What is the mentality of people who speak ill of you behind your back?

Those people speak ill of you behind your back, but dare not speak ill of you in front of others for fear that you will know. They will speak ill of you in front of others, but pretend to be nice to you. This kind of person is a typical villain. The reason why these villains speak ill of others behind their backs has these three kinds of mentality;

The first mentality is to be jealous of you.

They speak ill of you behind your back just because you are better than him. You should be jealous of your talent. But they can't surpass you, so they can only speak ill of you behind your back to express their dissatisfaction.

In fact, such people are smarter than themselves. They think they speak ill of others, and no one pays attention to them, and others don't know. In fact, there is no windtight wall in the world, and people will find it sooner or later.

We don't need to be angry when we meet such people. He is jealous of you, but in fact he admits your Excellence from the side. Excellent people will always be envied. Let's get used to it.

The second mentality is to discredit you.

The reason why I want to discredit you may be that you have offended him before, but you didn't know it, and he didn't tell you, just secretly kept it in mind. In fact, this kind of person has a dark heart and belongs to the type of revenge. His purpose is to provoke everyone's hostility to you. He wants to kill people with a knife.

If you meet such a person, you run over and have a big fight with him, and you fall into his trap. They are waiting for you to quarrel with him, and they will pretend to be the weak side in the quarrel, so that your bad image in others' hearts can be realized.

The third mentality is simply to hit you.

This situation is mostly that you and he are in a competitive relationship. For example, you both have the potential for promotion, but the leader is considering whether to choose you or him. At this time, he will deliberately speak ill of you behind your back, and then let the rumors spread to the leaders, who will naturally choose him.

No matter which of the above three mentalities is occupied, it can prove that the other person is a villain, because an open-minded and aboveboard person would never do such a thing.