she won't take a penny, all for her two children. But now, whoever dares to come to her house to rob her property in the name of separation, she will take her two children and fight with them desperately.

In this way, the boss's uncles gave up, but the aunts did not give up. After several years, they still care about other people's affairs, and often say some ugly words to their neighbors, which ruined the reputation of their boss and mother.

But the boss's mother is very strong, never quarrels with these people, and devotes herself to raising children and supporting the elderly. Now more than 30 years have passed, and the boss's mother is over 60 years old and has always regarded her mother-in-law as her own mother. The old lady and the queen mother came, because she was too old to get out of bed and had severe constipation. The boss and mother help her dig with their hands. Even in the last few days when I was paralyzed in bed, I was clean and didn't have a bedsore. Filial piety to mother-in-law has always been famous.

Brother and sister are also more sensible. In order to help their mother, they stopped going to school a long time ago and learned to do business with a distant uncle. They got bigger and bigger, developed better and better, and gradually had their current company.

Up to now, in the nearby village, when the boss's mother is mentioned, everyone gives a thumbs up and says that the old lady is really blessed. A good daughter-in-law who is widowed at the age of 30 and has worked hard to raise children and honor the elderly can't be better than those who are both husband and wife. The town also gave her many awards of "a good daughter-in-law who respects her parents".

In the past, in the family, the status of daughter-in-law was relatively low, and she often only had a job and could not enjoy any happiness. Nowadays, with the development of society, women's family status and social status are getting higher and higher, which generally does not happen. In terms of supporting the elderly, the law also clearly stipulates that the daughter-in-law can completely ignore the elderly.

Of course, the old man can also advocate giving his son's property to support his old age, if his son has it.

There is also that although the daughter-in-law can ignore it, if there is a grandson, the grandson must support the elderly. Of course, all this is based on conscience, and the quality of support is ok. Isn't it the same with your own son?

In addition, I have seen many daughters-in-law take the initiative to take the responsibility of filial piety to their sons and overcome difficulties to support their in-laws. I often see and hear beautiful stories about my good daughter-in-law and filial piety to my in-laws. Such a daughter-in-law deserves respect and emulation.