My son is 3 years old. What should my father and I teach him?

More and more parents realize the importance of sex education for their children, actively study many related courses and read many related books. However, even if we make a good knowledge reserve and don't pay attention to the details of life, there will be many problems in sex education, and even affect the final result. Next, let's take a look at the details of life that parents should pay attention to when educating their children about sex.

What kind of life details should parents pay attention to when educating their children about sex?

1, take a bath.

Before the child is 3 years old, parents can give the child a bath, and in the process of bathing, they can pass on gender knowledge to the child. You can also show your children your body and tell them the difference between men and women. But children over 4 years old must pay attention to taking a bath. It is very important that the father and the boy take a bath together and the mother and the girl take a bath together. Because it helps to establish children's gender awareness and privacy boundaries.

2. Avoid children when changing clothes.

Some parents don't treat their children as human beings, or treat them as independent personalities, and don't avoid them when changing clothes. If you are the guardian of the child's gender, you can do this for the time being, but the gender difference between the guardian and the child will affect sex education. If children often change clothes in front of them, they will be curious about the body of the opposite sex. If they don't see the right answer from their parents, they will explore for themselves, which will easily hurt or be hurt by others.

Don't go to the toilet in front of the children.

The same is true when going to the toilet, especially when the gender of the guardian and the gender of the child are different. Some parents think that there is no need to be too particular at home, and don't close the door when going to the toilet. Always convey the wrong ideas to children in this way. There is no need to close the door when going to the bathroom. When you go to the toilet outside, if you continue this behavior, you will be peeked if you are not careful, and the bad guys will enter empty.

Don't let children find out that their parents have sex.

If the child is too young, don't let the child find out that his parents are having sex, because you can't explain it to him well. If you accidentally arouse the child's curiosity, it will be more troublesome. The main contents of sex education for children of different ages are different, so we must not advance education.

5. Don't wear pants for children.

When children are young, they can wear pants at home and try to wear pants when they go out. First of all, wearing open-backed pants for children is not conducive to cultivating children's gender awareness and protecting their own awareness. In addition, there are a lot of abnormal news, and children who don't wear open-backed pants are easily targeted by bad guys.

6. Don't let children urinate anywhere.

I often see many children urinating and urinating everywhere outside, exposing their bodies. First of all, this is an uncivilized phenomenon in itself. Don't let children take it for granted and think that this is the right behavior. If the child wants to go to the toilet, take the child to the public toilet, and don't let the child develop this habit in public.

The guardian must carefully study the related aspects of sex education. Including the details of life, otherwise sex education will have bad results.